Neurobics, one of the easiest but extremely effective methods of training human brain, has been gaining popularity over the last ten years. Mental gymnastics has been invented by the two Americans – neurobiologist Lawrence Katz and writer Manning Rubin. They were proceeding from the simple and well-known fact: when we perform the same tasks from day to day, it becomes harder for us to concentrate on the new things – our memory grows weaker and our focus deteriorates, our mental capacity decreases because the connection between the brain’s nerve cells becomes worse.

Before it was considered that the brain cell that has failed once does not get restored, but now this claim has been proven wrong. It turns out that the nerve cells as well as the brain cells may be reconstructed with the help of regular mental excercises. This is exactly the reason why neurobics has been developed.

In order to train the brain and maintain it in the operating state, you should constantly surprise it and make it work in a different mode. This is the essense of neurobics: breaking the customary sequence of events, introducing the novelty into practically everything you do automatically on a daily basis without even stopping to think. It is the the unusual things that stimulate the brain, attention, and memory.

Exercises for memory improvement and intellectual capabilities development can and should be done at any age. The best part is that you can train your brain at any time and under any circumstances: at home, on the way to work, during a lunch break, while making a meal, and even while taking a bath. Here are a few techniques from the neurobics.

Changing hemispheres. Brush your teeth, button up your shirt, type on the computer’s keyboard with your left hand (and if you are left-handed, then do it with your right hand). When you do that, the motor cortex of the brain’s right hemisphere gets activated. This favorably affects your creative abilities and thinking outside of the box.

Transforming into a bat. Move around your house, which you know so well, with your eyes closed. This leads to you your sensory areas of the brain that are rarely used or not used to get turned on. This is also a great exercise for neurons in your whole brain.

Getting born all over again. Do not be afraid to change your image. Wear new and unusual clothes, experiment with your hair style. A person feels different when he or she tries on a new appearance. Think about what effect wearing a suit has on a man, or wearing high heels on a woman. The new type of thinking comes with the new sense of yourself.

Changing up your axes. Go to work by the new and unaccustomed route, even if it takes longer. Visit museums and exhibitions, travel more, spend every vacation in a new place. This helps develop the spatial memory. The recent research proves that even your hippocampus slightly increases in size as the result of this.

Breaking down the routine. Switch the interior in your home and office more often, shift the things on your work desk weekly, renew the desktop background regularly, try exotic dishes at restaurants, experiment with your perfume. This leads to your senses getting activated. The novelty stimulates the brain’s sensory entries, your associative memory improves.

Mastering rhetorics. Try answering even the simple questions like “How are you?” and “What’s new?” in a non-trivial way. Abandone the stereotypes, empty and meaningless phrases. Each time make up new answers. Remember the jokes, come up with new funny stories, and make sure to share them with your friends. Your left temporal region of the brain, Wernicke area, responsible for understanding information, and Broca’s area, responsible for speech production, both get stimulated when you do that.

These exercises are simple and fun, but they are guaranteed to increase your brain power exponentially!

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The naturopaths believe that there are seven simple rules for a good night sleep that have been developed based on the foundations of classic medicine and alternative medicine methods. So here we go…

1. Keep “sleeping herbs” in your medicine cabinet. Unlike sleeping pills, herbal soothing decoctions and tinctures do not cause addiction. In order to reach the desired effect, it is necessary to take the sleeping herb twice a day: after dinner and before going to sleep. The herbs that possess a gentle but effective sleeping effect are valeriana, hop, melissa, motherwort, and peony. You can take a single herb tincture (up to 30-40 drops) or you can try to mix the herbs together yourself (also so that the total volume does not exceed 30-40 drops) and figure out the best combination that works for you. Keep in mind though that all sedative herbs lower your blood pressure, therefore hypotonics (people with naturally low blood pressure) should be very careful when taking them.

2. Light dinner before going to sleep. Those who do not eat at all after 6pm sleep worse, their sleep is shallow and disturbed. The fact is that the brain needs fuel even during sleep. So the optimal option is a light dinner about half an hour before going to sleep with a small amount of carbohydrates. This will increase the serotonin level and normalize the blood sugar level, which have an overall calming effect on the whole body. Therefore the old-fashioned glass of hot milk with honey before bed, a cracker with a piece of cheese or half a banana will come in handy.

3. Remember about the “sleep hygiene”. It’s not as important to make yourself go to sleep at 10pm. We all understand that nowadays it is almost impossible for any working adult. However, the most important thing is to go to sleep at the same time. The worst thing you can do is have “peaks” in your sleeping schedule. Every night go to sleep in a ventilated room. Avoid working out right before sleep. Also avoid movies with uneasy music (anxious tones are responsible for disrupting your sleep).

4. Do not drink before going to sleep. It is important. Despite the fact that alcohol has a relaxing effect, you should give it up. Alcohol upsets the sleeping cycle, in particular, the sleep with rapid eye movement, when a person has dreams. It leads to the body not being able to fully relax and restore its strength.

5. Running and riding a bike in the morning, breathing exercises in the evening. Special exercises will help you improve your sleep. Note that energetic activities such as cycling, running, strength work out, etc. should be done in the morning. And it makes sense to schedule activities directed at normalizing and restoring your breathing, e.g. yoga, for the evening. Not only will it help relax your body, but it will also switch the brain from the daily troubles.

6. A bath caresses your skin and… deceives your brain! Experts have established that the deepest sleep takes place when the body temperature is lower than the daily average one. As a rule, it happens during morning hours. If you have been roaming all evening and are wide awake, try tricking your brain. You can convince it that your body is sinking into the kingdom of sleep with the help of warm bath or shower that artificially lower your body temperature.

7. Hormone melatonin produced by the brain’s pineal gland helps regulate the daily body rhythm. Working in shifts, flying often, and poor sleep affect the melatonin level. Therefore in order to correct the internal clock you can take this hormone in pills. But it should only be prescribed by a somnology doctor or a neurologist.

These things are easy to follow and they are guaranteed to help you get a good night sleep and accomplish a lot more the following day!

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Two third of the Earth population experience the first kiss around the age of 14. The most passionate nation is the Germans. On average they kiss on the cheek about 3.2 times a day and 1.3 times a day they give each other erotic kisses.

According to the research conducted by the American scientists, people who kiss a lot live on average five years longer and rarely resort to doctors’ help. That’s an interesting fact. Why does it happen? Scientists have tried to explain the phenomenon of a kiss…

1. During a kiss our body produces a big amount of neuropeptides. When they get activated, they destroy the viruses and disease causing bacteria. Therefore the immune system gets strengthened.

2. There are neuropeptides that can act like a doping.

3. Other neuropeptides are comparable to painkillers – they are almost 200 times stronger than morphine. If someone says that your kisses make them feel high, take it as a compliment.

4. During kissing the pulse accelerates up to 150 beats per minute. The frequency of beats may double in case of especially strong arousal.

5. Each kiss on the lips involves up to 34 various muscles. Naturally, there are calories that are being burned at the same time. A three-minute kiss gets rid of 12 calories.

6. Many psychologists consider a kiss to be simply necessary for our emotional balance.

7. With every kiss there are millions of bacteria that are passed into your “ownership”. This however does not mean that there is a mortal danger to you. The saliva of every person contains enzymes and antibodies that are capable of resisting any infection. Besides, the saliva contains androsterone, a substance that provokes sexual desires.

8. There is an opinion that a kiss is “infectiously” dangerous. It is not true! Do not be scared of getting an infection that is supposedly passed on with a kiss. In a test conducted on 13 people, only one of them got the cold from their partner who was sick.

9. Plato was thinking in a slightly different direction. According to his reasoning, a man and a woman used to be one whole, but they were punished by Zeus, and became halves that are now looking for each other. If we continue this theory, then finding your other half may prolong the life of a once separated person’s half by being united in a kiss.

10. Nine out of ten adults keep the memory of their first kiss for the rest of their life. After the first kiss, many people move on to the record number of kisses. The record kiss belongs to Alfred Wolfram from the state of Michigan who kissed 8001 women in 480 minutes. The longest movie kiss belongs to Cary Grant and Ingrid Bergman in the Hitchcock movie “Notorious”. It lasted 11 minutes.

The art if kissing is mastered with practice, so go ahead, have fun, and enjoy all the benefits that come with the kiss!

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1. Constant coffee breaks.
Harm: the charge of energy that we receive from drinking a cup of coffee is provoked by caffeine that stimulates the nervous system at the same time speeding up the heartbeat and intensifying perspiration. It is very important not to abuse this drink to avoid a state of irritability and nervousness.

Benefit: if you drink a cup of coffee 30 minutes before exercising it will only benefit it – you will burn more fat and less glucose, glycogen, and amino acids. In addition you will feel fatigue way later than usual.

2. Fast food.
Harm: every one of us knows about the harmful effect of eating fast food, but in the hustle of the workday sometimes it is hard to even notice how you accept the invitation of the coworkers to order pizza in or try the new menu at MacDonald’s and find yourself on the way to the nearest fast food establishment. Once you deviate from healthy eating at work, it is guaranteed to negatively affect your overall eating habits. Do not allow weaknesses and do not conform to your coworkers! If you are leading a healthy life and exercise regularly determined to get a good result, learn to control yourself. Fatty pizza or Big Mac at MacDonald’s will leave you with the feeling of heaviness in your stomach, guaranteed digestive problems and force your body to wear itself out. As the result you will feel the lack of energy.

Benefit: there is nothing you can justify fast food with, but if you enjoy having lunch in the company of your friends, at least try to stick to the least harmful choices. At MacDonald’s you can opt for a salad without a dressing and a hamburger, which should preferably be chased with regular tea with lemon rather than the unhealthy Coca Cola or juice with preservatives. At a pizza place ask to skip the double cheese and choose healthy toppings such as tomatoes, bell peppers, and mushrooms.

3. Smoke breaks.
Harm: and harm only! If you are exercising, then you should definitely forget about smoking at all on those days. If you haven’t quit smoking yet, then you should be well on your way to quitting. For now you can at least stay away from cigarettes on the days you exercise. Smoking makes working out useless and only worsens your condition. Despite the fact that all the most important issues are considered to be solved during smoking breaks, you should figure out a different way to solve your business tasks. This method will not work for you. And do not even think about poking your head into the smoking-room. There is enough information about the harm of passive smoking all over television and press.

4. Antidepressants.
Harm: you should not be solving your problems at work with the help of antidepressants. They lower your concentration and lead to an overall failure of brain function. These harmful pills have such a wide range of side effects that they can destroy all your efforts at work and make working out at the gym unbearable.

Benefit: if you are being tormented with problems at work, constant stress and conflicts with your management, and you cannot control yourself, pay attention to how you relax during your time off, what you eat and drink, how much sleep you get, and how much you exercise. You should adjust your life during your time off in order to deal with work days without nerves and anxiety.

5. Sedentary work.
Harm: sedentary lifestyle that is offered to us at the office affects your health in a harmful way. When you are forced to work long hours sitting in the same position, make sure to always take breaks. Every hour take a 10-15 minute break to divert your attention away from the computer or paperwork requiring a lot of concentration.

Benefit: switching your eyes’ focus, bending your body slowly back and forth, moving your head left and right, and up and down, stretching your wrists, a couple of sit-ups and stretches may help you get rid of the joint and back aches. When you sit at the table remember about your posture, do not cross your legs thus blocking the blood flow, your position at the table should be comfortable. If you experience back, waste, or shoulder aches during work, try switching out your desk chair for a more comfortable one.

Hopefully, these easy to follow tips will help you get rid of a couple of bad habits and lead a healthier and more fulfilling life!

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Bad habits are called bad for a reason – they may lead to serious health problems including oncological ones. The following are just some of the positive lifestyle changes you can undertake that will help you avoid cancer.

1. Protect yourself from the sun. Not only should you own sunglasses and sunscreen lotions, but you should also use them regularly. Skin cancer can spread very quickly in the worst case scenario, however proper skin care may easily help prevent the problems. First of all, avoid direct sunlight on your skin. Stay more in the shade, wear long sleeve shirts and pants, use sunglasses and sunscreen, and not only when you are at the beach but on a daily basis.

2. Quit smoking. Lung cancer belongs to one of the most fatal diseases, and the majority of its cases are caused by active or passive smoking. Besides, quitting smoking will lower the chances of developing stomach, pancreatic gland, throat, esophagus, and thyroid cancer. And spend less time with smokers – passive smoking is just as dangerous!

3. Consume alcohol in moderation. Excessive drinking or alcoholism drastically increase the chances of developing throat, mouth, bronchus, liver or colon cancer. Consuming alcohol not on a constant basis and in small amounts minimizes the oncological risk.

4. Examine your gastronomic habits closely. In order to lower the risk of cancer, you should consume more plant products, and you should eat fruit and vegetables at least 5 times a day. Choose bread and pasta products that are produced from the granular flour and that contain whole grains. Red fatty meat, hot dogs and other meats should be strictly limited by those who want to lower their oncological risk.

5. Maintain healthy weight. Obesity comes along with many types of cancer, including breast, intestines, and prostate cancer. Healthy diet and regular exercising will spare you from the risk of developing cancer.

6. Vaccinations. There is not a great choice of injections for men to prevent cancer, however women may avoid developing cervical cancer by getting a papilloma virus vaccination at adolescent years.

7. Screening tests. Regular tests may help detect cancer at an early stage when treatment is less expensive and less painful, and the prognosis is favorable. Routine check-ups are available for the following types of cancer: colonoscopy is mandatory for everyone over 50, as well as for younger patients whose relatives have suffered from colon cancer or those who suffer from inflammatory bowel diseases; there are special screening procedures for patients with high risk of developing prostate, ovary, lungs and skin cancer. Only your family doctor based on the complete information may help you decide what additional tests you might need.

You can considerably lower the risk of developing many types of cancer if you simply keep to a healthy lifestyle and exercise basic caution.

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One of the biggest male problems is impotence. And the stronger sex prefers to not talk about this phenomenon at all. If you want to offend a man, call him an impotent once. Not a jerk, not a scoundrel (this might be even taken as a compliment), but an impotent.

Impotence is quite a frequent disorder and is not a punishment for those who are particularly unlucky. It has to do with almost all men of a certain age. And since we know that age is not an obstacle for love, something has to be done with this illness. What exactly?

There are quite a few ways to fight the problem ranging from quite strict ones with scary names to alternative folk remedies. Just mentioning the most popular ways of treating impotence may leave you horrified: local negative pressure therapy, intra-urethral suppository insertion, intra-cavernous administration of medications, and endoprosthetism of the penis. All these methods are effective if you practice them some time before the sexual intercourse. In other words, candles, wine, romantic environment, you, her, and… syringe with injection strictly according to the schedule! Rough, isn’t it? If you prefer simpler and less horrendous solutions, stick with the good old Viagra, Cialis, or Levitra. Just remember that treatment with these drugs may lead to a sudden loss of hearing. It is not a myth, it’s a brutal truth of life, which has been confirmed multiple times by quite serious and reputable research.

However, impotence can be treated with various methods. For example, drug therapy will help increase the body tone and arterial blood pressure. Its principle is the overall health-improving effect caused by vitamins and micro elements, indirectly contributing to the insignificant increase of the intensity of blood circulation in the vessels of the penis. Such medications include the extract and tincture of ginseng, eleutherococcus (also known as Siberian ginseng), maral root, rhodiola rosea (also known as Golden root), wolfberry, aralia, and pantocrinum. All of these remedies have one common quality – they all have a great effect on the body as a whole and do not cause any complications.

Also you can treat sexual dysfunctions with alternative medicine, if going to the doctor is too scary, and positive thinking together with the help of a loving partner are not working. For example, you can drink the tincture of the flowering grass of the periwinkle. 8-10 drops of a 20% infusion mixed with 40-70 grams of alcohol dissolved in a tablespoon of warm filtered water should be taken in the morning and in the evening well in advance of eating for 4 days, then take a 2-day break and repeat the treatment again.

There are a lot of other methods of treating erectile dysfunction. In general, any treatment that is aimed at improving overall body’s functions turn into a means of restoring the sexual function. Therefore it is not uncommon to use physical therapy, hyperbaric oxygen therapy (medical use of oxygen at a level higher than atmospheric pressure), magneto-therapy and laser therapy in combination with other therapeutic activities.

In any case, regardless of the method chosen to battle the disorder, remember that admitting the problem is a huge step on the way to solving the problem, and suppressing the issue and keeping silent is not smart.

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A woman hears with the help of both left and right brain hemispheres, while a man hears predominantly with the left hemisphere involving verbal logical thinking and therefore a man listens critically. Women have a closer tie between the two brain hemispheres, which allows them to solve several problems at a time, and a man’s speech seems more emotionally colored to them, subjectively perceived through their desires and worries, processed through ethical or social values. They hear what a man is saying but moreover they hear how he is saying it, sense a man’s timbre of voice, the rhythm of his breathing, his presumed feelings.

The left brain hemisphere is more developed in women, and the right one (the so called emotional hemisphere) is more developed in men. This contradicts what the majority of us would expect. Consequently, a woman is more involved in verbal participation and communication, while a man is more prepared to action and competition.

Already in kindergarten girls talk 4 times more than boys do. Boys are noisier and fight 10 times more often than the girls do (5 minutes compared to 30 seconds for girls on average). At the age of 9 girls on average are ahead of boys in their development by 18 months. Adult women spend on average 20 minutes on every phone conversation, and men – 6 minutes and only to communicate the necessary or urgent information. A woman needs to share her thoughts, feelings, and emotions, while a man restrains and controls his emotions, trying to figure out the solution.

A husband interrupts his wife to suggest a solution, and a wife gets a feeling he is not even listening to her. In fact men are more emotional than women are, but they express their emotions more rarely, and this fact should not be ignored in a marriage. A woman places more importance on the time, for which the left hemisphere is responsible. A man places more importance on the space, and here the right hemisphere plays an important role. A man’s advantage in a three-dimensional space actions test is huge, starting from early childhood.

A woman finds her way by specific markers, beating a man hands down in remembering or determining specific objects. A man operates with abstract concepts, he is able to improvise, find a shortcut to get to his car or hotel faster.

It is considered that a woman is more sensitive, but not emotional. She has a very well developed sense of hearing, and this is exactly why she values tender words, the timbre of the voice, music and so on. She has a more developed tactile sensitivity – a woman has 10 times more receptors sensitive to the touch on her skin than a man does. In addition, oxytocin and prolactin, the hormones of attachment and tenderness, increase a woman’s need in touch and caresses.

As far as the vision goes, men have a more developed and more eroticized sense of sight, hence their interest and arousal caused by clothes, make-up, jewelry, nakedness, and porn magazines. However, women have a better developed memory (for faces, the order in which the objects are placed, objects’ shape, and so on).

The fundamental differences between men and women can be explained with the human history. In ancient times, a man was used to hunting in big spaces and on long distances, as well as conflicts and wars between tribes. Usually he had to quietly chase the prey, sometimes for several days straight, and then find his way back to the cave (orientation). In those times a verbal exchange was very insignificant, the scientists calculated that a prehistoric man met no more than 10 people throughout his whole life. During the same period of time a woman’s brain adapted to fulfilling her main role – raising up children, which required verbal communication. Based on this, a man is biologically programmed for competition, and a woman is programmed for collaboration.

These differences are instilled during the very first weeks of the fetal life, and the influence of education and culture thereafter is rather insignificant. Nowadays it is considered that one third of the personality is determined and defined by heredity, and another third is defined by fetal life. One third of the personality is also defined by acquired knowledge, which is influenced by cultural environment, level of education, upbringing, and accidental circumstances.

When a ball is lying on the ground, boys kick it with their foot, and girls pick it up and snuggle to their chest. This happens involuntarily and is directly related to hormones.

Testosterone is a hormone of desire, sexuality, and aggression. It could be called a hormone of conquest (both military and sexual). In optimal concentration testosterone develops the muscle strength (40% of muscles in men, and 23% in women), preconditions the speed of reactions and lack of restraint (92% of drivers sound their horn in traffic jams, and mainly they are men), contributes to aggression, competition, domination, develops endurance and persistence, contributes to healing of the wounds, spread of bald spots, sharp-sightedness, precision of movements and orientation.

Estrogen, in its turn, contributes to the development of dexterity, separate movement of fingers, as well as formation of about 15% of fat in the man’s body and 25% in women’s body necessary for defense and feeding of an infant.

Estrogen also affects the women’s sense of hearing, they distinguish a large range of sounds, women recognize sounds and music 6 times faster than men, and sing better. A woman is good at remembering colors, also her auditory and visual memory is well developed. A woman is attracted to a dominant strong male who is capable of protecting her, who is experienced and socially accepted, and who as a rule is older than her.

A woman speaks without thinking, a man acts without thinking. A woman who is unhappy in her personal relationships has problems at work; in contrast a man who is unhappy at work has problems in relationships with women. A woman needs intimacy in order to appreciate the sexuality, a man needs sexuality to appreciate the intimacy.

These are the main differences between men and women. We hope this will help you have a much better understanding of the women in your life and have even better and more fulfilling relationships with them!

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Reason 1.The lack of feelings. In spite of the common stereotype that men don’t really care who to do it with, the emotional constituent is really important for healthy sexual relationship between the spouses. The majority of women cannot even get any sexual satisfaction without the mutual feeling of love, and men, in their turn, sensing the lack of interest on her side will look for satisfaction of their ego in someone else’s bed.

Reason 2. Sexual Egoism. One of the partners (usually a man) is a typical sexual user or sexual egoist and is not concerned about the feelings and sensations of the other partner.

Reason 3. The mismatch of the anatomical dimensions. If the man’s penis is much longer than his partner’s vagina, certain problems may arise. For example, a woman may experience pain during sexual intercourse, and in case of intense frictions she may even get tears in the area of the posterior vaginal fornix. However, there are certain positions that can help correct the mismatch of your sexual organs and still allow for the enjoyment of sex.

Reason 4. Sexual illiteracy. This one is pretty self-explanatory, it is hard to enjoy sex if you and/or your partner are absolutely incompetent in bed and have no clue what an erogenous zone, cunnilingus, etc. are.

Reason 5. Sexual dysfunctions. Men may suffer from erectile dysfunction, and women – from anorgasmia, or the absence of an orgasm. Often spouses are too scared to confess such difficulties to each other and choose the most incorrect pattern of behavior – keeping quiet about it. There are different causes for dysfunction from depression to malfunctions of the blood vascular system, and only a qualified doctor may help get rid of the problem and the chances of success are really high. According to urologists about 85-90% of cases of male erectile dysfunction are treatable.

Reason 6. Too young. To put it simple, the couple has not matured yet to have quality sex. For example, they are 16-17 years old, they hurried into it and as a result they got a poor first experience and possibly even some psychological issues in the future.

Reason 7. First failure. If the first sexual experience was bad (girls often experience strong pain or psychological discomfort, especially if they agreed to sexual intercourse not out of their own desire but because of the pressure from their boyfriend) it could get stored in the subconscious and affect the rest of the sexual life.

Reason 8. Phobias and insecurities. One of the partners may have an obsessive fear of pain, being naked, physical contact and so on. Problems like this should be resolved by a psychologist.

Reason 9. What if something goes wrong? One of the most widespread male phobias is the subconscious expectation of failure before even being sexually intimate. Strangely enough, when it actually comes down to it, the man is guaranteed a fiasco since he already programmed himself for failure.

Reason 10. Mismatch of sexual temperament. Sexual temperament is the need of sex. It can be strong, average, and weak. It depends on a lot of parameters. If the sexual temperament of the partners matches, it is an ideal option. But if the partners are drastically different in their sexual temperament, for example if he has a strong one, and she has a weak one, then conflicts arise that are usually referred to as the sexual incompatibility. However, there is always a compromise. Even though sexual temperament is an inherent quality, you can always adapt to each other. A woman may become more sexual by training her private organs’ muscles, which is called vumbuilding. Also both men and women can have a quality sexual life if they know all the erogenous zones of their partner and learn to stimulate them correctly. Any men with even a weak sexual temperament can become an excellent sexual partner for a woman with a strong sexual temperament, if he pays enough attention to foreplay. And some women on the contrary need sex without any foreplay.

Reason 11. Temporary issues. For example, hormonal fluctuations related to a woman’s menstrual cycle. Also the chronic fatigue syndrome, depression, apathy and other psychological disorders may suppress the sex drive. Many diseases not even directly related to the sexual function may be accompanied with the decrease of the serotonin, which is called the hormone of pleasure, hence no interest in sexual relationship.

Reason 12. Psychological problems. If spouses cannot find common language and fight often, it affects their sexual relationship.

Reason 13. Prudish upbringing of one of the partners. Girls who have been raised in a very strict way may experience the phenomenon called the delayed psychosexual development. It means that the libido (or sexual drive) has not yet reached the final stage. And when there is low libido, it is always reflected in the relationships with the opposite gender.

Reason 14. The mismatch of biorhythms. He is an early bird, and she is a night owl. When he crawls to her under the blanket in the morning and starts tenderly kissing her neck, she only gets irritated, waves him away, and demands to leave her alone and let her sleep.

Reason 15. She is simply not in the mood. Men and women have different sexuality. Women in general want sex much more rarely than men and often agree to sex by forcing themselves just to avoid the tension. However, if a woman constantly has to force herself it may lead to her developing aversion to either sex overall or to the spouse specifically. On the other hand, if she constantly says no under non-existent pretenses such as headache, being tired after work, critical days, and so on, she is sure to offend her husband and push him away.

We hope that knowing the reason for disharmony in your sexual relationship with your partner will help you eliminate the problem and enjoy the satisfying sex life you both deserve!

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Factor 1. Openness. If you are open and want to communicate, the object of your attention is most likely to respond the same way. It is human nature to respond with the same measure to both sincerity and withdrawnness. Of course you should not blurt out all your deepest secrets to the first person you meet. Excessive frankness can also scare people off. But at least a smile, a natural gesture, or even a phrase like: “I’ve left my keys at home as always, I’m so absent minded!” will show your acquaintance that you are also human, you experience certain emotions, and you also have flaws. This will help her feel more at ease as well as get you points in her eyes. When you allow yourself to demonstrate your own vulnerability, the other person receives it with gratefulness and is not afraid to open up to you. As a rule several weeks or even months are required to open up to even people you are well acquainted with, and if you managed to get someone to open up to you and even open up yourself then there is definitely a spark between you two.

Factor 2. Vicinity. There is nothing sensational in the fact that people often fall in love with classmates, people they go to college to, colleagues at work, or in general all those who they see on a daily basis. This is why so many affairs start during the television reality shows when a bunch of people live in a closed off space for a long time. Even the physical proximity to the object of your attention plays an important role. If you like a girl at a party, simply walk up to her and stand right next to her. It is much more effective than smiling and making eyes at her from all the way across the room.

Factor 3. Resonance. Surprisingly the more we are sure that someone like us, the more we like that person. We feel calm and confident in their company, we always know that they will keep our conversation and will laugh at our joke, we trust them in everything and it inevitably leads to an emotional intimacy. Psychologists call this phenomenon resonance. It is a certain “contamination” of another person with your feelings. Your emotions and even thoughts appear to almost be synchronous.

Factor 4. Similarity. The more similarities your have – interests, tastes in literature, favorite music or habits like drinking coffee in the morning – the more your chances are to get drawn to each other. And not only because the common hobby is a reason to get acquainted and start a conversation. Even if you have known each other for a long time and suddenly discover that you like the same kind of apples or watch the same TV shows, it can become a deciding factor in starting to get closer. All of us instinctively search to belong to a group, including groups according to our interests. The members of the same group seem more attractive to one another in respect to everything compared to the outsiders. This mechanism is so deeply rooted in us that by even accidentally discovering a common subject for a conversation, two people can fall in love with each other. This is exactly why the conversations of two people who don’t know each other (forced neighbors on a plane for example) as a rule start with a question: “Do you like this?”, “What do you think about this?”. This way we instinctively probe whether he is “our people” or not.

Factor 5. Outside circumstances. We all have seen dozens of movies where the heroes fight the aliens’ invasion together, survive the flood, or simply save the world, and then surely fall in love, get married and live happily ever after. Such plots, naturally, are fiction, but in real life extreme circumstances and troubles may indeed unite and even make you fall in love with your fellow sufferer. Very often a casual complaint about the bad weather, unfair boss, dog’s sickness and so on becomes the beginning of a relationship. If it so turns out that the person you are talking to has the same problem, you find it easy to converse with them, which in turn can become grounds for mutual liking. The research proves that the more serious and difficult the problem you are faced with, the deeper the emotional connection is. However, common positive emotions may also accelerate the development of a relationship. It’s just that due to the peculiarity of our mentality we share our dissatisfaction more readily than our pleasures. Similarly, we react to others’ problems more willingly and more emotionally than to joys.

This is a scientific look at falling in love. Of course there is also an unexplainable factor of two people being drawn to each other without any rational explanation for it. We hope that you get to experience the wonderful feeling of love and that the knowledge of what contributes to that feeling will help you fall in love with a perfect half for you.

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1. Nothing gets better with age, and that includes sex. The scientists from Great Britain and USA have conducted a study devoted to the change in the quality of sex for men with age and came to a conclusion that men’s sex life gets activated with age. 2,000 men participated in this research, 77% of which claimed that their sex life was in full swing when they were 40 to 50 years old. 82% of the given age group mentioned that in this age sex was important for them as never in their life. Men over 40 are more confident in themselves and are not scared of being intimate with a woman. Note that earlier the scientists have come to a conclusion that frequent masturbation in the age of 20 to 40 increases the risk of prostate cancer, and after 50 on the contrary helps avoid this disease.

2. There are no calories in sex, moreover sex will help burn calories. That is true! Not only scientists have confirmed that sex burns calories, but you can even calculate what exactly you need to do with your partner in order to lose excess weight.

As the research of the British scientists shows, 20 minutes of sexual intimacy helps get rid of 200 kilocalories. And if before making love you have the courage to strip to the music for 10 minutes additional 70 kilocalories will go in minus. The foreplay carried out in an active way will burn another 100 kilocalories. All of this doesn’t take long, but it equals to one full day of fasting a week or a workout in the gym. The fact that sex is a kind of physical activity, and a pretty energetic one, is traditionally kept silent about. Meanwhile almost all of our organs and systems of our body (muscles, vessels, ligaments, heart) go through a work out during sex, and hence it is a real way to maintain your health and get rid of the accumulated calories.

Sex is the most energy-consuming constituent of love. Getting rid of 200 kilocalories over 20 minutes is quite a bit, and don’t forget to add another 36 kilocalories burned over the 15 seconds of an orgasm. This is an equivalent of swimming half an hour in the pool or burning the same amount of calories that is contained in 13 lumps of sugar or 2 toasts with butter and jam “stored up” in the abdomen area. Isn’t it impressive?

3. You should not have sex during pregnancy. Pregnancy is not a reason to give up sex. On the contrary it is the time for experiments and sexual discoveries. Do not deprive yourself and your partner of this pleasure!

Having sex during pregnancy is especially important to strengthen the relationship. There is a much closer emotional bond between the spouses. Pregnancy, especially the first one, is a test of the marital relationship. The woman’s appearance, her mood, being socially and even physically active change. Not all men easily accept these changes, and in some rare cases even refuse to accept them at all. Usually a husband and wife learn each other all over again during these 9 months. In the sexual area this learning happens most closely and whether the relationship is strong becomes apparent really fast. You shouldn’t be concerned about the strength of your relationship if a woman is scared to have sex fearing to harm the baby. Visiting a gynecologist may help in this case. The doctor will tell the future parents that having sex during pregnancy will not harm the baby and put the woman at ease.

4. The best time to have sex is at night. Sexologists are still perplexed at when is the best time to have sex – in the morning, during the day, in the evening, or at night? Some strongly recommend devoting a romantic evening to sex, some insist on a passionate night, and some stick to the sunny morning. Let’s look at all three options.

Morning. Our body is rested and is therefore grateful and full of energy, and responds to being well taken care of with an excellent erection. Is it worth wasting a great chance to turn it into an orgasm? As we know, an orgasm brings a huge charge of energy to the whole day, helps a man with an important process of self-affirmation, and since the sexual tension is replaced with the feeling of comfort, lifted spirits, and optimism, it is safe to say that early sexual pleasures contribute to the increased productivity at work and accelerate creativity.

Day. Sex in the middle of the day is especially pleasant and beneficial during work days. While you are squeezing your girlfriend’s bosom, put her into unthinkable positions, penetrate her, you imagine your coworkers working hard, beating the productivity records, and thus increasing the well-being of the company, while you are indulging in sexual pleasures.

Evening. Evening sex allows for a wide range of displaying romantic impulses. After a busy day at work it feels so nice to relax with your woman to soft music without stressing out about being on time to work. To increase the intimate setting, you can light the candles, turn on the fireplace, slowly undress your partner, and torment her body with passionate kisses. After frantic somersaults topped off with an orgasm you can dive into the arms of sleep.

5. Sex drive is programed in the genes. The Israeli scientists have discovered the common genetic sign that is likely to make some people more sexually excitable than others. The scientists have researched the gene known as the dopamine receptor D4 (DRD4), which is partially responsible for the brain’s reaction to dopamine, the chemical substance that is usually associated with the “pleasure system” in our body. It is known that this neuro-transmitter can control the behavior of animals and people and that the dopamine’s circulation contributes to the rise of the need in such things as sex, drugs, and food.

Perhaps, a person’s sexual drive and behavior are formed under the influence of a whole range of genes. Besides such factors as expectations formed by the culture, upbringing, and life experience play an important role as well.

Now that you know all the facts about sex, what are you waiting for? Go ahead and skip the gym today in the afternoon and do your own special workout!

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The following are 7 factors that affect metabolism:

1. Your body constitution. It has been proven that heavier people with a large amount of fatty tissue have much slower metabolism than those with a slimmer constitution and more developed muscles. This is because our body uses a lot more energy to grow the muscle tissue and maintain it in good shape than to “service” the fatty tissue. There are some things that could help. Naturally, we are not able to change our constitution, but we can increase the muscle tissue and lower the fat reserves. Scientists have calculated that 1 pound of muscle tissue burns additional 35-40 kilocalories a day. To build muscles, do strength workouts 2-3 times a week.

2. Heredity. If the parents are overweight, the probability of their kids inheriting the same propensity is about 60% according to the American scientists. The main reason for this is the breach of good eating habits in the family. This in its turn leads to carbonic exchange failure and excess weight since childhood. Things that could help include a blood test for hormones and seeing an endocrinologist. If there are no serious malfunctions, eating right will improve the metabolism. Cut down on the sweets, fatty foods, fried foods, add more protein to your diet: breaking them down requires more energy than say breaking down carbohydrates. Ideally, proteins should amount to 30% of the daily food consumption, which will allow to burn additional 200 kilocalories a day. Also make sure that you are getting enough iron in your diet. It is necessary to provide oxygen for the cells, which is directly related to the quality of the metabolism. Metabolism is also intensified by the consumption of meet, soy, pineapples, grapefruits, green apples and lead lettuce.

3. Age. After 35 years of age the speed of the metabolism slows down by 3-5% every year. The main reasons for it are the decrease of physical activity and slowing down of all the processes in your body. In order to remain slim by the time you reach 40, lead an active lifestyle. Scientists have calculated that energetic people burn approximately 350 kilocalories a day more than those who prefer to not be in a hurry. Therefore engage in light fitness. Your body readily breaks down the fat storages when you do an average intensity workout. And this tendency remains for another several hours after you are done exercising. Your options include jogging, riding a bicycle, swimming, and even the basic going up the stairs instead of using the elevator. And to help metabolism burn calories even more actively, refrain from eating for 1-2 hours after your workout.

4. Sicknesses. Metabolic processes slow down in a weakened body, therefore metabolism slows down by minimum 10% after any sickness. As you get better, everything may go back to the norm. However, chronic diseases result in prolonged malfunction of metabolism. Nervous disorders, malfunction of endocrine gland and hormonal disorders have an especially harmful effect on metabolism. It is important to determine the prime cause and treat the disorder. It is worth getting a consultation with an endocrinologist and sometimes with a cardiologist, a gynecologist/urologist, or a physician, in order to understand the exact reason why you are gaining weight. The doctor will recommend you the appropriate method to restore your metabolism and to maintain it.

5. Diets. Our body needs energy 24 hours a day and it receives it either from outside sources or inside reserves. When we go on a diet and drastically reduce the number of calories consumed with food, we force our body to use the stored up reserves. However, our body parts with those reserves rather reluctantly and instead switches to the saving mode, or in other words slows down the metabolism. When we stop the diet, the metabolism stays at the lower level for quite some time, so the pounds that you lost are easily gained back. Strict restrictions in food are very harmful also due to the fact that the lack of necessary vitamins, microelements and amino acids leads to additional unbalancing of the metabolism. The main rule of good metabolism is not to experience the feeling of hunger. It is achieved the easiest if you eat 4-5 times a day. In order to lower your weight the nutritionists advise to lower the portion size and the number of calories contained in your regular menu slowly and insignificantly. Such mild restrictions will not be perceived by your body as stress and hence it will not start saving the energy. The most stable result is provided by losing no more than 17-18 ounces a week. If you increase the physical activity, it will be even easier to part with the excess pounds.

6. Stresses. During stress the production of hormone called cortisol increases, which upsets the lipid exchange; and the level of serotonin, which is responsible for good mood, on the contrary, goes down. So you find yourself in a vicious cycle: the lack of serotonin forces us to consume more sweets (the carbohydrates are necessary for the synthesis of the hormone), and the excess cortisol helps store it in fat. And not just anywhere but in the spots that are the hardest to lose weight in – the abdomen and shoulders area, as well as internal organs, which worsens their function and harms your health overall. The long stress lowers concentration of testosterone, which leads to the slowing down of the muscle tissue growth. And the more fat and less muscles you have, the more frugal the body is with spending energy on the current metabolism. What will help is after you’ve been stressing out about something, do not reach for chocolate or candy, and instead go outside for a walk. It will expedite the blood circulation and the discharge of cortisol. The research shows that a half an hour walk 3 times a week can lower the cortisol’s level by 13%. Also it is preferable to stay away from drinks containing caffeine for the time being (3 cups of coffee a day increase cortisol by 25%). Sleep at least 7-8 hours a night. The lack of sleep sustains stress and slows down the metabolism.

7. Monthly cycle. A woman’s metabolism is directly dependent on the menstrual cycle phase. During and right after the critical days it slows down and approximately 2 weeks after the beginning of the cycle as the estrogen and progesterone levels increase, which contributes to quick burning of the fat, the metabolism accelerates. Due to the intensive metabolism during this time, the body burns additional 250 kilocalories a day. But in order to make up for the lost energy it also requires more food. If you do not control the cyclical appetite attacks, you may gain weight overtime, and excess fat will in turn slow down the metabolism. To avoid this, make sure to plan more active exercising for the second phase of the cycle. And a week before the beginning of the menstruation, eat often but a little bit. This will allow you to not overeat during the critical days. Give preference to foods with low glycemic index and higher amount of cellulose. Good snack options include a whole wheat toast, a low-fat yogurt, a little bit of dried fruit, a pear, or an apple.

Make sure to follow these principles, and you are guaranteed to have fast and healthy metabolism, and as the result a beautiful slim figure!

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Taking initiative is scary: what if you get rejected? It is really hard to make up your mind since you will have to accept full responsibility for the consequences. Waiting on the man to make the first move can get sad at times, but at least then you can blame him for any disappointments, starting from the lack of orgasm to the broken couch. Things are easier that way, but you constantly feel dependent on someone else’s desires and mood. And whereas it is easy to get disappointed in the new failed acquaintance and quickly write it off as their loss, the stable relationship accumulates female expectations for a long time and might explode any moment with the infamous “I’ve wasted the best years of my life on you”. The question is what has the woman been expecting all these years? That her husband will guess her secret desires? She should have first made sure he has the telepathic abilities.

Clearly getting rejected is a serious blow to the self-esteem, and sometimes literally a physical blow on the face for a guy. At least it is safer for women as far as that goes. If you are considering putting a sexual move on your new acquaintance, make sure you have a backup plan. If you decide for yourself that a rejection merely means that you cannot be liked by everyone, and the sun will shine down on your side of the fence too, today is just not your day, then go ahead and take the risk, your self-esteem is well-protected. But if you cannot get rid of the thoughts about how “dirty” and unworthy you are, then don’t even think about undertaking anything. With such outlook of the world you should first sort out your own sexuality, accept it, and only then use it to achieve pleasure for both you and your partner.

How do you prompt a man to intimacy in such a way that he starts wanting it himself? This is a man’s approach to the issue – how to influence a person and make them do what you want, where is that button. This is how conquerors like Alexander Macedonian think. Seductive Cleopatra acts essentially different. She is not forcing anyone, but rather creates the conditions for a man to easily steer the situation in a certain direction. All advice is good here, including romantic environment, candles, music, low cut shirt, and so on. But make sure to use these tricks not simply as rough tools to push the man to the couch, but instead enjoy the atmosphere, saturating your heart and even the air around you with your desire. How do you accomplish that? Maybe it’s a look, your gesture, or as simple as your dress… It has always been a mystery for men and they can never resist the female charms.

Aren’t men scared of pressure from a woman? Pressure – yes, invitation – no. It doesn’t matter who started, both are to blame. Of course it is a stereotype that a woman should be modest, bashful, unpretentious and almost un-sexual. But we all know that it is merely a role playing game, and not the reality, in the same way a macho stresses up his roughness and even certain aggressiveness when in fact he is capable of tenderness and kindness. Men and women are equally sexual, they just express their desires in different ways. By the way, many women do not differentiate between their desires and their outward expression, or in other words their inner feelings and outer proprieties. Due to this, for example, mothers often do not teach their daughters the right thing. They instruct them to be the opposite of sexual, instead of combining outward modesty with respect to their feelings and needs. And then they are surprised that their daughter is an old maid. In the same way men are sometimes taught to be rough in the relationships, and later on in life they confuse the role of a charming hooligan and a mix of indifference and manhandling.

Some couples determine the order. Oh no… Maybe it’s a personal prejudice, but I feel like if a husband is asking a wife to be the initiator then he cooled down toward her. It is true that men and women are equally sexual, but the direct initiative as an expression of sexuality is a normal display of the man’s desire, at least a man that is healthy and loves his wife. If the partners start counting who and how many times initiated the intimacy, then most likely there is something wrong with their relationship (including sexual). It is normal when people want each other and simply enjoy each other – freely, easily, and without any tension and calculations.

The only exception could be made for a man who experiences difficulties with erection, but is too embarrassed to tell his woman about it. Understandably, it is a sensitive matter. Nevertheless, this problem is easier conquered together by discussing it openly and honestly. In order for it to be easier for a man in such situation to open up to a woman, she needs to have the ability to create warm and safe atmosphere, and not the rational discussion and the schedule of sex-duties. And of course the stance of “if you need it, then you initiate it” regardless of which party it comes from is unacceptable.

How do men usually turn you down? There are different ways. After all, a man might have different reasons for rejecting you and it depends on his communication skills. For example, if the man feels attracted to the woman, but is not in the mood at the moment (he is tired or is in the middle of solving a problem) then in the ideal situation he may say something like: “I’m sorry, darling, I am in the middle of something right now, I need some time, your love and your faith in me… and maybe this or that” – hinting at what manipulations could actually get him stirred up. But such considerate and deliberate reaction is extremely rare in men, the vast majority does not possess the vocabulary to express the details of how they feel so that a woman understood him correctly and did not take offense to it. It all depends on the upbringing, their mother’s personality, and the excessive tension created by the desire to match the high standards of the real man. Even the most confident looking man is nervous on a date and is trying to interpret your behavior: “What if she does not want me… if only she would give me a sign… I wish she would sit closer to me… She moved closer! Maybe she was just uncomfortable there… Or was it to be closer to me? Man, why does it have to be so difficult?!” If it was easy, it wouldn’t be interesting!

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Is it really bad to have sex during the monthly period? Different nations at different times have considered sex with a woman during her monthly menstruation a forbidden thing. Some tribes and villages have their women abandon their dwellings and leave the village they lived in, since it was considered that the blood may attract predators. Other countries considered women to possess some magic power with the help of which she could put an evil hex or sickness on a person. Even nowadays men in some countries are forbidden to even mention sex during menstruation since a woman is considered “unclean” during this time and any contact with her is forbidden. Even though such directions exist only in those countries that preach Islam or Judaism, the doctrine of the Old Testament about the “uncleanliness” has penetrated the minds of many people so much that abstinence during a woman’s critical days has become almost a norm.

In a modern world there are as many opinions about sex during period as there are people on this planet. There are several reasons why sexual drive decreases during menstruation in both men and women, among them is caring about how the woman feels, the aesthetic concerns, and the woman not feeling comfortable and being shy. The man’s desire for sexual intercourse during menstruation is due to the fact that during this time he sees the woman as a personification of femininity. Even the thought about a woman being on her period pushes a man into the arms of the woman he loves.

Nowadays many couples, provided neither one of them suffers from any diseases, have no limitation on having sex during menstruation.

The sexual technique during menstruation. Sex during a period for a healthy woman is not dangerous, especially if hygiene is not just an empty word for both partners, but is an unbreakable rule. Nonetheless, still remember that the bloody environment is an excellent food for bacteria and as a result a great setting for their growth. Besides you should remember that during menstruation the uterus removes its mucous membrane’s cells, and if these cells become established in the wrong spot, there is a danger of a serious illness called endometriosis, as a result of which a woman can experience pains, bloody discharge, or even infertility. However, it does not mean that you should completely give up sex during menstruation since endometriosis may develop even without having sex.

On the other hand, for those women who have a hard time during their menstruation sex may help get rid of a headache, decrease irritability, and even lower the amount of blood being discharged.

Therefore wait until the worst days of the menstruation are over, lay a towel on the bed, and keep wet wipes nearby. It is best if the man is on top since in that case the menstrual discharge will not be that strong.

In order to prevent various infections getting inside your body use a condom. Overall, the sexual activity during menstruation can be limited only by the woman herself.

Does sex affect the menstrual period, ovulation, and can it stop the period altogether? Sex, especially with an intense orgasm may expedite the menstruation being over. The reason for that is the fact that when a woman starts getting her period, her body starts producing chemical substances called prostaglandin that are similar in their effect to hormones and that among other things affect the blood vessels of the endometrial. The very same prostaglandins are contained in a man’s sperm and when they get into a female body, their number increases. As the result of that the body cleanses itself faster and the menstruation is over way faster. Sometimes though this method does not work and the bleeding even if it already stopped may start again.

Can you get pregnant when having sex during a period? It is pretty difficult to get pregnant during a menstrual period, but still possible. The fact of the matter is that a woman’s menstrual cycle may be shorter than usual or the period may last a couple of days longer and the egg may get discharged during the menstruation or right after it. The sperm cells live inside the woman’s body for up to 7 days, and thus she can get pregnant. Getting pregnant is also possible if not one but two eggs got discharged. So there is just one way out – use condoms even during menstruation.

We hope this information is beneficial in helping you make up your mind whether having sex during a monthly menstruation is acceptable.

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1. Losing your virginity – it is a starting point into the world of physical pleasures. If this matter still seems problematic to you, try following the example of the Tanzanian youngsters who use a watermelon to experience the joy of sex by cutting a hole to their liking in it beforehand.

2. Delayed ejaculation – maybe you don’t have any spare time to study the tantric nonsense, but the least you can do is learn to restrain yourself for your partner’s benefit. A woman needs at least 15 minutes of diligent attention to get aroused and not your “I’m already done” after the first kiss.

3. At least three positions – must be mastered. The trivial variations of the standard position such as with a cigarette in your hand or while looking through the mail do not count. If your girlfriend has already studied the ceiling well enough, for starters try flipping her on her tummy.

4. Massage – a little bit of cool massage cream on your palms and a disarming smile is enough to get any girl to unbutton her blouse. This requires minimum effort and in return brings maximum of tactile pleasure. However, paying a professional masseur to do all the work for you does not count.

5. Make your partner turn pink – this is the only way to make sure that having sex with you truly brings her pleasure. Moaning in the dark does not mean anything, but the reddening of the skin on her breasts is a sure indication that you have done your part and brought her to an orgasm.

6. Ribbed condom – you absolutely have to try it! Needless to say it does not affect you much, but she will experience an interesting new sensation, besides rubber ribs prolong the sweet process for a little bit.

7. Want to be third? – It’s about time you said this to her girlfriend or to your buddy and offer them to join you in the bedroom. You shouldn’t be too insistent though and making a reality of this suggestion against their will. But it is worth trying, isn’t it?

8. Clean up in the bedroom – first of all throw away her flannel night gown and the collection of stuffed animals on the bed. Something is not right with the woman who sleeps hugging her plush teddy bear, unless you are role playing and you are a teacher and she is a schoolgirl.

9. Mutual masturbation – sex experts assure that this contributes to much better learning about each other, establishing psychological contact, and improving the relationship. That’s true, when you watch each other you have a chance to examine everything in details and improve your skills.

10. Swearing – during sex is rather popular: the Americans and the Europeans already swear to the utmost within the confines of their bedrooms. It is never too late to start, but it is pretty hard to swear in your native language while avoiding the insulting intonations.

11. Afternoon sex – women adore it when the man who is already not sleepy and not yet tired, slightly unfamiliar and incredibly businesslike drops by for five minutes only to have sex. Plus it wouldn’t hurt to shake yourself up in the middle of the day.

12. Sex toys – if you haven’t yet tried the edible underwear, haven’t experimented with the fake vagina, haven’t experienced the joy of the flavored condom, and haven’t had a chance to be jealous of the unbending erection of the dildo, then where have you been this whole time?

13. Porn – be careful, your collection of hardcore movies may actually decrease her arousal instead of intensifying it. Experts claim that women are not too concerned with visual images and they prefer to use their own imagination. To avoid the risk, offer her to choose what to watch.

14. Photo session – another important event in the man’s life: you have a camera in your hands and a completely naked girl in front of you. Polaroid could come in extremely handy since you wouldn’t have to wait to enjoy the pictures. You can take pictures of anything, even the most unimaginable shamelessness. However, it is not necessary to show these indecent pictures to your guy friends or her Mom.

15. Telling her you love her – if any time you open mouth to say these important words you find yourself frozen up, try practicing in front of the mirror.

Hopefully, there were at least a couple of things that caught your attention and tonight instead of resorting to the dull and familiar missionary position you will try something new and exciting!

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Make me better! An ideal woman is a woman that the man will need his whole life, his “second half”, his perfect match. She should possess several distinctive qualities that might not be so apparent at first glance, but upon closer acquaintance are more noticeable. The first such essential quality is the fact that she makes the man advance. In other words, when in her company men assume a dignified air, try to seem better than they are, and be more well-mannered and charming. In order to achieve such result, a woman rarely does something or says something consciously. It all happens naturally and goes without saying.

Selfless love. The second quality that an ideal woman should possess is love for her man. Men value sincere feelings just as highly as women do. They will search for the person who will love them, for their second half who will spend the rest of her life with him. With that said, the love should be not because of certain qualities that men possess or their financial status, but simply because that person is part of her life. Girls like that are pretty easy to tell, you can see it in their way of communicating, their behavior, and even the way they walk. An ideal woman should get along with the man’s closest people – relatives and friends. And it should not be just a surface relationship – occasionally helping to cook something or having a quick chat with his younger sister. She should be seeking to get to know better those people who are important in her beloved man’s life.

Problems and tears pave a way to irritation. Man are extremely irritated with the women’s constant nagging about the problems, and therefore an ideal woman should not be constantly complaining or sulking, thus irritating her man. Her whole behavior inadvertently emphasizes her guy’s manliness. In her presence he wants to be better, be a real man. Men cannot stand it when his woman’s behavior puts his manliness in question, and earning the status of a henpecked man will leave him wondering if the woman really loves him and if his friends really respect him, which has led many marriages to ruin. A smart woman will not be insisting on something that goes completely against her man, she will adapt to the situation, for example, make something yummy when he unexpectedly brings a bunch of his colleagues home for dinner, instead of resentfully locking herself in her room.

Respect and the skill of listening. A woman should always respect her man. Respect is the cornerstone of the man’s whole behavior, his purpose in life, the reason he is striving to achieve high position and material wellbeing. Respect implies the ability to listen and hear the other person out, even if the woman disagrees with his opinion. She will not understate the man’s virtues by criticizing his position; she will simply tactfully express her opinion, without suggesting that a man changes his position to hers. This requires a woman who is smart and not the stereotype on which the infamous blonde jokes are based. Men need their halves to have their own opinion, to be able to maintain the conversation, smile when she really feels like it and not throughout the whole conversation.

The original image. And of course a woman should be stylish, beautiful, and sexy. This does not only depend on her appearance, but also on her ability to take care of herself, dress fashionably, and be attractive at the same time. The main merit of an ideal woman is her changeability. A man always wants to have a woman like that by his side, he wants to conquer such a wonderful woman, and be happy with her.

Unfortunately, a woman like this is becoming almost extinct, so if you can find a woman that fits this description you better act fast, because every other guy out there wants her too. But if you are on the lookout, you might just get lucky!

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Julian Sagan writes for the Natural Penis Enlargement company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

First of all let’s make sure we are on the same page as far as what we understand under a “quickie”. It is a rather shallow and a very subjective notion. For a 16-year old to last five minutes is an Olympic record, but his grandpa is hardly finished in an hour.

According to the Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy, the standard sexual intercourse lasts 7.3 minutes. The Kinsey Institute sexologists calculated that a woman needs on average 10-20 minutes to reach an orgasm. The contradiction of these findings is pretty obvious.

In order not to completely get lost in terminology and not to offend anyone, let’s agree to the definition of a quickie as a sexual intercourse that takes you way less time than usually. I’m sure it will not come as a shock to any man that women do not really enjoy it as much.

Even if your partner agrees to take care of everything quickly then usually it is because of feeling lazy or being concerned about getting on your bad side. However, most of the time women are just not sure what is in store for them. If men were equipped with a board that would display the time left until ejaculation, it would considerably simplify the task. As it is, what to expect every time is a mystery, whether it is 90 seconds of convulsions or 40 minutes of Kama Sutra. However, there are ways to make sure that your partner is not at all disappointed even in the first case scenario.

Choose a place. Erotic events should take place in the least sex-appropriate locations: floor, chair, table, or an elliptical machine collecting dust and not being used in the corner. For her it should look as if the passion swept your over unexpectedly.

According to women’s standard, spontaneous sex is more acceptable than a quick one. It has to do with the women’s self-image that should not be hurt under any circumstances. So women consider three minutes of passion before falling asleep a slapdash and a cause for getting upset. However, a 180-second blitzkrieg on the washer is a declaration of her being irresistible and sexy. And only in the second case scenario your quick ejaculation will be considered a compliment.

Concentrate NOT on the lips. If you started playing a role of a passionate lover, then you can’t help without kisses. Remember to kiss not only the lips, and moreover you should not even concentrate on the lips at all. William Cane, the author of the book “The art of kissing” has surveyed 50,000 women and found out that one of the most arousing types of the kiss is the kiss on the neck (as voted by 96% of the respondents).

Every self-respecting soap opera has a scene where the main character hugs his partner from the back, gently touches her neck with his lips and slowly glides up to the cheek and then makes his way back. And no matter how cheesy it looks, it works not only with women in the movies but also with women in real life. The important thing is not to overuse this trick. First of all, if constantly stimulated erogenous zones have a tendency to fade or become less sensitive. And secondly, it is a possibility that after a while your girl will associate your attempt to kiss her on the neck with you not lasting so long.

Next advice is strip games. For a woman the moment of taking her clothes off in front of a man (unless of course she is a professional exotic dancer) is a rather intimate and shy moment. If your partner feels even for a second that you were ripping off her bra without the due enthusiasm, her erotic mood will vanish immediately without any chance of being restored, not even with the help of scented candles or sexy music.

Taking off your clothes is best when it is part of the foreplay. Did you really think that this time you will manage to do without it?! The key to success is the coordination of your actions: while your lips continue to kiss her neck and the area around it, your hands are taking off the dress and battle with the bra hook. The smoother the process is, the better. She won’t even notice how it happened as she finds herself wearing her earrings only and being incredibly turned on.

When it comes to her panties, hold your horses a little bit. Let the girl keep them on for a minute or two while you stir up the passion with your hands. Caresses through the underwear fabric are very pleasant and arousing (nothing turns on as much as anticipation). Besides, they will create the illusion of you not being in a hurry and the only reason you already put on a condom is to stay warm.

Let your tongue finish the job. Here is the extract from Lou Paget, the author of the book “How to give her absolute pleasure”. “With the fingers of one hand push the clitoral hood together, – orders the sexologist. – Under it there are two tiny bumps, each the size of half the rice grain, this area right above the clitoris should be stimulated with your tongue with quick motions from side to side. The fingers of your other hand should be in your girl’s crotch area, it’s not necessary to move them, just push them slightly and watch your partner’s reaction.”

To wrap up, here is an interesting statistics: as part of the survey conducted by Masters & Johnson Institute 80% of women voted cunnilingus to be the most reliable way to reach an orgasm. I wonder what the remaining 20% voted for…

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Julian Sagan writes for the Penis Enlargement Pills company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

Regardless of what it is the woman needs, whether it is forgiveness or favor, do not doubt for a second that she will try all the possible options of getting what she wants from you. You can not prevent it from happening, however with this information you will definitely be able to determine when she wants something from you.

We will go over the slickest tricks women use to manipulate us men, as well as suggest how to avoid those traps.

Trick number one is tears. All women know that the easiest way to make a man feel uncomfortable is to cry. I think every one of us will want to do anything he possibly can to make her stop crying. Women are aware of this from the very childhood. Fathers buy presents for their tearful daughters, and school teachers forgive them bad behavior, anything to stop the flood of tears. Most women have this technique perfected to the point where it is extremely difficult for a man to determine whether the tears are even real.

Counteraction: If you find yourself in a situation when your girl is crying without any apparent reason (no physical injury), perhaps it would be better to simply isolate yourself from the situation if you are not sure of the sincerity of such behavior. You cannot bargain with tears, therefore try to avoid them.

The next trick is bribes and rewards. Any woman that you’ve known for a while is well aware of what buttons she needs to push. And if she decides she wants something very much then she will always know exactly how to “convince” you.

She may approach you by promising tickets to a concert that you’ve been talking about recently, an expensive item you’ve been dreaming about, and of course let’s not forget about the most popular method of sexual favors (she may promise oral sex or something forbidden). While men are the ones always accused of promising the whole world just to get the girl into bed, it is well-known that women promise the whole world for everything else.

Counteraction: The best way to deal with this would be to try and reverse the situation and compensate her offer. If she is trying to get her way with the help of sex, try to minimize your desire or reaction to her sexuality, thus stripping her of the very power she is using to reach her goal. If she is promising an expensive present, start spending less on the trips to the restaurant together and tell her that you are saving up the money for yourself. As soon as she notices you acting like this she will immediately stop trying to get her way especially if it concerns the money that you usually spend on her.

Another trick women use is flattery. Men’s ego is a captivating notion. A woman who covers you in praise, regardless of what exactly she is complimenting, your appearance, how good you are in bed, or your work, will inevitably earn more gentleness and understanding from you than usual. What’s in it for her? Since you feel like you’ve been appreciated at your true worth, she knows that you will gladly and willingly agree with her requests.

Counteraction: It is hard not to believe the flattery, however pay attention to the details. If you haven’t heard a single compliment for weeks and all of a sudden you are bombarded with a bunch of them right before she happened to ask you for something, you can safely ignore what she is saying and start judging her by her actions. If she constantly gives you compliments and you have gotten used to it, agree with her when she reduced her compliment attack and thank her or act flattered. She will immediately stop giving you a bunch of compliments if she understands that you figured everything out.

Trick number four is involving friends. A quick-witted woman will seek for help from the source of your ideas and your support – your friends. When she is alone with your friend, she seemingly by accident will mention what she wants and express her idea on the subject of what would make her happier. As always the goal is obvious. If you go to your friends to get ideas on what to get her for Christmas or birthday, your friend will immediately remember that “coincidental” conversation with her and will give you a whole list of her wishes.

Counteraction: Of course you can step down to her level and do the same thing with her friends. Instead of concentrating on ideas for presents, explain to your friends your vision of the situation and if they agree with you at least on the main points it will shake up her system quite a bit. However, you should be careful. Sometimes this tactics may lead to more serious relationship problems, therefore do not act in haste.

Another trick is jealousy. If she is trying to get something, she does not need to involve your friends. Slight flirting or agreeing to accept a drink from a stranger at the bar – all of this is just a reminder to you that you are not the only man in town. She assumes that if you feel like you can lose her, you will try to do everything to keep her. As a result a generous and indecisive man will do anything she wants.

Counteraction: We strongly do not recommend making her jealous as a revenge, it is not worth your headache. Best of all just ignore her attempts. If she is flirting with someone right in front of you, simply ask her afterwards if she enjoyed herself and do not make a scene or give her a lecture. If you surrender, she wins.

Next female trick is being unavailable. When she needs something she can become more unavailable, busy and less sociable with you than usual. You may think that she has decided to end the relationship and move on, therefore will start worrying about where she is and what is going on with her. She understands that you are most likely to agree with her requests in order to save the relationship with her.

Counteraction: The solution for this situation is simple. Ask her if she wants to stay in the relationship or not. She will be forced to admit that her temporary unavailability and the lack of communication is simply a game and is not a symptom of a real problem.

Many women act silly and helpless to get their way. Women know that men like to be knights in shining armor for their beloved ones. This role allows men to feel practically like heroes. Therefore even if she is perfectly capable of figuring out how to do something herself, she understands that by acting as if she is a silly little girl she will force you to come to her rescue regardless of what it is that she wants. Besides it will be extremely difficult for you to get mad or upset with her since she gave you an opportunity to feel your importance in her life (a passive-aggressive technique).

Counteraction: Even though often she really does need your help, it should not become a habit. There is a huge difference between valuable and useless help. Help her when it is necessary but make sure she is participating as well and is not simply enjoying watching you work. If she does that constantly, you may playfully make fun of her inability to do something. She will know you care about her but at the same time it will wound her pride and as the result she will stop trying to get your help when she really does not need it.

No one wants to be tricked, you should always act honestly, however you do have the right to defend yourself if your girl is trying to use one of the above-mentioned tricks. You are the one to decide what you can put up with and what you cannot. Defend your opinion and stick to your point of view since manipulation will only work with those who ignore all the attempts of manipulation before the current one.

So how does your girl try to trick you to get her way?

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1. Do not put on the condom in the middle of sexual intercourse. According to the survey conducted by the American experts, about 44% of women ask their partner to put on a condom after his penis has already penetrated her vagina. Usually in the moment of passion women remember about a condom once the partner is already inside of them. After regaining their senses they ask the partner to put on a condom and think that safe sex is still a guarantee. And they shouldn’t! According the the medical experts, this can lead to unplanned pregnancy as well as to contracting sexually transmitted diseases.

2. Do not store condoms in a wallet or pocket. Keep in mind that warmth and humidity ruin condoms. Experts recommend keeping contraception in a dry and cool spot. For example, the drawer of a night stand by your bed is a great spot for keeping condoms. And if the option of having sex came up while you are not at home, you can always stop by the pharmacy. Also keep in mind that you do not want to keep the condoms in direct proximity of sharp objects that can damage the package or the condom itself.

3. Do not use the condom for more than one time. As it turns out many guys practice using the same condom more than once. For example, some men believe that if they did not have a chance to ejaculate, and the condom is already on, then it is okay to take it off and put it aside until better times. Isn’t it funny? Actually more sad than anything else And some thrifty individuals use the same condom for several ejaculations (if the sexual intercourses take place one after another with short breaks in between). They justify it by not wanting to incur extra expenses, plus it is made out of rubber, so nothing should happen to it. However, experts warn us that if you do not want any surprises from the stork, make it a rule to use the same condom only once and not more than that. Whether the ejaculation took place or not is not relevant.

4. Do not ignore the condom’s expiration date. How often do you double check the manufacture date on the condoms’ package? If the answer is never, you should reconsider. The condoms that are expired may develop cracks that are invisible to the naked eye, which makes the condom an unreliable protection as it can tear at any moment.

5. Do not open the condom’s package with scissors. Also do not open it with your teeth or other sharp objects since your chances of damaging the condom itself rise exponentially. It is always a good idea to inspect the condom before using it to make sure there are no rips.

6. Do not leave the condom on after having sex. Experts warn us that the sperm can drip out from the condom when the penis starts shrinking back after ejaculation. It is recommended to withdraw the penis from the vagina right after the intercourse, holding the top part of the condom with your fingers.

7. Do not use the lubricants that contain oil or fat. Such lubricants include vaseline, baby oil, body lotions, vegetable oil, sun block or massage lotion. They damage the condom, as the result of which it rips or develops holes in it.

8. Avoid using condoms made out of the animals’ skin. They do not protect from sexually transmitted diseases! If you have latex allergy and you cannot use regular condoms, try using condoms made out of polyurethane.

9. Never warm the condom up or expose it to the light. Avoid keeping condoms in your pants’ back pocket, in the car’s glove compartment, under a hot lamp, or under the direct sun light.

10. Do not throw the condoms out into the toilet. They clog the toilet up and get into lakes and other bodies of water.

We hope this information helps you make sure your sex is always safe and you are always protected from unexpected surprises.

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As it turns out, it is enough even nowadays. The Dutch scientists have conducted a study of how much time men of different nationalities spend on sexual intercourse. The British have been found to provide their partners with the longest coition of 7 minutes 36 seconds. Next in line are the Americans whose intercourse lasts on average 7 minutes. Next are the Spanish with the achievement of 6 minutes, and then the Dutch with the intercourse of 5 minutes long. The Turkish have scored the last place, on average they reach the orgasm in 3 minutes 30 seconds. Fortunately for us men, there are certain things that can be done to prolong ejaculation during intercourse.

The easiest remedy you can use if you want to delay the ejaculation for as long as possible is condoms and lubricants with anesthetic. The anesthetic can prolong your sex for 5-10 minutes. Keep in mind that it starts taking affect after a while, so you will have to wait a few minutes.

Take even breaths. In order to delay an orgasm, try not to hold your breath and at the same time not to breath too heavily, even though it might be pretty hard under the circumstances. Control yourself, breath slowly and deeply. You can turn up the volume of your erotic sounds, which will help your partner get more aroused.

You can have a couple of drinks in advance. Drinking delays the orgasm directly proportionately to the amount of alcohol consumed and helps not ejaculate for a long time. However, the key is not to overdo it, otherwise you will end up not being able to perform at all.

Another technique involves controlling the pace of the intercourse. Try speeding up and slowing down. The change of pace will help delay the orgasm. You can also try the position when the woman is on top, which is the best position to alternate the pace since you have all the control.

When you feel the orgasm coming on, pull the penis out and squeeze it at the base. You can also gently pull it by the scrotum, the protuberance of skin and muscle containing the testicles. The abrupt and unexpected stimulation switches the brain into a different mode and distracts it, thus prolonging the intercourse.

Oak bark contains a large amount of thiamin, which slows down the function of genitals’ nerve endings. Drinking the oak bark decoction will help delay the arousal and hence prolong the ejaculation. You can also add currant and raspberry and leaves to your food.

In order to delay the orgasm, think about something completely opposite of sex. It might be your weird Aunt Pearl or the unconventional singer Marilyn Manson, everyone has their own turn offs. Just be sure to not think of something too disgusting that will deprive you of erection altogether.

And finally, the most tested and confirmed method – have sex more often. Then it will become a habit, you will get used to it, and thirty minutes will fly by like one moment.

We hope that this advice will help you prolong your erection and make sure that your partner reaches the orgasm every time!

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Julian Sagan writes for the Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

Just like any other secretions from our body, the sperm’s taste is affected by what we eat. So, to start off, stay away from coffee. An interesting fact about coffee, American scientists calculated that if you drink 23 liters of coffee at once, you will die. Also stay away from drinks containing caffeine as well as alcohol and nicotine. From what is known today, these substances have the worst effect on the taste of sperm, it spoils virtually immediately. Do not overdo yogurts and other dairy products, they create the foulest smelling fluids due to the high concentration of bacteria.

Drink more water. Not only is it the healthiest and most useful drink on Earth (as long as you don’t drink it directly from tap), but water also helps get rid of all the toxins in your body. You should drink at least one liter of water a day, which roughly translates into 6-8 glasses.

Eat lots and lots of fruit such as pineapple, melon, mango, apples, grapes, kiwi, watermelon, and vegetables, with the exclusion of cabbage, cauliflower, and Brussels sprouts. Eventually they will get the job done. They contain large amounts of natural sugar, and as the result get rid of the natural bitterness and other unpleasant aftertastes. And as far as onion and garlic, you should forget about them and keep them in the fridge for a while. The sulfur they contain instantly kills everything good that the sperm contains.

Eat less meat. According to some research done by British scientists, sex, chocolate and cold meat is the best diet for your intellect. However, it does not help improve the taste of sperm. Make sure to cut out red meat from your diet, it is one of the main foods known to make sperm taste salty. And overall, when it comes to protein, you should be careful. The ideal sources of protein in our case are chicken breasts and turkey. Apparently, it is the easiest to improve the taste of sperm for vegetarians, the rest of us will have to put in a considerable effort. When it comes to fish, we can’t say anything definite. The result may be different in each individual case, but overall there is little harm from fish for the sperm’s taste.

Limit the trips to fast food chains, and substitute fast food with natural products. Preservatives and other chemicals contained in hamburgers and double cheeseburgers, as we are all aware, do not contribute to anything good at all, and especially improving the sperm’s taste.

Some herbs may have a positive effect on how your sperm tastes. When used correctly, cinnamon improves blood flow and may prevent diabetes. You can also cleanse your sperm with the following mix. You will need parsley, celery (it contains a lot of chlorophyll, which is a green pigment, found in almost all plants, which makes the taste less bitter), lemon, cinnamon, cardamom (plant from the ginger family) and mint. All of this can be used in its pure form, you can mix it in a salad, or even blend it together and make a cocktail out of it.

Be very careful with various supplements, especially with the ones that claim to give your sperm the taste of a strawberry mojito in two hours. There is a bunch of side effects from such remedies, and none of them has been recognized as effective.

Now that you know what you can do to enhance the taste of your sperm, you now have one more tool in your belt to convince your partner to give you the always desired oral orgasm.

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Julian Sagan writes for the Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

1. How many men she has had before you. This is the subject that women can discuss if pressured, but be sure that she will never tell you the truth about it, especially if you are not her first man. Or if you are not her second one (since being the second one is still somewhat honorable). Most likely she will give you a number below 10, so that it is believable and not humiliating at the same time.

2. Cellulites and wrinkles. This subject also includes fake eyelashes, nails, lips, hair and breasts. What woman in the right mind would freely point out her weak points? Women would gladly point all the downfalls in their female rivals (starting with the neighbor and going up to Angelina Jolie), but taking a closer look at themselves is a different story. I doubt you would ever hear a woman ask: “Darling, how do you like my silicone lips?” It just does not sound right. Same goes for fighting aging and excessive weight. It is highly unlikely that a woman is going to admit to you that she just got Botox injections or that she goes to anti-cellulite massage three times a week. And you should mark my word, you will never find out how much she actually weights.

3. Your penis size. If you ask her to describe your privates, a woman will come up with a bunch of flattering adjectives so that she does not insult you. Also out of the same considerations of being diplomatic, a woman will not discuss the merits of her exes with you, although it is the favorite subject to discuss with her girlfriends. And not only the size, but other intimate details as well.

4. Clothes. Skirts, shirts, dresses… What’s the point of talking about it to men? This is the part of women’s life that they enjoy, and usually men only criticize their lack of frugality. Men, as a rule, do not understand much about fashion therefore the discussion of fashion magazines and new arrivals at the local boutiques is reserved for the girlfriends.

5. Gynecological issues. This includes contraception, hygiene and health issues. You will never hear from a woman about the difference between O.B. and Tampax, how to treat yeast infection, or what side effects her birth control pills are giving her. Or something even more horrific like the fact that she had to be treated for gonorrhea in the past. STDs overall is something women rarely talk about even between themselves. It is the biggest secret in the world. So if you ever want to get to the truth, all you are going to hear is: “No, no, and no”.

6. Her salary. You will never find out how much money she actually makes and what she spends it on, especially if you have common budget in the family. Women always need spending money, which represent those purchases, the meaning and purpose of which they would never be able to explain to men, or men would ever understand for that matter. Why would she need $200 for a face cream if she can spend $5 at WalMart for a similar one? Besides, women need to finance their secret Botox injections and other beauty stuff somehow.

7. Flirting. Women will not tell you who they have been Google Talking or Facebooking throughout the day. Not because it is full of debauchery and infidelity, but rather to save you from unnecessary stress. I doubt there are a lot of men, even among those who present themselves to have free morals, who would approve of their woman talking to her former male classmates, ex-boyfriends, or even male friends.

8. Your Mom. It is very unlikely that a woman will get along with her mother in law. Even if both of them are well-mannered and polite individuals and seem to be best friends, they will still always remain rivals competing for the same man’s attention. And you will never even find out about the fact that your Mom got your wife furious last week. It will remain between her and her girlfriend, and you will continue thinking that everything is calm and peaceful in your kingdom.

This is just a short list of the most common topics women usually tend not to discuss with men. I’m sure you have a few more things to add to this list. And of course this is not the universal truth for all the couples. There are probably a lot of couples who actually do talk about some of the above mentioned taboo subjects, but for the most part, and almost definitely in new relationships, these rules apply.

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However, blind dates do not always lead to a happy ever after. They may turn into a real torture, slowly but steadily growing into a disaster. All of us could share a horror story or two about a blind date going wrong. However, if you prepare yourself and follow our simple advice, you might actually find yourself having a fun time.

1. No Expectations. First of all, do not turn down the possibility of being set up. Chances are, if your friend is saying they know someone who would be great for you, they might be right. And even if they are wrong and it doesn’t work out, there is still a possibility you might make a great friend. However, try going into a blind date with no expectations at all. Having low expectations might make you negative and you will just keep looking for anything that is wrong with your date. Having high expectations might leave you disappointed if the person is not what you pictured in your head. So to avoid this, do not try to imagine how the person looks like, unless you have a recent picture in your hand, and accept what you get. Even if your date is not a looker, they might have a great personality and you will still enjoy your time together. Let’s face it, you might not be what they expected either.

2. Location, Location, Location. Always meet your date in a public place for safety reasons. Try to pick a good casual spot for your date, some place where you could talk, get to know each other, form an opinion about each other and have a good time. Going to the movies or any other place where you would have to sit quietly is not a good idea, just as going to a rock concert or a restaurant with loud music is not a good idea as well. Going for drinks or coffee is a great option for the blind date since there is less pressure and it won’t be expensive. If things go well, you can always go to dinner afterwards or set up a second date. You also want to try and keep your date under an hour, in case you don’t feel the spark there is no need to be stuck there for a long time. And if you like each other, again there is always that second date.

3. First Impression. Make sure to look your best and be dressed appropriately. This is a blind date, and this will be the first time the other person will see you, so make sure to make a good first impression. Take the time and effort to look good. Blind dates can be stressful, so make sure the clothes you are wearing make you feel comfortable and confident.

4. No Third Party. If the friend who introduced you to is present at the date, you are most likely going to feel awkward and embarrassed. They will try really hard to try and make things happen between the two of you and their efforts will just make things uncomfortable. If you want your friend to introduce you to each other, that’s great, but make sure you agree with them beforehand that they will leave in 15-20 minutes and let you spend some time alone.

5. Keeping the conversation flowing. Since you are being set up for this date, ask your mutual friend for some information about your date. What are their interest, hobbies, what do they do for a living, their background are just some ideas. This will come in handy if there is an uncomfortable pause in the conversation. You want to keep the conversation light and smooth. Don’t ask “yes or no” questions. If your date answers in that way, do not be afraid to ask “why?”, they will feel like you are really interested in what they have to say. However, do not try to just say anything to fill the silences. It is ok to have some breaks in the conversation. However, if you and your date seem to have radically different opinions on many issues, then a long lag in a conversation might be the sign of an end of the date.

6. Plan Your Escape. Since it is a blind date, you do not have a lot of information about the other person. The date might turn out to be a disaster, so you always want to plan your exit strategy beforehand. Ask a friend to give you a call at a specific time with an emergency that will get you out of there, and if you don’t pick up the phone that would be code for the date going well.

7. Ending the Date. Even if everything is going great, you still don’t want to linger on your first date. You might consider making some plans, so that you actually do have a legitimate reason to bring the date to a natural conclusion. If the date went good, make sure to tell the other person that you had a great time and would love to meet again. And if you are not interested in having a second date, be honest and tell them straight up that you do not think you have much in common.

A blind date is a great way to start a relationship and it can actually be lots of fun as long as you follow our simple tips. So take your chances, go out on a blind date and enjoy yourself!

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 Julian Sagan of http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

With the rarest exception (let’s exclude people lacking mental health or unfamiliar with any basic ideas of goodness and morals) everyone would agree that murdering a human being is a crime, and that it is one of the most terrible crimes. Shockingly though, many women manage to justify the murder of a child.

Sadly to say, millions of people in the world do not consider abortions a murder, and this includes both men and women. These people nod in agreement when they hear the beginning of the phrase “killing a human being is bad…”, but start to shake their heads vigorously as a sign of absolute disagreement once they hear the end of the sentence “and therefore abortions are bad”. The typical argument for abortion would be something like this: “Wait a second, abortion is not killing a person, an unborn child is not a human being, it’s a fetus that does not comprehend anything, is not capable of talking or voting!!!”

Taking into account the freedom of religion protected by the Constitution, let’s not appeal to the religious principles (although all traditional religions consider abortions manslaughter), instead let’s turn to a strictly scientific point of view on this problem. So what does science have to say about abortion? From the scientific perspective, the human fetus that develops in the mother’s womb after being conceived, almost immediately, within the first few days, acquires its own limbs and organs of senses, in the very rudimentary stage of course. In other words, from the very beginning it is not simply a biomass with yolk and albumen, it is a human being, even if it is only the beginning steps on its way to becoming full-grown Homo sapiens. Moreover, it has just recently become possible with the help of medical ultrasound equipment to register the fetus’s biochemical brain activity even in extremely early stages of development. In simple terms, the baby starts thinking in mother’s womb. Let’s recall the famous saying by the “Father of Modern Philosophy” Rene Descartes – “I think, therefore I am”, which leads us to a conclusion that anyone who thinks is not merely a humanlike creature, but rather a human individual. And when we perform an abortion, we perform the murder of the individual and therefore a murder of a human being.

There is another justification for an abortion that is very common among women. In the overwhelming majority women who undertook this “procedure” put all the blame for it on men. There is a variety of life circumstances, all of which come down to two words – unplanned pregnancy. A woman might have gotten raped and conceived as the result of that, but she does not want to keep the child of a degenerate man. It could be a 16-18 year old girl that got knocked up and ended up without any support from her beloved boyfriend, and she makes the decision to get an abortion partially herself and partially based on the insistent advice of her parents and relatives that she shouldn’t ruin her life at its very beginning. It may be a result of adultery, when for some reason it will be impossible to present the child in 9 months and convince the husband that he is the father, a woman either does not want or cannot file for divorce, so she chooses the easiest way out to make everything look as if nothing ever happened. It may be the circumstances when another baby in the family who will require additional financial expenditures is not part of the plan and threatens the husband and wife with a complicated financial condition. Examples likes these are endless…

However, almost always women justify their actions with the words “I did it because of the man”. A man, a potential father in such circumstances, having learned about the pregnancy of his woman either denies her and the future baby any help or directly insists on the abortion due to the strong possibility of his life becoming really complicated. It is pointless to deny the fact that there are men like this and unfortunately there are a lot of them. However, dear women, incitement to murder and the murder itself are two completely different actions in their nature, even though it might be the same article of the criminal code. Only the incitement to abortion has not killed any kids yet, children who have not even had a chance to be born die from the step that women undertake when they cross the threshold of the specialized clinics, from the signature that women put on the documents signifying the consent to the operation, and from the gesture or word of agreement, with which women confirm their determination before the nurse puts the mask on them and puts them under anesthesia. In the question of whether to get an abortion, the final word always belongs to a woman. And therefore the main responsibility also lies on a woman.

We should always remember that the murder of a child cannot be justified with anything. There are situations when it is hard to blame a woman for getting an abortion, but there are only very few situations like that. I doubt there is a large amount of people who will condemn a woman who got an abortion due to the course of the pregnancy that turned out to be dangerous for her own health and life or after a diagnosis of a child being born with significant physical, mental or intellectual abnormalities. You cannot tell those women that what they did was absolutely right, however you also wouldn’t have the heart to denounce them.

Everything else, such as an undesirable father, financial difficulties, the prospects of becoming a single mom, getting a divorce with a husband who finds out about an adultery, the cry from the heart about being too young, do not justify those women who decided to get an abortion, but on the contrary put the blame on them even more. This is the men’s perspective on an abortion. We should clarify that no one takes the blame off men who urge a woman to the “easiest” solution to all the difficulties associated with the pregnancy. However, it is one thing when she is 2 hours late for the date, talks all day on the phone with her mom or her girlfriends, spends way too much money at hair and spa salons – this is where women need and should be forgiven. And it is a completely different matter when a woman goes to the doctor and gives him permission to murder a human being that lives inside of her.

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So what is the most important in the art of kissing? No matter how you look at it, there is just one answer – to listen to and feel your partner. Even if you have absolutely no skills at all, when you gently touch the lips of the person you love for the first time, the desire to please them leads us to the heavenly bliss of the kiss.

In order to master your technique of the kiss, you should pay attention to the romantic melodramas. Pay attention to how the actors kiss, try to put yourself in their shoes, feel the touch of the other person’s skin. After practicing in the dreamland, you can do a really good job of replaying the kisses with the person you love. At the same time you should not be creating certain templates, since you will have to improvise no matter what, based on how your partner reacts to your touch.

Start with making eye contact and then move your gaze to your partner’s lips. Make sure to angle your face, otherwise your nose might get in the way and prevent you from being able to have a deep and smooth kiss. As you approach for the kiss, close your eyes. Start off with a gentle kiss with your mouth only slightly opened. A French kiss is an open-mouth one, but it should be a shared decision. Open your lips slowly so that your partner’s lip goes between yours, then change it – if you were kissing their upper lip, switch to the lower one. As you are re-locking your lips in this fashion, slightly brush your tongue across your partner’s lips. If they respond with their tongue, then you have your “go ahead” for the French kiss. If both of you are enjoying the open-mouth French kiss, you can try exploring with your tongue and pushing it a little farther into your partner’s mouth. Be careful though not to stick your tongue too far as it can actually be rather unpleasant. Start out slowly and take time to explore each other’s mouths.

And don’t forget about your hands – everything that the touch of your lips did not say, may be added with the gentle stroking of the hair and shoulders, and touching of the neck and hands. Normally you would want to start with your hands on your partner’s hips and slowly move up to their back, and on to their face and hair. If you want to show your partner that you are comfortable with them, you can just stroke their shoulders while you are kissing. A big turn on is putting your hands on your partner’s face or wrapping your arms around them in an embrace.

Keep in mind that everyone kisses differently and enjoys different things, therefore there is no set “right” way to kiss. What makes a good kisser is the ability to read and respond to the partner’s body language. Make sure you are always alert for the clues your partner might be giving you as far as what they like or dislike and adapt to those sign accordingly. If your partner seems uncomfortable at any time, be sure to take it down a notch and take it slow. And on the contrary, if you hear your partner moaning with pleasure, take a note of what it is you are doing as they are obviously enjoying it.

And finally there is a checklist you should always go through before you even think about kissing anyone. Make sure your breath is fresh. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than stinky breath. Dress well, do not wear untidy clothes and look scruffy. Keep your hands and tongue in control and do not go overboard the first time you kiss or you will never see them again. Be confident, it will reflect in the way you kiss. And once again, this cannot be stressed enough, read your partner’s signs and respond to their body language.

Remember, kissing requires practice. You will get better as you kiss more. And the more practice you have with the same person, the more comfortable you will get with each other and learn what each of you likes and dislikes, which will allow you to create your own style that works perfect for both of you.

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To give compliments, or to praise the good qualities of the person, whom you want to feel good about themselves, is a whole science. First of all, one of the main rules is to give compliments only if you are sincere and say things from the heart. Of course if you already have a black belt in hypocrisy, then no one will even suspect that you are dishonest. Cheap flattery – this is what your verbal gifts will become if you actually do not see or do not mean what you are saying. It is impossible to look at a person with admiration and tell them that they look great or that their perfume is excellent, and they smell divine, if in reality you actually do not think that. At the very least you are running the risk of being laughed at, and in the worst case scenario you will run up against contempt. Therefore, be sincere in all your words, do not make a laughing-stock of yourself, and do not enter the scene in the role of a “brownnoser”. If you really want to say something nice to a person in the form of a compliment, it should not be a problem to notice something that stands out, so do not miss a chance to tell them about it.

The second rule is compliments should be said in time. There is a definite time for every gift or surprise, and you should know or feel when that time is. To begin with, define what goal you are pursuing when you say kind words to a person. If it is flirting and you are just trying to charm your partner with your own keenness of observation, then you should say the compliment with a muted voice, and preferably in a setting where you will only be heard by the subject of your adoration. Then the compliments take on somewhat of a mysterious tint. If you want to make a display of your delicate taste in front of your boss, which of course just happens to coincide with his, then the praising words about his or her appearance or never-ending fairness of judgment should be said at the moment when he is addressing you directly, for example, at the time when he is greeting you.

As a rule, spontaneous or emotional compliments are also allowed. This is actually the type that is valued the most. They happen when at the sight of the person you have a strong emotion that is born in you, which you express, and it comes out as something like: “Wow!’, “Awesome!”, and so on. Such effect is usually achieved by someone’s drastic change in the appearance.

Another very substantial compliment is a look. Eyes, as we all know, can say a lot. And when a person catches an admiring look on themselves, then whether it is the evaluation of his or her appearance, work, or anything else, he or she understands that they have been given the most valuable award and that they have worthily deserved it.

Compliments, kind words, and admiration are what a person will seek infinitely. No one will ever get tired of receiving compliments. If all of a sudden you are overtaken with embarrassment at the thought of giving someone a compliment, do not be afraid, this awkwardness gives a certain special charm to your words. No one will ever punish you for good words, they will just thank you.

Give compliments. People may drastically change their view about you once they hear a worthy remark directed at them. Watch the result, when you let go of the emotions and pour them out in the form of kind words on the addressee, you as if automatically become an authority for them in a way. Your girlfriend got a new hair style, who should she ask for an opinion – of course you, the person who has proven to be able to appreciate the real beauty; your boss has just launched a new project, who should he ask to evaluate it first – of course you, last time you praised someone’s work and the person got even more inspired, and so on. Compliments, if they are sincere, carry a substantial weight. Even if you gave a wrong evaluation, but you expressed your true positive opinion, the person you expressed it to will have the picture of the world change immediately. Positive emotions are stronger than negative ones. This is exactly why everyone remembers them. So may the carrier and giver of kind positive emotions be you!

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Believe it or not the statistics claim that the majority of those who find strength to go back to the ex-boyfriend, find themselves understood, accepted, and moreover their relationship comes to a long-term continuous concord. However, before you go back to your ex, you should put in a considerable amount of thought into weighing out all the cons and pros. Let’s weigh it out together.

First of all you should find an answer to the following question: what was the reason for the break-up – your relationship itself or just the unfavorable circumstances? If you decide that the reason for that were the circumstances, then obviously not everything is lost. On the contrary, temporary difficulties may intensify the feelings and attachment as you overcome them. Sometimes people after being apart for a year or two (e.g. leaving to college) and not saying a proper good-bye or keeping a promise to write or call, nevertheless stay faithful to their love (even in spite of other infatuations). Then when they finally meet, they feel even more attracted and happier than even before the split up. It is a completely different matter, if the reason for a break-up was in the couple itself (e.g. one of the partners thinks that he or she is superior intellectually, feels a strong dislike to the other person’s relatives or friends, or simply does not approve of the professional occupation of the partner). Then it is way more complicated. In this case, before you get back together, it is very important to define for yourself, what was inadequate in your perception of life – your life values or your preferences.

When it comes to values, it is the lifestyle you strive for, the ideas, based on which you are planning to build your future, your career ambitions and so on. It’s a whole different matter if it’s just your preferences being different. It is much easier to deal with that – if, for example, you like Matt Damon and his "Bourne’s Identity" and your girlfriend is in love with Brad Pitt and his "Legends of the Fall" you can live with that. With time your tastes might match, and even if they don’t it’s not a big deal. Inadequacy of your life values is a whole different thing.

Just think about it: if the girl you broke up with did not miss an opportunity to flirt with your mutual friend or even crawl into his bed in your absence (or presence), does it make sense to get her back and condemn yourself to more enduring torment? Be aware of the fact that before you resume the relationship, you have to make your peace with what was bothering you before the break-up. There is no way around it, so do not rush into anything. If it is only a matter of different preferences, then go ahead and dare try it once again.

So, let’s suppose you decided to give it another try. Keep in mind that at least one of the two will inevitably have to lower the level of their requirements, or in other words lower their standards. However, even if you are ready to do that, you shouldn’t resume the relationship without a preliminary serious discussion of what caused the break-up. If such conversation does not take place, your relationship will end up being the exact replica of the relationship before the split. And I’m sure neither one of you wants that. Therefore you should calmly and peacefully discuss all the problems and disagreements until you feel like neither one of you is holding a grudge.

And that’s not all. You will be required to put in a real effort once you are back together to steer your relationship in a better direction avoiding the past mistakes. It is absolutely unnecessary to discuss the question of who dumped who or, say, talk about what may happen if you get in a fight again. It is better to think not about why and who is to blame for the break-up, but rather concentrate on what you have in common, since this "common" is exactly what made you get back together again.

One more thing you should think about before giving it a second try is your current personal situation. According to statistics the more successful you are and the more independent you feel in life, the more you are guaranteed to succeed in the activity you decide to undertake. Consider it yourself: you are haunted by failures, no one pays attention to you, you are thinking about your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend… Maybe with this state of affairs you are attracted not to the image of your ex, but instead you are guided by loneliness in your decisions. This is why you should not dive into the past in such state. You simply need someone who will understand you and emphasize with you. And this person does not have to be your ex, with whom your relationship already did not go well once. Undoubtedly, those who are successful have more chances. In that case there is a choice: if you prefer your old love to everyone else, then your choice is objective and it is the only person who you truly need.

And finally the last question that you should answer for yourself before dialing the cherished phone number: are you simply guided by the desire to theoretically prove to yourself that you are capable of getting your ex-girlfriend back? Is it merely selfishness and vanity, the desire brag to your friends or to satisfy your own curiosity that are your real motives of digging up the past? If you realize that this is the case, do not count on your relationship to last long. If your intentions are pure, you are successful, and are sure of your love, then by all means try again! And keep in mind that breaking up for the second time will be less painful than the first time…

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Let’s look at the most common case in our life: a woman is getting married for the second time, but she already has a child (possibly even more than one) from the first marriage. Before you make the decision about living together, you should take a couple of factors into consideration.

Are stepchildren an obstacle? As a rule, the relationship between the adults develops as follows: the mother takes the child to the grandparents or a babysitter while she enjoys her time with her beloved one. Sometimes they take a joint trip to the park, but these trips are a small percentage from the overall time spent together. After the three of them find themselves on one common territory, the order of things might change considerably. You should be especially mindful if the man does not have any kids of his own and therefore no experience with kids. A man does not always clearly comprehends that for example sex is now only going to happen after the kid is asleep (and Mom can spend a considerable amount of time and nerves on it), and the rest of the time the baby will freely travel around the house and stick his curious nose into everything that the adults are doing. Now you will only be able to stay alone with your thoughts in the bathroom, and even then there is no guarantee that the new wife’s offspring is not going to try and break in there as well.

A man has to change a lot of his habits, and a woman should not mislead him about that. It is unlikely that a man will be able to leave his laptop wherever he wants, this valuable thing may get drawn on or even broken, and if a child is older he or she can simply get curious about what’s inside. And even if nothing gets broken, it will not be that easy to get the child accustomed to the thought that there are certain things in the house now that should never be touched. After all Mom’s things belong to a slightly different category: of course there are Mom’s things that preferably should not be played with, but if anything Mom will always forgive, or she will just put it where it cannot be reached. It is a completely different matter when it comes to a strange uncle. He may not understand. And no matter how much he loves his wife, if he has bachelor’s life behind his back, it will be extremely difficult for him to adjust to the constant intervention into his private space. He will have to get used to hiding everything he does not want touched, and if he forgot to do that, he can’t get mad at doodles all over his daily planner or the fact that his brand new stylish leather gloves are part of a teddy bear’s outfit. A man will have to think twice before hugging his wife in front of the kid – the reaction can be different, varying from bawling to trying to be part of the hug.

You should not hide these details from a potential step Dad. However, you also won’t be able to explain everything with words. Women usually use the strategy where at first the new uncle is just a friend and then all of a sudden he is a potential Dad and practically overnight he is already living with Mom and kid. This strategy is usually used to spare the child’s feelings, but realistically it does not spare anyone’s feelings. For everyone involved such abrupt transition undoubtedly causes nothing but stress.

Is it possible to avoid stress? The answer is yes… if you do a "test-drive". This can be all three of you taking a vacation, regularly spending a weekend together with staying on the same territory, taking a trip together, and so on. Women often stay away from this option because they don’t know how to explain to the kid why Mom is sleeping now in the same bed with a strange uncle. But here you have to choose the lesser of the two evils, it will be much worse if after an abrupt transition the potential father will cave under the pressure of the unexpected new lifestyle and run away, and the child has gotten attached to him.

What about the biological Dad? The future of the new family also depends on how the biological father treats his child and to what extend he is involved in making the decisions regarding his offspring. It is most difficult when the father is very actively involved in a child’s life. It is very rare that two men, the former husband and the new husband, are capable of coming to an understanding and getting along. Therefore the woman has to take on a role of the mediator.

She needs to help the new husband put up with the fact that the biological father helps her kid, whether it is financial investments or spending time with the child. At the same time she needs to let the new husband know that he also has the right to make decisions regarding the new family as a whole, including decisions about the kid.

If you don’t do this, then the new head of the family will be inevitably irritated that the majority of the family decisions regarding the child and the financial politics that comes with it is decided by someone else. And even if from the first glance it seems like the man does not care, sooner or later he will start thinking about his role in the family. Who is he? A person responsible for all the members of his family, or merely a legalized lover of the Mom?

When there are no grounds for a conflict and the biological dad very rarely shows up, the woman needs to let her husband know that a child depends on his decisions just as much as she does, and that a family is one whole. Dividing the relationship into my relationship with the child and my relationship with the husband is hopeless and has no future.

What about the relationship with the relatives? Now the man has a new mother- and father-in-law, and possibly even brothers- and sisters-in-law, as well as nieces and nephews. How are they going to treat him? Here a woman needs to be on her guard, because even if she does not allow herself the comparisons like "my ex-husband used to do it this way", there is no guarantee that her relatives will not do it. And we are talking out loud. Men are very sensitive to such comparisons.

At the beginning of the relationship all the problems should be solved by only the three of you. And only when everything is settled into a calm and steady routine, the woman can give her relatives access to the new family. No one is saying that they are bad and untactful, they are simply a live reminder about the past. And at the very beginning, there is no need for such reminders.

When it comes to second marriage, haste leads to no good. Sometimes it is better and more honest to stay lovers and friends and sometimes you need time and wisdom. Store up on patience – in such situation it is something you will definitely need.

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Let’s start with the pros. The first one is sex without limitations. The most obvious advantage is the simplicity of the relationship. You have a sexual partner, you don’t have to look elsewhere, moreover your relationship is built on the lack of pressure and limitations, and of course the emotional side of the issue. However, this is only possible in case both parties clearly understand that such sexual relationship does not bind either one of them to any obligations. Both partners are honest with each other about having sex and nothing more, or in other words they just pleasure each other without any thoughts about being used by the other person, since in all actuality, a sexual relationship like this is based on the mutual using of each other.

If you do not want your sexual relationship to ruin your friendship, you should be honest with each other. If one of you (this especially concerns the females) starts to nourish hope for something more, you can consider it the beginning of the end of your friendship. In 9 out of 10 cases such friendly-sexual relationship does not grow into a serious stage, therefore, women, do not attempt to turn your male friend into a serious partner for life and do not enter into sexual relationship with him with some far-reaching calculations, do it only if both of you want sexual pleasure and it is only limited to sex.

There is also a factor of convenience and comfort. Such situation is convenient since this way you are skipping over the flirting stage. You do not need to go on dates, buy gifts, ask her out for dinner, and try to guess what she likes and what she does not. Everything is already simple and known. You do not need to worry about how the evening is going to go, you feel comfortable with each other both physically and emotionally, you both know each other’s shortcomings. Men do not have to worry whether the sexual intercourse will be successful since either way you will remain on good terms and may even laugh together over minor setbacks. A relationship like this suits people who do not have time for romance, but need to fulfill their physical needs.

Remember that you should be honest with each other, cross the t’s and dot the i’s. Moreover you should not share about your relationship with your friends, relatives, or acquaintances. You also should not parade your relationship in public. If you both have a mutual understanding when it comes to this, it is usually enough to just make a call. But if for some reason your partner is saying no to meeting up, do not insist or take offense, since you don’t owe anything to each other, this is the basis of such a relationship.

Furthermore, the factor of convenience and comfort does not mean that you should be a lazy lover. At the same time do not try to impress your partner, simply pleasure the other person, and they will reciprocate with the same.

Now let’s move on to the cons. Someone will inevitably get attached, start wanting more, and dream about a serious relationship. And if such desires are not mutual, people will hurt each other, there will be jealousy. It is difficult to separate sex from emotions, but this is exactly what you need to do if you want to start a sexual relationship with a friend.

Try to avoid the owner instinct. Remember that your relationship is open, you do not owe anything to each other. If, for example, you do not want to meet up today, it does not mean that your partner does not have the right to go out with someone else. If you are an owner by nature, maybe you should not start a relationship like this.

Sex will bring the end to friendship. Balancing friendship and love, sooner or later ruins the friendship, you may stop communicating altogether. Unfortunately, usually this is exactly how things end up, since as soon as you move on to the physical level, the former dynamic of the friendship development is gone forever.

If you want to preserve your friendship with the person who to his misfortunate happened to be of the opposite sex, do not risk it and take some precautions: do not drink alcohol together, do not spend a lot of time alone.

If a woman, with whom you have a serious relationship, ever finds out that you used to have a sexual relationship with a female friend, she will be jealous and cautious about all the women in your life. The same is true when applied to men.

The "happy end" in a relationship like this does not happen very often, however, it is still possible that both of you will develop romantic feelings for each other. And when it happens, your friendship will grow into something more than merely an agreement to satisfy your physical needs, it will grow into a serious relationship with a solid foundation, based on friendship, mutual understanding and tender feelings.

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Consistent smoking is one of the main causes of the blood-vessel diseases. Under the influence of nicotine the blood vessels contract and certain changes take place in their walls, which contribute to the development of atherosclerosis. The vessel constriction, which happens as a result of the excessive overgrowth of their internal wall, leads to certain areas of the heart, the lower extremities foremost, to not get enough blood supply, which ultimately may lead to gangrene, a serious and potentially life-threatening condition that arises when a considerable mass of body tissue dies. The smoker’s heart itself literally works at full stretch: each cigarette speeds up the heartbeat by 18-20 beats per minute, and the number of heart contractions per day increases by15-20 thousand.

A very common consequence of consistent nicotine poisoning is the so-called smoker’s bronchitis, which eventually may lead to the development of lung emphysema, a long-term, progressive disease of the lungs when the tissues necessary to support the physical shape and function of the lungs are destroyed, causing primarily the shortness of breath. In addition, people who smoke are more frequently exposed to such illnesses like conjunctivitis, tonsillitis, angina, blood stroke, ulcer, cancer, and so on.

As a result of smoking for a long time you may lose your sense of taste and ability to distinguish smells, as well as develop weakening of sight, worsening of your face skin condition, destruction of your teeth and gums. Women who smoke are at risk of suffering irregular menstrual cycle and infertility.

There are a number of various methods developed to help quit smoking. Doctors recommend combining several methods to increase their effect. If a person is not lacking in willpower and has set his or her mind to quit smoking, then usually they don’t even need medical intervention. However, it is beyond some people’s power to kick this habit. In that case one needs to turn for help to a specialist or undergo a medical treatment. Below is the list of the most frequently used methods.

Psychotherapy. First step is to determine whether the smoker even wants to quit smoking or wants to start wanting to quit smoking. Very often unsuccessful attempts of treatment happen because a person does not have a conscious desire to quit. A psychotherapist needs to determine whether it’s the case and figure out the stage that the smoker is in. Psychotherapy or other psychological methods should be used to lead the smoker to the point of having a desire to quit smoking.

Hypnosis. There are two known hypnosis techniques, which can be used separately or in combination with each other. One of the methods involves a therapist putting a patient in a state of deep relaxation and the statement that smoking is harmful and unpleasant for the body is input into the unconsciousness. In case of the session being successful after coming back from the deep relaxation state the smoker does not feel any craving for smoking. It is suggested to have 3 or 4 sessions of such hypnotherapy. The success in this case is only 10-30%. The second method involves a doctor putting a patient into a hypnotic state, during which the hypnotherapist communicates with the unconscious part of the person’s mind, where the harmful habit appears and strengthens so to speak. Very often being introduced to smoking takes place at an age when being part of a group requires smoking. Nicotine creates a feeling of certain wellbeing, thus disguising sadness, guilt or fear, which are driven into unconsciousness and may remain unnoticed with medical treatment. Therefore it is necessary to determine the presence of this psychological impact, which should be coped with before the person is separated from a cigarette.

Treatments with nicotine substitutes. There is a group of naturally occurring chemical compounds called alkaloids, which include lobeline and cytisine. Lobeline in its pure form it is a white amorphous powder which is freely soluble in water. It has been used as a smoking cessation aid and may have application in the treatment of other drug addictions such as to amphetamines, cocaine, or alcohol. Cytisine pharmacologically exhibits similar effects to nicotine due to structural similarity of the two molecules. Although in large doses it can interfere with respiration and become fatal. Both of these alkaloids have a similar affect on the nervous system and the metabolism as nicotine does.

Simultaneously the smoker loses the taste for cigarettes. At the same time once you stop smoking, your body starts experiencing the lack of some useful compounds that previously were absorbed with cigarette smoke. There are special supplements you can take to make up for the deficit of this vital substance.

Diet. There is a special diet developed especially to remove toxic substances from the body and help get rid of nicotine that affects nervous system and has accumulated in fat layers. The quicker the nicotine is removed from the body, the quicker the deficit of certain substances contained in tobacco and actively used by our body decreases.

Physical exercises. It is very important to introduce a special physical exercise program to control breathing and increase oxygen intake. Smoking reduces the lung capacity and oxygen consumption, which if increased improves the person’s overall state of health. Such exercise programs like qigong(Chinese systems of physical and mental training for health, martial arts and self-enlightenment), tai chi (an internal Chinese martial art practiced for both its defense training and its health benefits), yoga and main exercises of aerobics are the most beneficial.

Breathing exercises. Yoga and qigong are the most recognized methods to restore the lung and blood flow function. These techniques are very useful to charge up the body with oxygen.

Massage. Massage, especially the manual lymph-drainage and shiatsu, contribute to drawing nicotine out of the tissues, which in turn helps restore the body’s overall function.

Acupuncture. Combined with other methods, acupuncture can prove to be extremely valuable when it comes to breaking the addiction. Even when used by itself, this method provides good results. Acupuncture may be of general nature or auricular (inserting and manipulating needles into active points of the ear).

Nicotine-replenishing substitutes. Nicotine patch, chewing gum or implants help in cases when a smoker is not receptive to other methods, but you shouldn’t forget that when you use them, nicotine continues to be supplied to your body affecting the nervous system and not releasing from the addiction. If a patient is not freed from the reason that caused the addiction then we are merely talking about replacing one compound with another. As soon as the affect of the substitute is over, the cigarette addiction comes back since it has not been cured.

Now that you familiarized yourself with the most effective methods to quit smoking, we hope you choose one for yourself and moreover we hope you actually implement it. We hope it works and so does your body!

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1. The lifespan increases. The specialists from Queen’s University Belfast have conducted a research, in which they have traced the dependency of overall state of health on the regularity of sexual intercourse. The scientists have analyzed the mortality data among approximately 1,000 middle-aged men over a period of ten years. It turned out that men who had the most orgasms had the mortality rate of half as low as those men who did not have sex at all.

2. The sense of smell improves. The production of hormone prolactin increases right after sex. Prolactin provides the body with sexual gratification after sexual intercourse. It counteracts the effect of dopamine, which is responsible for sexual arousal. The release of this hormone triggers the stem cells of the brain to form new neurons in the olfactory center.

3. The risk of heart diseases reduces. After the research conducted by the Queen’s University Belfast, the scientists concentrated their efforts on the cardiovascular system. They found out that for men who have sex three times a week or more the possibility of heart attack and stroke drops in half.

4. You lose weight and your overall health improves. Sex is also a physical exercise. One passionate sexual intercourse burns 200 calories – the same amount as 15 minutes of running track or playing a game of tennis. A sexually aroused person’s pulse increases from 70 to 150 beats per minute, which would be the same for a sportsman putting in his maximum effort. Besides, the muscle contractions during the sexual intercourse work out pelvis, hips, buttocks, hands and chest. Having sex also increases the testosterone production, which leads to strengthening of your bones and muscles.

5. The depression level decreases. This is the result of a study conducted among 293 women. The American psychologist Gordon Gallup found out that women who are sexually active and whose sexual partners did not use condoms during intercourse were less subject to depression than women whose partners used condoms. One of the possible explanations of such dependence has to do with prostaglandin, a hormone contained in semen, which gets into female genital tracts thus regulating the production of female hormones.

6. Pain relief. Right before the orgasm, the level of hormone oxytocin also known as the "cuddle hormone" increases by five times compared to its usual level. This in turn triggers the formation of endorphins, which have a sedative or pain-relieving effect on any type of ache, starting from headache and going up to arthritis and even migraine. For women, having sex also leads to the production of estrogen, the primary female sex hormone, which can suppress pains related to premenstrual period.

7. The risk of flu or cold decreases. University of Pennsylvania has conducted a research, according to the results of which people who have sex once or twice a week have 30% more antibodies called immunoglobulin A, compared to those who have sex less. These antibodies are famous for strengthening the immune system.

8. The bladder condition improves. Have you ever heard about doctor Kegel’s exercises for the genitals’ muscles? We perform these exercises without even realizing it every time when we stop the urination. They are known to increase bladder and bowel control and improve sexual function. These same muscles are worked out during sexual intercourse.

9. The teeth condition improves. Seminal plasma contains zinc, calcium, and other minerals which have been proven to slow down the destruction of teeth. This method might be more effective and definitely more pleasant than the traditional toothpaste and toothbrush, wouldn’t you agree? By the way, scientists have discovered that hygiene rules require brushing your teeth before and after sexual intercourse, which in itself already contributes to maintaining your teeth in good health.

10. Healthy prostate gland. Some urologists believe that there is a connection between the frequency of ejaculation and prostate cancer development. This argument is based on the following: in order to produce the seminal fluid, the prostate gland and seminal vesicles take substances like zinc, citric acid, and potassium from the blood and then increase their concentration up to 600 times. Carcinogens that are also present in blood get more concentrated as well. A carcinogen is any substance that is an agent directly involved in causing cancer. Carcinogens may increase the risk of cancer by altering cellular metabolism or damaging DNA directly in cells, which interferes with biological processes, and induces the uncontrolled, malignant division, ultimately leading to the formation of tumors. Instead of keeping these concentrated carcinogens in our body, it is better to get rid of them. This could be achieved with good old sex.

However, if your goal is merely cleansing the prostate gland, then you might be better off just masturbating, especially if you have several sex partners, since having sex with several partners in itself may increase the risk of cancer by 40%.

Now that you know all the benefits of sex, you have just that many more reasons to enjoy it!

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Meanwhile, with such a diversity of the variables, the one constituent of the ideal relationship remains constant regardless of its participants. The distinctive trait of all men is that they all build a relationship with circumspection and even caution. Women treat this serious business more scrupulously. When choosing a partner for life, not only do they put forth a huge list of requirements, but they are also prepared to put in a lot of effort to turn the man into the ideal of their dreams. But in spite of female talkativeness and the passion for sorting out the relationship, it is often hard for men to understand what exactly a woman needs to be completely happy.

So what do women want? Simply to be happy! Except for they don’t talk about it directly. If you learn to talk to a woman in her language, learn to keep silent when you really want to reply, to hug when you want to leave, to say the truth even if it causes pain, be a man that she can be completely confident in, and love her as you love yourself, you will not be ever again asking what a woman wants. They will be asking you about your wishes and will carry them out with joy!

Here are just a few things that women especially appreciate in men.

High evaluation from other people. A woman needs to know that her man arouses genuine interest in other women. Women are especially attracted to men with a slightly dubious reputation. A man with a date (especially a beautiful one) arouses much more interest in women than a man who is by himself. Ironically, the fact is that the easiest (and most proven) way to seduce a woman is to make her jealous. Female rivalry works miracles!

Solidity. A woman needs stability, order, confidence in tomorrow. She needs a man that she can rely on. If you say that you will be home by 9pm then be home at 9pm. Running late? Call her and let her know that you got delayed. It is often hard for men to understand the difference between support and total control. Building a strong foundation of the relationship and stability does not yet mean that the spontaneity is gone from your relationship and you are bound hands and feet. Love should not be a crutch for you but rather a support.

Reliability. Women want to feel themselves under the protection of a man. They need to know that everything will be fine. This does not mean that a man should be a tall bodybuilder or have a million-dollar bank account. It is sufficient to be able to calm a woman down, take care of her needs and sometimes tell her what she wants to hear – that everything will definitely be all right.

Love. Love your woman more than anything in the world. Demonstrate your love. Prove your love to her every day, every hour, every minute and every second of each minute, hour and day. Become love itself and when dealing with any problem ask yourself how love would act under these circumstances.

Gratitude. Women really do wait for men to show their appreciation and compliments, they just don’t show it. Therefore, men, give your women compliments more often, give them a chance to feel beautiful and desirable, although do not cultivate the feeling of irreplaceability. Don’t get carried away and do not chase after a woman scaring her off by statements like you cannot live without her. This looks pathetic and repulsive.

Honesty. A woman can forgive almost everything, but she will never forgive lies or intentional deception. If she caught you lying once, she will never be able to trust you. Women treat lying as a sign of disrespect. Tell a woman the truth no matter how unpleasant it is and your relationship will get a second chance.

Affection. Hug her in the morning, hug her before leaving to work, send her affectionate emails throughout the day and hug her ten more time when you get home. A woman should feel loved and desired.

Sense of humor. Women do not like boring. Smile more, joke around, do not take life too seriously! Women value such attitude way more than unshakeable seriousness – even if it is accompanied with beauty and wealth.

Goals. Women value goal-oriented men. It is not necessary to have lots of money and a luxury car now, but it is necessary to strive for that. Women like self-fulfilled and self-sufficient men.

So let’s conclude: women dream about understanding, happiness, respect and expect honesty from men. Let’s not forget that women also need changes since priorities and goals in life change with time. Why men can not understand women? Simply because it is God’s masterpiece, which becomes more perfect with each day!

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But there was one prediction that no one paid attention to. And since mammoths’ times there have been tales about a miraculous remedy that helps men get rid of impotence. When the first submarine was built everyone enthusiastically rushed to reread Jules Verne since he was the one who predicted the invention of such equipment! Arthur Clarke has been called the oracle for his numerous predictions in his science-fiction novels. However, when people found out about Viagra, no one exclaimed excitedly that our forefathers have been talking about it thousands of years ago. The magic drink that kings weakened by their age drink in order to conceive the heir to the throne has become a reality!

Viagra is for some reason considered an unexpected discovery that no one heard or even thought about before. However, Viagra, the first pharmaceutical remedy that helps with erectile disorder, has been waited on for thousands of years. While waiting people made do with celery, mandrake root, various aphrodisiacs, even seafood (which, as modern science has discovered, has absolutely no relation to erection).

Naturally, Viagra was immediately surrounded with myths, legends and stories. Some of them have captured the minds of people so much that the 20th century has all the chances to go down in history not as the century of the conquered atom, the century of origin of astronautics or something else just as technological, but as a century of Viagra. And centuries later our descendents when talking about the great artists of the 20th century will say: "He drew this painting at the beginning of the Viagra century…"

Men have accepted the appearance of Viagra very enthusiastically, but they insistently do not admit to it out loud. They talk about the effects of Viagra in secrecy and even then as if they heard about it from a guy friend.

The first and main myth about Viagra is that once you take the "magic blue pill" all your problems related to erection will disappear. Moreover, that specific part of the body, whose functionality the majority of men are so worried about, will be erect any time and under any circumstances. However, Viagra does not give a one hundred percent guarantee of the success. It does not help get rid of all of the types of erectile dysfunction. There are certain illnesses (for example, fibrosis of the penis cavernous body) for which Viagra is useless, and if you have pathological venous drainage Viagra does have an effect but a very little one.

Another quite wide-spread myth is that if a man took a Viagra pill then he needs a woman immediately. This myth owes its origins to the idea of sex being purely physiological and nothing more. But sex is something more than just physiological administration sort of going to the bathroom. Sex is physiology and psychology and even a certain mental effort. Intellect is just as involved in sex as the body is. However, taking Viagra without the prospects of sex is not recommended since it causes an increase of blood flow to the cavernous body of penis. We would all agree that it would be somewhat uncomfortable showing up in public like this.

A great myth related to the previous ones is that Viagra increases the sexual drive. Unfortunately, we have to disappoint you, nothing of the kind actually takes place. Sexual drive is not just an increased blood flow… and so on. Viagra is not am arousing tool, but merely a remedy that helps keep the arousal at the necessary level.

The most charming myth is related to women. It is claimed that women also need to take Viagra. In that case they are freer in sex, more easily aroused… In other words, supposedly if you slip Viagra to the object of your desires then the gymnastics in bed will follow nearly with cosmic speed. However I have to repeat myself: the effect of Viagra is based on the increase of the blood flow to the cavernous body of penis. If there is someone who does not know this fact then I have to report that women not only do not have the cavernous body, but they also lack the penis.

Viagra also does not help to increase your charisma and attractiveness, does not affect child-bearing. You can eat the whole pack at once, but it will have absolutely no effect on the quality of the seminal fluid, its amount and activity level of the spermatozoa).

However, Viagra has an unexpected side effect – it increases the amount of divorces and the percentage of sexually transmitted diseases and AIDS at the retirement age. Although the reason for this is more of a psychological one. Men having said good bye to their sexual drive and stamina a while ago due to age set out on an adventure after acquiring the "magical remedy". Their own wives are not so interesting to them due to the same reason of age and they end up in bed with younger and more attractive women.

Regardless of how much Viagra is being criticized, it was taken, is being taken and will be taken in the future. Which is no surprise at all since we are talking about the basic human need for survival of its kind. And sex is one of the ways to implement this need that has proven its effectiveness.

Now that you know about the truth you can stop slipping those pills to your partner, she won’t tell a difference anyway. Use them for what they are made for: making sure that you never have another thirty second erection, or let’s be honest ten second erection.

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Men and women equally want to continue having full value relationships at any age. Healthy sexual life favorably affects all aspects of life including physical shape and self-esteem. Even though television and movies persistently persuade us that sex is something only teenagers and youngsters engage in, to put it mildly, it does not represent the reality. The need for sex does not go away with age. It is impossible to outgrow the need for love, emotional closeness and intimacy. The majority of people have sexual fantasies even at 80 and 90 years of age.

Indeed, sex when you are 80 differs from sex when you are 20, however it does not mean that sexual life at an older age cannot bring satisfaction and pleasure. Understanding the changes that take place in your body or in your partner’s body with age will help you prepare for some possible sexual issues.

First, there are the natural age changes. As we all know, our organism ages and our body wears out, and these natural age changes may influence our sexual life. And although most often we are talking about physical changes, we should not disregard the psychological changes as well.

Let’s talk about the physical changes first. Testosterone controls the sexual attraction in both men and women. The bodies of most aging men and women produce the necessary amount of testosterone to sustain their interest in sex. And although with age some of the aspects of sex that we have grown accustomed to become difficult, these changes are a great stimulus to try out new positions and techniques.

The physical changes in a woman’s body that happen with age are mainly related to menopause and the lowering of the hormone estrogen’s level. With age the production of the vaginal lubricant when sexually aroused takes more time. The vagina loses its resilience and elasticity. All of this makes the sexual intercourse less pleasant or even painful. Besides, women may feel a burning sensation during sex or develop bleeding after the sexual intercourse is over. To stimulate the natural production of the vaginal lubricant, it is necessary to engage in the foreplay. Another solution for this problem is using a water based lubricant (for example K-Y jelly), using a cream containing estrogen or going through an estrogen-replacing therapy. Regular sex helps maintain the normal production of the vaginal lubricant and the elasticity of the vagina. Long abstinence can cause the vagina to lose its elasticity therefore it will take time to stretch it for the penis. You should discuss this problem with your partner and ask him to move slowly in order to reduce your painful sensations.

Now let’s move on to psychological changes. Maintaining the ability to engage in sexual activities at an elderly age depends not only on your body but also on your consciousness. If you are ashamed of your sexual needs, anxiety and stress can negatively affect the ability to experience sexual arousal. The age related changes in your appearance may influence your emotional openness and ability to enter into an intimate relationship. The more wrinkles and grey hairs you notice, the lower your self-esteem becomes. You feel unattractive. The negative self-image suppresses the sexual drive since you feel unworthy of sexual attention from your partner and do not trust him/her.

Stress and anxiety due to sexual behavior and potential failures in bed may provoke sexual weakness (impotence) in men and frigidity in women. Do not rush things and you may be able to avoid the emotional pressure.

Discuss this sore point with your partner; tell them about your emotions and worries. His or her support will help you regain confidence in yourself.

So how can you improve your sexual life with age? A lot of elderly people consider their intimate life fuller than the one they used to have when they were younger. They are convinced that with age sex only becomes better similarly to good wine. In order to improve your sexual life you need to discuss any problems or fantasies you may have more often and introduce changes to your sexual repertoire.

You should expand your view on sex. Sex is not merely a number of physical exercises in order to achieve pleasure. Sex does not come down to sexual intercourse. With age many people start to appreciate the communication before and after sex, which makes the intimacy itself way brighter. Petting and touching may become a great alternative to sexual intercourse, even the simplest embrace may cause an orgasm. Consider erotic massage, masturbation or oral sex.

Communicate more with your partner. Nothing draws you as close as communication. Discuss the changes that you are going through with your partner in order to understand how you can get rid of any discomforts and make sex even better. Perhaps, the solution will be a new position or a new type of sexual communication, for example massage. Ask your partner about his/her needs and fantasies and think about how you can satisfy them. The discussion of sex itself is very arousing and can become an excellent foreplay.

Introduce changes to your sexual routine. Simple changes can improve your intimate life. Move sex to a time when you feel the most surge of energy. Try having sex in the morning when you are full of strength after a good night sleep instead of postponing it until the end of the day when you are drained and exhausted. Since you will need more time to get aroused, set aside more time for preparation of the romantic environment, for example a romantic dinner, a party for just the two of you or dancing. Try out the new sex positions, do not just stick to the "missionary" one. Look for the position that will be comfortable both for you and your partner.

Control your expectations. If you did not have sex very often when you were young do not expect to become a sex machine at an older age. Perhaps, when you were young the expression of intimacy for you was something else such as an interesting talk and communication. If that’s the case, then the same order of things will remain as you get older. Couples that used to love to have sex when they were younger are unlikely to stop liking having sex as they get older.

Take care of yourself. Healthy eating and regular physical exercise will help maintain you in good shape. This in turn will help maintain your readiness for sex at any age. Keep to a balanced diet rich in fruit and vegetables. Exercise at least for half an hour a day every day of the week. Drink less alcohol, it lowers both male and female sexual potency. Drugs, for example marijuana and cocaine, also negatively affect your sexual function.

If you do not have a sexual partner, this does not mean that you should give up on sex altogether. More than half of elderly people over 65 years of age in the US are single. It is still possible to find new love at this age or simply set out on a romantic adventure which will lead to bed. Women live longer than men therefore there are more single women and finding a partner at an elderly age is not that easy. Try to attend places and events where you can meet people of your age. It is never too late to start a relationship.

When you do start new sexual relationships do not forget about safe sex. A lot of older people neglect it because they are sure that they are not in danger of getting infected with an STD including AIDS. In spite of this opinion, AIDS is not the disease of the young people. Among those who suffer from AIDS in the US more than 10% of people are over 50. Every person engaging in sexual activities, regardless of their age, can get infected with an STD. Either do not change your partner or practice safe sex with a condom. Discuss the possibility of AIDS tests with your partner. Older people rarely undergo such examinations.

And finally talk to you doctor. Often elderly people feel ashamed to discuss sex with their doctor. However, such communication can help you better understand the age changes of your body and mind as well as their influence of your sexual activity.

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The only thing that remains unclear then is why does the term "classic date" exist even today? Why nowadays Casanovas continue to seduce women over and over again according to the same routine proven by hundreds of years, which undoubtedly is also well known to the "victims" up to the smallest details? What is the secret of such success? The answer is simple – it is because of the instincts of a primeval woman!

The first step is to create the space. We all know that women are more delicate and sensitive than men, and therefore you should use the environment as an external stimulant. You need a secluded clean "cave" that is guaranteed to not have any one storm into it. A woman has a strong desire to have sex only in a very intimate setting. By the way, this is exactly why some women have a hidden desire to have sex in public places, although not each woman is ready to make their fantasies come true. At least not right away! The female hormone estrogen makes a woman sensitive to the lighting: the dimmed light enlarges the pupils of the eyes and people start to look more attractive to each other. A woman starts to feel more confident since the dimness hides the flaws and defects of the body, which each woman inevitably looks for or makes up, making herself more self-conscious and insecure. Make sure not to lose sight of the background sounds. A music picked out right has a magnetic affect on a woman and makes her feel more relaxed. Fire has a special symbolism. Any woman considers it romantic. Ever since ancient times gathering wood and making fire is a service that a man performed for a woman.

Step number two is to feed her. A man has been evolving as a hunter and therefore offering food as a present to a woman is an important part of a ritual, indicating that you are concerned about her wellbeing and survival. Even if she is not hungry, the fact that you provided the food awakens the primeval instincts in a woman. And of course the strongest evidence that a woman has admitted your supremacy is when she cooks for you herself, which is actually not that hard to achieve.

Step number three is flowers. Each one of us is well aware of the absurdity of this female desire. Why waste resources on something that is absolutely useless and disappears after just a few days? It seems more reasonable to at least give her flowers in a pot and in this way clearly demonstrate the meaningfulness of the gift through striving to preserve the present. However, the paradox of the female logic lies exactly in the fact that she wants a live bouquet, which will wilt and be thrown away after just several days, so that she can receive a new confirmation of her significance and your readiness to court her.

Step number four is dance with her. Dancing is referred to as the vertical version of the horizontal desire and its history is the history of a ritual which allows the appropriate contact between male and female bodies as a man’s courtship. There are analogues of dancing in the animal world as well. Besides, a woman’s skin is ten times more sensitive to the touch than a man’s skin and when your bodies touch you activate the hormone of pleasure in her and send her a signal of your desire to possess her on an unconscious level.

Step number five is chocolate and champagne. So why is this set of goods an indispensible part of any date? The fact is that champagne contains the chemical elements that are not found in any other alcoholic drinks. These chemicals raise the level of the testosterone in the blood and as a result make a female more sexually aggressive. And as far as chocolate, we sure hope that you heard about it being a female drug. And it is actually not a myth. The cocoa beans that are used to make dark chocolate contain the substance that similarly to the chemical components of hemp attach to the female’s brain receptors causing a woman to experience the sensations comparable to the sensation you get after smoking marijuana. So don’t be stingy and do not try to cut down on these two ingredients of your date.

Now that you know the five basic steps necessary to woo any woman, go out there and have the most unforgettable first date of your life!

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Patience and self-control have become deeply rooted in our society as the main characteristics of good manners. But from the standpoint of psychology, such ethics teach a person not to face the problems but to put up with them instead. This is of course wrong. First of all, it leads to the problems not really being solved, unless these problems just disappear with time, and second of all, the individuality of the person actually gets destroyed under the influence of all the accumulated unexpressed negative emotions.

Besides, self-control is hypocritical, since we feel one thing, say another thing, and do something completely different. At the same time, the negative emotions having accumulated to the critical point may lead to an uncontrollable outburst. And we can all agree that we would rather not wait for that to happen. So what should we do?

The easiest route is to take control over our aggression, behave sincerely, and in all difficult situations to speak openly about how you truly feel, for example: "This situation makes me mad", "I should confess that this makes me furious", "This makes me extremely angry", "This is unpleasant to me", "I feel pressured" and so on. This sets a good beginning to allow the person you are communicating with to have a chance to pay proper attention to the strength of your emotions and make their contribution to the solving of the problem. The important thing to remember is that your words should not express aggression towards the person, in other words the phrase should not contain the word ‘you’, for example: "You make me mad" or "How can you not understand that this makes me angry". Such accusing words will definitely wound the other person and your conversation risks rising to a whole new level of insulting each other. In the worst case scenario, the partner will just take offense and withdraw into themselves, which can come to the surface later at the most inconvenient moment.

There are of course certain limitations in using this technique depending on what type of personality your partner has.

For selfish people other people’s emotions are not a cause for their own thoughts and actions, in other words they do not comprehend the considerate approach to the relationship. Perhaps they are only oriented to the language of force, meaning if you do not shout, blackmail, intrigue, or intimidate, the selfish people will simply not understand that you are extremely upset with them.

If you know that you are an aggressive person by nature, who is used to strongly expressing all of your emotions, but you do not want to harm people around you then you can warn everyone beforehand that sometimes you express your temper in an impulsive way. But you should take into account that there may be people around you with a timid personality, who overall cannot handle any form of strong expression of emotions. You should think about what is the best way to express your discontent to them: it might be enough to express your concern, request, or insistent recommendation.

It may be that you possess power over the person you are talking to, for example, you are a parent and a child completely depends on you, or a husband who is the provider for the a family, or a boss whose employees’ well-being depends on. In this case you should assume that people depending on you may feel difficulties expressing their opinions to you. In order to see and manage problems in proper time, draw the child, spouse, or employees out to an open discussion rather than a fighting match. Reconcile your positions on the issues at hand in a calm situation.

Do not sit and wait until the conflict leads to the state of uncontrollable explosion. If you feel a burst of uncontrollable rage coming on, go ahead and seclude yourself, rip a bunch of newspapers or break some cheap dishes bought beforehand specifically for an occasion like this (just be careful not to cut yourself). And when it blows over, think about what exactly you are so unhappy about and how you can solve the problem. Overall if you are extremely hot-tempered, maybe you are just surrounded by bad people and you should change your environment, and perhaps you yourself are decidedly displeased with something in your life, then you should change yourself and your life overall.

In life everyone faces an aggression directed at us. So how should we handle it? Do not take the anger of people around you to heart, treat it as a guide to action to clear up the problems related to the anger. The person may not be mad at you personally, but be upset with a problem in regards to your relationship, or it could be a situation that you just happen to be a part of and perhaps an easy/only/first target. Usually anger is a sign that the person has already exhausted all other options to solve the problem, but has not achieved any results.

A brawl is an extreme way of solving the problem usually used as a last resort. If a problem does not get solved in a fight, then people either break up or stay with each other and gain pleasure from mutual hysterics, for which both partners should be fairly aggressive.

If your partner has an impulsive manner of expressing any information, do not try to change them, concentrate on the content of the communication and not the emotions. It can look pretty amusing from the outside. For example, a husband says to his wife: "How many times can I tell you not to throw the laundry on the dinner table!!!" And she replies: "Thank you, honey, for caring so much about the house being tidy…" Beware though that this will only work if you really are planning on improving, otherwise your calm answer can be considered as a cynical rudeness. And instead of getting upset with your girlfriend’s hypocritical compassion: "What happened? You don’t look so good today!" you can simply respond with: "Thank you, dear, for being so attentive to me!" And afterwards think whether you need such "caring" girlfriends.

It is also important to express your complete understanding of the other person’s feelings and then switch the conversation into a constructive direction, for example: "Yes, I can see that you are really mad about this… but let’s think about how we can solve this problem". And if you think that the aggressive behavior of your partner notably harms you as an individual, then start looking for a new partner.

With your new set of fighting tools in your tool bag, you can now turn those destructive fights into fights that actually bring a positive outcome.

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It is time to crush the most popular myths about family life. We have decoded the secret meaning of all the advice that husband and wife hear from the very first day they tie the knot.

So myth number one: you should not go to sleep without making up after a fight. Well, it sounds quite reasonable – why risk it, what if overnight the fight that has started over something trifle will only flare up and become a real problem? It is better to make up and go to sleep with a clear conciseness and have a fresh start the following morning.

Our opinion: just make a deal with your other half to postpone the continuation of the fight till the morning – especially if it is past midnight, you are exhausted, and there is no foreseeable end to the fight any time soon. After all, not every argument can be limited by time restrictions and unfortunately not all of us can stop at the right time.

Of course it is bad to go to sleep feeling irritated after the fight. But there are certain pluses to it too, even if sometimes you sleep on opposite sides of the bed or separate bedrooms, you will be ok – just as your marriage will be ok also.

The second myth is that the birth of the child makes you even closer with your spouse. Very often after the baby is born (especially if it’s the first baby) the spouses gain a countless number of subjects for conversations. Although all of them are connected to the baby one way or the other…

It seems like the relationship has risen to a new level, but then the husband leaves to work and the baby starts fussing or gets sick. The joy and amusement that this tiny being has aroused at first are gradually replaced with tiredness and irritation – what else can you expect after sleepless nights, nonstop breastfeeding, and diaper changes? Naturally, not a single decent mother will take her frustrations out on a baby, and the righteous anger falls on the one who happens to be nearby. And most often it is the beloved husband.

Our opinion: the birth of a child is above all a test of your relationship. Is there a solution? Yes. You should just accept the fact that all married couples go through a crisis and usually at the time when they expect it the least of all.

Furthermore, a woman needs help taking care of the baby – it is impossible to manage it on your own. The help and support of the loving husband do help a woman to not forget about the roles she has besides being a mother such as a role of a wife and a business woman. If a new mom still cannot even think about going out or is afraid to leave the baby with the dad, other family members, or a nanny, then do not rush things, let everything follow its course.

Another myth: a husband and wife should not only be in a romantic relationship, they should also be friends. It sounds great, doesn’t it? After all, a wife knows her husband better than anybody else, so why not consider him the best friend?

Our opinion: romantic relationship is different from a friendship. Do not have illusions that one person will manage to become a personification of both passionate love and fond friendship. It simply does not happen like that.

In other words, do not blame yourself if you do not feel a friendly attachment to your spouse – this is what you have your girlfriends/guy friends for. The important thing is to keep that connection with each other, and what you are going to call it is up to you. Always take an interest in your spouse’s life. When leaving in the morning, ask about your spouse’s plan for the day and when you see each other in the evening make sure to inquire about how the day went and how successful they were with their to-do-list.

The next myth is that unsatisfactory sex life is not a problem. The first few months after the baby is born, the hormones, exhaustion, and excessive irritability do not contribute to the improvement of your sex life, therefore you should not force things to happen. A husband should treat the situation with understanding and store up on patience.

Our opinion: at the risk of causing many young moms dissatisfaction, we strongly declare that it is exactly after the baby is born that sex is extremely important and even necessary to preserve your relationship.

When you are constantly busy, suffer from lack of sleep and chronic stress, when you see your husband only in the morning and late in the evening, sex is the quickest and the most effective way to strengthen your relationship, even if you do not any more feel that wild attraction that you used to feel when you first got married.

Also, do not think that good sex requires particular conditions such as romantic dinner, special atmosphere and privacy, otherwise you will wait for this "ideal moment" forever, which will serve you as one more cause for disappointment and stress. Do not wait for ideal circumstances, but rather use any opportunity you get. Learn to appreciate quick sex, it liberates and drastically broadens your sexual repertoire.

Another myth: do not fight in front of the kids. The sight of the parents fighting is awful and can traumatize the child’s nervous system. Small children unmistakably identify when you are irritated and angry (your mood transfers to them), and older kids watching their parents fight are scared that they can get a divorce.

Our opinion: watching the parents resolve a family conflict can actually be even useful for a child since he or she finds out that even the closest people sometimes cannot reach a mutual understanding. It is impossible to avoid conflict. If your family life is not clouded by disagreements then you have found your ideal partner. But ideal is so boring…

In other words, watching the parents fight is okay for kids and even useful. But there is one condition (as always). If your fight is taking place in front of the underage witnesses, you should fight by the rule. Instead of calling the spouse names, just express your concern to them in a civil way. Condemn the action (or the lack of such) and not the person. If the fight is too heated and solving it peacefully is not possible then try to make sure that the kids are not in the room.

And the last myth: do not take your other half for granted. This is the secret to happy and strong marriage, isn’t it? Once you start taking your spouse for granted, you stop appreciating them.

Our opinion: taking the other half for granted means trusting them completely, relying on them and believing that he or she will be there by your side when you need them.

It also means that you have taken on certain responsibilities and roles in your family. When you have a family and kids, being a absolutely sure in your partner only provides support and gives strength to your relationship. However, do not forget that taking the other half for granted and taking all the sacrifices for granted are two different things. A simple "thank you" works miracles.

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

The first stage is six weeks, also known as the time of maturing. So approximately after six weeks, she completely unexpectedly realizes that he is no Brad Pitt, that his brain size is inversely proportional to the size of his muscles, and the poems that he supposedly wrote himself are actually copied from Shakespeare. Disappointment is the name for this phenomenon when the pink glasses she used to look through at him are broken with a snap and the Prince Charming suddenly turns into a milksop. The person in love values the feeling of being in love that was awakened in him/her more than the actual person that they love. Sometimes even a little trifle such as the wrong touch in bed, his admiration of some popular modern singer or her completely innocent joke about his male merits, is enough for the relationship to start falling apart. If the feeling of being in love actually grows into real love, then such trifle things are usually not even noticed. Will the love story continue? It all depends on how big the difference between illusion and reality is and on whether he and she will decide that this relationship is better than what each one of them experienced before.

The next dangerous point is eight months, or the "is it a love affair or a serious relationship" stage. After an almost full year one of the partners notices that the other partner has completely accepted him/her into their heart. At this stage ideally the love affair grows into a solid and serious relationship. One of the characteristics of this period is making plans to take a romantic vacation together. Each partner gives up for good the previous love objects that were kept as fallback option. If asked will they now be together forever both partners answer yes. However, this is also the time when many couples break up because it turns out that they are incapable of sharing not only good times but everyday routine as well. Problems at work, bad mood, rainy weekend, unwashed hair, stomach ache and dull family holidays… The routine sucks in. The danger of one of the partners getting scared by it and running away during this stage of the relationship is quite big.

The next point is two and a half years, the time when the sexual trap slams shut. "Boogie woogie" – this is how the feeling of being in love has been described by the famous English writer Henry Miller. Exactly after two and a half years the production of the hormones of happiness and joy, phenylethylamine and oxytocin, starts to decline and along with it the sexual attraction starts to fade as well. In order for the hormonal explosion to happen again, you should… fall in love again. All in all, it is highly probable for the partners to run into separate corners, and it is a tough break for the relatively new relationship. However, the first alienation does not mean that you should break up immediately. It is only necessary to learn to keep a distance while maintaining the closeness at the same time. After a two-year symbiosis each person should have their own external experiences. Your own friends, your own activities, and weekends spent separately, can help become close again. It only makes it more interesting. Each partner will bring something into the relationship that they can share with each other.

After four years the relationship almost literally enters the period of the menopause of love. A lot of couples break up during this time. According to the anthropologist Helen Fisher, it is the biological heritage of the dawn of the humanity. After four years a child (as a rule a couple already has kids) does not require as much attention from the parents and can be put into the care of grandmas and nannies. There are no reasons for the parents to stay together and each patterns their behavior in a new way, becomes intimate with a new partner and has new babies. And this happens every four years. This principle has penetrated the human nature so much that it still takes place even if there are no kids in the family. Some psychologists interpret it a little bit different. When a child is born, a loved woman becomes a mother, a loved man becomes the provider of the family. The standstill prevails in the bedroom. This new distribution of roles is a tough test for love. But even without children, after four years of creating their nest the family collapses. They have been decorating their house for months and now when the last vase or curtain has been bought, they can not imagine what to talk about and what else to come up with.

The seventh year of the relationship is also known as the Bermuda triangle. So why is it that a lot of couples do not withstand the seventh year of being together? This is still the subject of argument among sociologists, psychologists, and doctors. And since there is no distinct explanation that has been found, this period of time is referred to as the mysterious seventh year. In fairy tales and myths the number seven is a magical number. The doctors talk about our bodies renewing every seven years. It is possible that the human mind requires the beginning of a new relationship every seven years. Often couples who want to split up at this time can not even explain why they are actually doing so. After seven years as a rule the life has settled in its ordinary grooves, the future is clear, and everything is ok at home. But the tight confines of stability become unbearable, especially for women, who have been staying at home for a long time, have been taking care of the household and the kids, and now want to go back to work for a change. They discover that there is still a chance, and maybe the last one, to build a career, besides just diapers, dishes, laundry and aerobics on Wednesdays. The prospect of the professional growth stirs up the female self-esteem. The former housewife wants to become an equal partner in her home, and many men do not like the sound of that.

The twelve year mark is often referred to as the last danger. Unfaithfulness, break ups, life problems, lack of money and professional failures… It would seem that after twelve years of being together everything or at least almost everything has been experienced and the test for stability has been passed with flying colors. So why do the veterans of family life still part with each other? There are no specific reasons for it, but just one of them all of a sudden starts thinking: "Is this really it? I imagined my life differently". Women get jealous of their girlfriends that got "more lucky" with their husbands, men want to start everything all over again. It is now or never! This midlife crisis might not be the last crisis to come, but it is definitely the most dangerous and the most difficult one.

If you’ve made past this point, then you are probably on the right track and only have many years of happiness ahead of you, if you are coming up on one of these then you now know about these milestones and can prepare for them.

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

As a rule, if a woman is unfaithful, it means that she is unsatisfied with her partner or she is looking for what in her opinion is lacking in the relationship elsewhere. Would an absolutely happy woman look for comfort in another man’s embrace?

Trust is a great thing, and we are talking about not the trust in your partner, but the trust in yourself and your intuition. Maybe you felt the change in the relationship or you noticed that your partner’s behavior has changed. No one deserves to be cheated on, regardless of whether you are going through a crisis in your relationship or not. If you suspect that your girlfriend or your wife is cheating on you, then it is time to dot your i’s and cross your t’s and confirm your suspicions or, hopefully, on the contrary cast them away.

First of all, pay attention to the obvious things – how does your girlfriend or wife dress up, is she trying to look better, has her communication style or her work schedule changed? Perhaps, she started frequenting the gym? Or maybe she is trying to hide her phone conversations, text messages or emails? Or maybe the intimacy has disappeared from your relationship? Or an unusual tension is settling in?

A wife’s unfaithfulness can cause a man a serious emotional trauma, which he might not be able to recover from for a long time, not to mention the fact that adultery can destroy the family.

Here are a couple of signs that can help you determine whether your partner is cheating on you.

1. She has all of a sudden changed her habits or changed her appearance. Out of the blue sky, a woman starts paying a lot of attention to how she looks. Every morning she very thoroughly picks out her outfit and accessories, spends a lot of time in front of the mirror, visits her hairstylist several times a week, and even purchased the membership to the fitness club, even though before she never paid much attention to her appearance and figure.

2. A woman has become emotionally estranged. Before you used to share all your problems and worries with your wife, and all of a sudden she lost interest in your life. She does not want to discuss your personal problems with you, retires into her own shell and reluctantly talks about her own life. She treats an invitation to have sex without any enthusiasm at all, remains cold in bed and overall prefers to slip out of the house the first chance she gets.

3. She is very reserved. She does not share her own troubles and worries, does not tell you about what happened at work. It could be that she is avoiding you all together because she is feeling guilty. Nevertheless, there is no need to act the part of Shakespeare’s jealous Othello – ask her directly if everything is all right and why is she acting so strange recently.

4. She has lost interest in the family’s affairs. If your wife does not meet you at the door after your work day any more, but instead continues to mind her own business, it is possible that your family life is under a threat. If your other half needs to leave urgently, try to find a reason to go along with her. If she refuses your company, try to insist to see how much she is opposed to your company.

5. She argues with you less and does not initiate the fights. Before the smallest reason was enough to make her lose her temper, for example you refusing to go out for coffee with her friends. Now your wife is an example of meekness and humbleness. She agrees with everything you say. Before you had to watch your every step, and now she does not even react to dirty socks scattered all over the place and the ashtrays overflowing with cigarette butts. Do not get too excited, such change of attitude does not promise anything good.

6. She talks more on the phone and email. She spends more and more time talking on the phone and she whispers or ends the conversation as soon as you enter the room. Maybe she has created a new email account without telling you anything. And maybe she even bought a new cell phone without letting you know. Ask her directly if she is lying to you or hiding anything from you. If you girlfriend or wife responds with accusations and not negation then she really is unfaithful.

7. She is constantly late. Before she never came home late, and now it keeps happening more and more often. Most often she explains her being late with an emergency at work. Or another case scenario – she goes shopping and comes back five hours later. This is definitely a good reason to get worried.

Marital infidelity is not that easy to hide as at seems at first glance. The feeling of guilt that the unfaithful partner experiences will always become apparent one way or the other – whether it is avoiding serious conversations or refusing sexual intimacy.

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

An orgasm is a complex psycho-physiological process, which is based on the corresponding processes in the brain. The stimulation of the brain’s specific zones of pleasure leads to an objective display of an orgasm. These zones are turned on under the influence of the impulses going through the female reproductive organs. The female’s body motor activity resembles seizures. In some cases the body tenses up and stretches out, the pelvis lifts up and the whole body arches supported by the back of the head and the heels, the hands tense up and stretch out, jaws clench, eyes are tightly shut. In other cases the body arches, wiggles, makes heaving motions, hands and legs make sharp chaotic movements, the head spins in all directions. All of this is accompanied with sounds effects (cries, screams, sobs, wails, squeaking of the teeth, as well as the sounds muted by the willpower or by the spasm of the speech muscles, moans, sighs, and so on). Sometimes separate words and incoherent phrases escape the mouth. A spasm takes place, which is quite an abrupt contraction of the muscles of vagina, uterus, perineum and other muscles of the small pelvis. Usually a young girl that has not given birth and has a well-developed muscular system has 2-3 strong spasms and several weak ones, which gradually die out. Women who have a weaker muscular system, are older, and have given birth have only one strong spasm and 1-2 weak ones. All of these spasms can be felt with the man’s penis. The increase of the discharge in the vagina sometimes is so drastic that the penis loses the feeling of the vaginal walls. In rare cases a large amount of fluid even overflows outside. During the orgasm the nipples increase in volume and harden (the nipple erection).

So how important is it for male and female sexual organs to be of matching size in order for a woman to be able to reach an orgasm? There has always been a significant importance given to the size of reproductive organs in sexology and in society. In reality things are way simpler. First of all, a successful sexual life does not require a penis of particularly large size. It is well known that a woman can experience four types of orgasms, three out of which (clitoral, vaginal, and perineal) do not depend at all on the size of male genitals. The fourth type of orgasm – the uterine one – requires the penis to be a certain length, but a quite moderate one, since the majority of women have their cervix situated relatively not deep. There are no correlations that exist between the overall size of the man’s body, namely the size of a man’s penis, and the size of a woman’s vagina. The anatomical non-conformity can take place only when there is an obvious vaginal pathology (its underdevelopment, scarry stricture due to previous injuries, burns, and so on). In all other cases the male and female sexual organs present a functional system, in which the vagina can stretch a great deal if a man’s penis is large, and on the contrary, it can contract and tightly envelop a small penis.

So what is a clitoral orgasm? There used to be a wide-spread opinion that this type of orgasm is characteristic for very young women, and as women get older the orgasm relocates to the vagina. However, it is not so. The clitoral orgasm can be characteristic for any woman regardless of her age, constitution, and so on.

In order to reach a clitoral orgasm the clitoral stimulation is necessary. Women, whose most common orgasm is a clitoral one, can almost never reach it if having sex in the most common missionary position. The clitoris remains outside of the area of stimulation. When having a sexual intercourse in the missionary position, the necessary stimulation of the clitoris is achieved by its contact with the dorsum of the penis, for which the penis should be inserted under an angle (top-down). It is possible if the distance between the clitoris and the vagina’s entrance is normal (about 1 inch). If the clitoris is located higher, the penis will not reach it. In this case it is necessary to either change the position or to apply small monotonous stimulating movements to the clitoris with your finger during foreplay and the sexual intercourse itself. The clitoris’ head is rich in blood vessels and nerve endings, therefore stimulating it with your hand should be very light and tender. Sometimes it is useful to use vaseline or to moisture your finger by inserting it into the vagina. If the clitoris’ head is too sensitive the finger stimulation can be transferred higher. These parts of the clitoris are hidden deeper and so the stimulation can be stronger. Women with the clitoral type of orgasm will not enjoy having sex from behind. The following position is way more acceptable: start having sex in the classical missionary position and then push the woman’s legs together, so that the penis was stimulating the clitoris with every friction. You can switch places – a man on the bottom, and a woman on top. The signs of the clitoral orgasm are a considerable increase of the clitoris’ size (an erection), and its temperature rising.

The second type of female orgasm is a vaginal one, or commonly known as the g-spot orgasm. The erogenous area in this case is the lower third of the front wall of the vagina, which requires a special technique consisting of the tight pressing of a penis to the front wall of the vagina during frictions. You can also practice small frictions that are not deep and affect only the lower part of the vagina, which would intensify the impact on the lower third of the front wall of the vagina. There are also cases of the combination orgasm or the clitoral-vaginal orgasm. To achieve it, try to simultaneously stimulate both the clitoris and the front wall of the vagina during foreplay, and to simultaneously stimulate both erogenous zones with your penis or hand during the intercourse.

To achieve any type of orgasm, it is necessary for the cavernous bodies of the clitoris to be filled with blood to the maximum, and the lower part of the vagina is covered with the muscles tightly connected to the cavernous bodies. When contracting these muscles, a woman not only intensifies the filling of her own cavernous bodies by contracting the base of the penis during the intercourse but also complicates the blood’s outflow from the cavernous bodies thus intensifying the partner’s erection and creating additional pleasurable sensations.

Unfortunately, these important muscles do not always work to their full potential. Some women have them low-power, and some women do not properly use them. The sexologist’s task is to teach a woman to use these muscles in both cases. The power of any cross-striated muscle increases with exercising therefore women should do a special sex work-out: flex the main vaginal muscle-constrictor over and over again on a daily basis.

The lower third of the vagina and perineal muscles play a very important role in the body. They form an orgasmic sleeve, the contractions of which (5-12 contractions with 0.8 seconds interval) create the vaginal orgasm. After an orgasm the vaginal sleeve and the walls quickly relax. With the vaginal form of orgasm a woman can experience pleasure in any position.

During the uterine orgasm the contractions of the uterus start from its bottom and transfer to the whole body. The strength of the uterine contractions equals to the strength of the orgasm. This orgasm is known for the so-called "suction effect", when the cervix "sticks" to the upper part of the vagina, after which the uterus goes back to the original position.

This type of orgasm requires the stimulation of the cervix. If a penis is not very long or if the vagina is too big, a penis may not reach the cervix. In this case, a woman should lie on her back and pull her legs to the stomach, which shortens the vagina considerably. Another option is for a man to lie on his back and for a woman to squat down on top of him. Sometimes the cervix is situated not in the posterior fornix of the uterus, but instead is facing forward. In order to put the uterus back into its place, you should change the position, so that a woman is lying down on her stomach or on her side. In this position the penis goes not in the posterior fornix, but in the front one. If a woman is obese, the coitus is only possible in the position when a woman is on her side with her legs strongly bent in her hip joints or in a classic Bozeman’s position when a woman is on her knees leaning on her forearms and a man is standing on his knees behind her, commonly known as doggy style. This same position is almost the only possible position to have sex if a man is obese.

The technique of the sexual intercourse to achieve this type of orgasm consists in a man carrying out deep frictions thus rhythmically stimulating the cervix and the posterior fornix of the uterus. Although you should avoid hitting the cervix too hard.

The fourth type of orgasm and a very rare one is the perineal orgasm. The nerve impulses start in the perineum when it comes into the state of vibration. Women with this type of orgasm sometimes experience it while riding a horse, a bicycle or a motorcycle. The technique of the sexual intercourse consists in stimulating the lower part of the vaginal back wall with the head of the penis.

So what happens to a woman after the sexual intercourse? The woman’s sexual arousal goes down gradually, and because of this women are sensitive to the men’s sexual indifference after the intercourse is over. There are a lot of complaints about men switching to routine conversations right away or even falling asleep. These complaints express the women’s need in the post-coition caresses. These caresses should not be of sexual nature and thus should not be about stimulating the erogenous zones, but on the contrary consist of the stimulating the non-erogenous zones of a woman’s body. The psychological content of these caresses is the display of gratefulness, tenderness, emotional relaxedness. At the same time during the post-coition caresses a woman is displaying her gratefulness to a man and her appraisal of him as a sexual partner. Every man during and after the sexual intercourse has a hidden need to receive the assessment of his actions from a woman. It contributes to his self-affirmation but at the same time a man becomes especially vulnerable to any kind of reproaches. This is why it is important that a woman expresses any concerns she might have about the foreplay and the intercourse itself at any time but not immediately after sex. At this time a woman’s assessment should be positive no matter what. Keep in mind that this is not only the concluding assessment of that night’s intimacy, but also the stimulus for the future. A man will always want to live up to the woman’s assessment especially if it was slightly above the objective evaluation. Of course sometimes life takes over and a husband or a wife still have to get up after just being intimate and go take care of the everyday stuff, but psychologically the best state of being after sex is sleep. A woman should always fall asleep before a man, resting in his embrace, and not the other way around.

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

So where would you look for a girl? Obviously not on the street, not on the subway, and not at a corporate party of the company you work for. In general any entertaining relaxing establishment like a bar or dance club will work. You are already there? Well, then look for a target. A single one of course. And an ideal one. For example, women with low self-esteem. Surprisingly enough, it is probably the best looking of all girls. So beautiful that men are too scared to approach her fearing she will turn them down. So do not follow their example. A very promising category is the category of the rejected and hurt girls. Her husband cheated on her, her lover dumped her, in other words the girl must pay back and self-satisfy herself in sex. So go ahead and try to demonstrate the maximum confidence in yourself and the results of the approaching night. Pay attention to girls who act confident about their appearance. The main indicator is the way they dress. Tight, bright, and short – this is the type to avoid. Unfortunately, sometimes there are also girls that dream to find their prince charming in the pub and get engaged with him right away. So if she starts talking about vacations together and the perfect curtain colors, remember of something very important that unexpectedly came up and retreat. One more category is the girls that fall too fast into your embrace – all they want is just have fun at your expense. Unfortunately, it’s pretty hard to identify them. Therefore just treat such blunders philosophically and don’t get hung up on it.

According to the international survey carried out in the USA and a number of developed European countries (the participants were 500 women and 300 men) 2/3 of women have had a one night stand at least once in their life. The majority was not too impressed with the results of such sexual experiments. Men had different statistics. More than half of those who participated in such sex activity claimed that it was way more fascinating than with a regular partner. For most women one night stand happened only once or twice in their life. Only 30% practice such relationship once or twice a month, 5% – once a month, and only 1% – regularly every weekend. However, the majority of women polled (64%) consider it quite an acceptable form of sexual interaction, and 17% presume that it would be more pleasurable than with a regular partner. For a lot of people though, the next day is the day of disappointment. 14% call all sex experiments unsuccessful, and 62% call unsuccessful the majority of such experiments. 40% of men meanwhile claim that they are ready for such sexual heroic deeds at any time. And 49% of polled men assure that they never felt disappointed with the results of such interactions. Nonetheless, 28% of men have a quite low opinion of women who agree to have a one night stand. Women who feel the same way about men who have one night stands amount to 48%. And 29% of them claim they would change their opinion about their girlfriend to the worse if they found out she has had or is capable of having such sexual relationship.

Now that you found the woman, it is important that she finds you. The research reassures – girls make the decision whether a man is interesting (and consequently suitable for sex) in the first 30-90 seconds of communicating. If she hasn’t lost her interest in you after that amount of time, consider it a score in your favor. The main thing is not to make a mess of things from now on.

A couple of unobtrusive and double-meaning compliments are great. But not more than that. If she even for a second gets an idea that she caught you, she will immediately start building plans for the future and will ultimately realize that having sex immediately is not the best start for this round. By the way sex statistics indicates that the chance of continuing the relationship after a one night stand does not exceed 1%, in spite of how spectacular the experience was. Try to adjust to her manner of speaking – slang, typical words, exclamations, gestures and so on. Make sure she has some alcohol for further relaxation. And no smart conversations about Schopenhauer-Monet-Heidegger. You can mention Freud and even then strictly in sexual context. For more persuasiveness and hypnotic effect do not weaken the eye contact. Only eyes to eyes! Along with everything else, it will distract her from unnecessary thoughts about the surrounding world and other trifles. Tactile contacts and dancing are very beneficial. As soon as she answers affirmatively to the invitation to move to the nearby bar or dance club, your chances for sex are approaching 90%. However, if after visiting the next-door bar/dancing she suggests to move to another one, then most likely you can forget about sex.

The ideal place for a one night stand is a hotel. There are motels that actually specialize in renting out rooms to passionate lovers for just one, two, or three hours.

If due to the excitement you all of a sudden develop some physiological problems, you can forget about having sex that night. No one is going to wait or feel sorry for you. Extreme Kamasutra positions with an unfamiliar partner are not very promising and are potentially dangerous. Also you can forget about taking initiative! Unless you are ok with missing out on a chance to learn a lot of new things about how other people do it. Getting your permanent partner to experiment can be quite problematical. And girls usually agree to have a one night stand so that they could implement into life their secret sexual fantasies.

As far as the risk of catching an STD, we don’t think there should be any special explanations… Although if a girl is not opposed to not using a condom, be extremely careful. She could have been not opposed the previous time too. And you can catch some filthy disease easily even while having oral sex.

Yes, a one night stand is a one-time sex experience, the participants of which part with each other as easy as they met. But do not rely on the girl to share the same rules of this game. You wake up and she is already gone, just crumpled sheets and a light smell of her perfume is the evidence that you didn’t just dream about last night. Pardon, but that is just Hollywood. Reality is way more mundane. So just remember a few rules. You really don’t need to know her name. Honey, babe, sugar, something appropriate and with her permission will do the job. And she doesn’t need to know your name either, let alone your last name. So do not go through her purse when she went into the bathroom. The less you know, the better you sleep at night. And make sure your documents are in some inaccessible to strangers place. Do not forget about the proverb: "The early bird gets the worm" (especially if you ended up on her territory). In ideal case scenario, you should get up before she does. Above all to avoid stupid questions like: "How was last night?", "Would you like a cup of coffee?", and "Would you like to meet up tonight?" If she actually woke up while you were trying to escape, the stupidest thing you can say is: "Let’s remain friends". What friends are you talking about? You were strangers before and you will remain such. Do not exchange phone numbers to avoid the temptation.

So this give you an idea about what a one night stand is and what rules you should follow to make it a pleasant experience for both of you. Go ahead and try this out, I bet you will not be disappointed!

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1. Voice recognition. The easiest way to tell if a girl is faking is by her cries and moans of pleasure. Knowing how much it turns us men on, a lot of women consider it their duty to cry and moan in bed regardless of whether they feel an orgasm coming on or not. Men reassured by such vocal support are always happy to accept it for its face-value. However, if the girl’s moans are pretty monotonous and repetitive at approximately the same interval of time, then you are definitely at a recital, which is being given in your sole honor. And it doesn’t matter that it’s already 2am and the whole neighborhood is listening to it.

What to do: adjust to the moans’ rhythm and penetrate her maximally deep exactly at those moments when she lets a moan out. If you do everything right, pretty soon she will sing a completely different song.

2. Breathing exercises. If you are absolutely sure that a girl is enjoying herself under you, but you notice that her breathing is as if she is sleeping – even and steady, then something is wrong with such orgasm. Everything should be quite on the contrary: an aroused woman breathes loudly, deeply and haltingly, as if she just ran a mile.

What to do: deflect your attention away from the reciprocal motions and again (if you forgot about it at the very beginning then for the first time in the evening) give her a long and gentle kiss, caress her neck and shoulders passionately with your hands, going down to her breasts. After such a pit stop the results will definitely improve.

3. The indisputable evidence. An orgasm is accompanied with a number of physiological signs clearly described in medical literature. Namely: a woman at the peak of the arousal closes her eyes, throws her head back and curves her neck. She is experiencing a flow of blood to her face as a result of which she gets a light redness in her cheeks. Sometimes the mouth twists as when you have a sharp ache, and the pupils narrow. If you haven’t noticed any of the mentioned symptoms of an orgasm, and a girl still sticks to the story that she experienced an orgasm, most likely you are being fooled (although for sure not out of the best motives).

What to do: as trivial as it sounds, most women even if they experience an orgasm regularly it is due to the clitoris stimulation. Concentrate on it without withdrawing from her and without stopping what you’ve started before.

4. Evoke a response. When you are inside of her and she is experiencing an orgasm, you will definitely feel at least a short but very distinct vaginal walls’ contraction. In some cases it is accompanied with convulsive twitching of arms and legs. If you did not notice anything like this, perhaps you didn’t manage to get through to her.

What to do: choose the most comfortable for both of you position for penetration. Withdraw almost all the way from her and then penetrate her for the whole length of your penis. Alternate this tactics with a series of strong frictions, which should be carried out almost without withdrawing your member outside. Usually the results of such deep penetration are obvious after just one or two minutes.

5. Biased interrogation. When a woman did not experience but faked an orgasm, she will not admit to it for anything. Therefore if you decide to question her about what she likes the most and how would she want it to happen, then preferably you should do it still at the stage of foreplay. If it is your new girlfriend and you are planning to have sex with her for the first time, such kind of probing will definitely come in handy. Some girls like it when it happens quick and forcefully, and some require a minimum of half an hour of slow and tender sex to reach an orgasm.

What to do: the important thing is not to turn such conversation into interrogation or exam. Practice finding out her secrets without pressure, so that you could pleasantly surprise her later.

6. Successful positioning. If she regularly climaxes every time regardless of what position you do it in, it really sounds like she is leading you on. Only 30% of women are capable of experiencing an orgasm from vaginal sex only without any additional stimulation. Therefore it is not very humane to make love all night in the standing up position or doggy-style, since when you move you do not touch her clitoris with your body.

What to do: help her! With your hand or with a vibrator. At the same time don’t forget about synchronizing both rhythms – friction and clitoris stimulation. If you accelerate then accelerate simultaneously in all areas.

7. Excessive promptness. If after having sex she rushes to the bathroom or immediately goes for a smoke on a balcony, then most likely she did not receive any pleasure from what just happened. If a woman experienced an orgasm, she will need at least a couple of minutes to recollect herself and get going. One of the most tragic disappointments that a girl can experience during sex is when you all of a sudden went limp and settled down right before the very finish line when she was so close to climaxing. So if you feel the orgasm is close but understand that it is a little too early for her then get out of her.

What to do: continue to arouse her with all the methods you know, so that when she is close to orgasm enter her again and experience an orgasm together.

Now that you read all the signs of her faking an orgasm, it should never be part of your bedroom… She will not have to resort to faking it any more!

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"How could you forget?" – is one of the main female complaints to men. Before you even know what she is talking about and have a chance to open your mouth, as you hear: "You must not love me". Even if a woman is wise enough to not say it out loud, she often thinks that way and asks herself a question: "How can I make sure he remembers important dates?"

The Japanese who are experienced in the communication rituals decided to simplify the task and invented a special device – a ring-alarm. At the date programmed beforehand it will start sparkling and buzzing, reminding the husband about the day when he had the first date or first kiss with his wife. You can manage with a regular organizer or a reminder on your cell phone. But all of these devices due to the same forgetfulness that got you in trouble in the first place can be left at home or in the car and then in the evening a real storm is awaiting.

There are a lot of jokes and proverbs about female memory. We all think that female memory is no good. However, research provides us with not such definite results. As little children, girls actually remember numbers and solve math problems better than boys do, since their hippocampus, the major component of the brain responsible for memory, develops much faster. By 15-17 years of age boys catch up with girls and both genders have their memory functions reach the maximum level of development. After that a gradual decrease takes place, which is the most apparent in women by 25-29 years of age and in men by 30-35 years of age. Therefore the claims about female memory being bad have grounds when it comes to women but not young girls. And even then if we look at different types of memory, it turns out that women remember faces better than men, especially female faces (some psychologists think that this peculiarity has appeared so that women could remember and destroy their rivals), as well as verbal information. And the latest research modestly presumes that male memory overall is actually noticeably worse than female memory.

No scientific data consoles the woman, whose husband forgot to congratulate her on their wedding anniversary. And the problem is not the memory itself, rather it is the spouse’s different attitude toward certain events, due to which they remember them differently. It is more important and convenient for a woman to lean on an exact date and constantly go back to it through remembering, making a note of and celebrating it. Such repetition and recurrence of processes is familiar to women since it goes hand in hand with the menstrual cycle, which constitutes the basis of female identity. For a man going in circle like that is not common, he orients himself in a linear way: the past has passed and the future is ahead. It is important for him that the event took place and when exactly is not important. Besides, for women everything connected to the relationship constitutes the area of personal achievements, it signifies her status as opposed to male nature to pay more attention to career, income, and large purchases. That is why a woman remembers better the day she met him and a man – the model of the car he was driving. This difference creates ground for mutual irritation. When the partner does not remember what’s important for the other person, he/she takes it as disrespect to them and lack of their values’ understanding. It is doubtful for women that you have genuine feelings if you did not even manage to remember the name of her favorite cat or her birthday over many years of living together. In the majority of cases it is sufficient to take gender differences into consideration in order to solve the problem and not to demand something from your partner that he or she are incapable of doing.

There are certain things about mutual memories that will be kept better in the memory of a man or a woman. For example, men are good at remembering facts and numbers, and they do a good job of orienting in the area: there are a whole two genes that are responsible for that compared to zero in women. Women on the other hand have bigger brain lobes that are responsible for emotions. Therefore, for example, when we remember the road, men and women use different strategies and landmarks: men remember "the second turn right" and women remember "the café on the corner that sells yummy éclairs". Thus a man can not remember what you were wearing at the date, but if you ask him where the date took place and where you went afterwards he will definitely tell you. And remembering the aromas of the flowers that were blooming at the time is a woman’s share of responsibilities to maintain the relationship.

Sometimes an unpleasant memory bothers a person, painful pictures literally rise before our eyes, endlessly reminding us about what happened – whether it was a serious loss or a small mistake. This way our memory wants to do us a favor so that if we have to face a similar situation again we could react faster and better. If on a date with a new guy you can not get rid of the memories of your ex-husband, your memory should only be praised: it wants you to be on the alert and not do the same mistake twice. Psychologists recommend "rewriting" the story of your life by purposefully extracting positive memories. For example, if you feel shy about public speaking, try to find as many situations from the past as possible where the speech was going well and you felt relaxed and alert.

Memory serves people as it can, even when it makes us forget something. When the circumstances are too unpleasant or difficult, the defensive mechanism of repression gets activated, which was discovered by Sigmund Freud. In the classic example from his memories he is talking about how after renting a place at the same spot for seven years in a row, Freud only remembered two restaurants nearby and did not notice the third one point blank. It turned out that the name of the third restaurant resembled the last name of his colleague, with whom Freud had tense relationship. Based on the long lasting self-research and work with patients he came to a conclusion that the repression can explain forgetting names, appointments, and promises. And even after 100 years we can confirm the truth of his statement that in all cases the basis for forgetting something lies in the motive of reluctance. It is easier to blame everything on forgetfulness rather than directly sort out the relationship.

However forgetfulness should not be always blamed on dislike. With age human memory gets worse as a rule, and it is related to a variety of reasons – first of all the worsening of the brain function. As a precaution we should lead a healthy lifestyle, be out on the fresh air more often, swim in a pool, try to absorb positive emotions from the surrounding world. We should make sure that we do not undergo constant stress and are not constantly overloaded – since it can lead to emotional burn out, which in turn manifests itself as a worsening of memory, the information we receive slips our memory instantly.

Besides taking care of your health and well-being in general, we should also give ourselves a healthy load. After 30 years of age complaints about forgetfulness are due to the fact that a person stopped training his or her memory and it got "out of shape&quot. In high school and in college boys and girls receive new information and memorize it daily, and therefore the memory is constantly "toned". When work turns into routine and every day resembles the other one, the load on memory gets automatically reduced and therefore it needs to be trained. American scientists have found a pleasant way of improving your memory. It turns out that elderly people who drink three cups of tea or coffee and two glasses of wine every day have better memory than those who refuse themselves that. There are of course more sober ways. Do not rely on the organizer but instead remember phone numbers, foreign words, poems, and most importantly do it on a regular basis.

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1. Warm-up lap. The more energy and time you spend preparing your girlfriend for cunnilingus, or oral sex, the more results your efforts will bring. A bubble bath with rubber toys (not a vibrator, just regular ducks!) can serve as such preparation. Let her get into the bath and blissfully remain motionless. After a couple of minutes you can bust in there yourself, take off your underwear, yell out: "Look who is here" and jump into the water. Then start with a light and unobtrusive petting: stroking, kissing, and massaging.

2. Once the underwear is gone. After you dry up after the bath, proceed to creating an intimate atmosphere. Everything like in romantic movies: candles, semidarkness, clean bed sheets. The essential condition of an orgasm is a long and right foreplay. When she starts to passionately rip the clothes off herself, lay her in bed determinately, plant a long kiss on her lips and then go down south.

3. Clitoris science. We are not going to go over what clitoris is and where it can be found. We will just make a note of the fact that girls are not mass produced at some factory, they are all very different, and their sexual physiology is not an exception. Some have their clitoris higher, some have it lower, some have their clitoris deep in skin folds, and some have it stick outside. In other words, there is no single universal approach for all girls. Obviously, the sensitivity is also different for everyone – the deeper the clitoris is hidden, the less it is in contact with the outside world and the more tender and thorough treatment it requires. The main thing is not to attack a newly found clitoris as a five-year-old boy who just got a robot-transformer. Start with slight tongue movements along the labia and around the clitoris, gradually constricting the radius of action until you are on the home straight. When your tongue is concentrating on the clitoris, use one hand to caress her breast, and the fingers of the other hand to slowly enter the vagina.

4. Power of silence. The best way to find out if you are acting right is to talk to the girl. Of course if you ask her she will say: "Yes, I feel great" or she may not say anything at all. Therefore ask her to take your hand into hers and masturbate with her hand so that you could feel what movements and where she likes the best.

5. Broaden the horizons. A clitoris is not a magical button that guarantees an orgasm. Do not concentrate too much on it, because it can actually be painful for her. There are a lot of other interesting things down there. You should broaden the area of applying your mouth and fingers. In fact what we are used to calling the clitoris is in reality just the head of the clitoris. The clitoris’ shape actually resembles the penis, except for its body is not outside but inside under the so-called hood. Feel about for the clitoris and squeeze it together with the top endings of the labia between your fingers. You will feel something resembling a wire – this is the body of the clitoris. Try to masturbate it like you would your own penis, only much slower and more careful. She will experience completely special and incomparable sensations that she is unlikely to have experienced ever before. Now you can rightfully demand a generous reward from her.

6. Tongue fitness. Your tongue is a muscle, and just like all the other muscles it can get tired from intensive work. Therefore it does need training. Try to keep these exercises a secret from your girlfriend.

Exercise #1. Take a ripe plum and squeeze it between your palms. Try to crack it and get the stone out of it with your tongue. The tongue’s movements should at least roughly resemble those that you perform during cunnilingus. The goal is not only the strength, but the skill also.

Exercise #2. Take the "Tic Tac" drops, squeeze one between your lips and start to suck it into your mouth and let it go back. Your goal is to achieve the maximum range of motion so that the drop would at the same time remain squeezed between your lips. When you master this trick, add the tongue and lick the drop with circle motions.

Exercise #3. Squeeze any round lollipop with your teeth and try to drill (or to be more exact lick) a hole in it with your tongue.

7. I will give you a slapping. Many of us think that the clitoris can only be licked and rubbed. With all our heart we feel sorry for those boring and limited people. Put your palm on her pubis with your fingers facing down and slap the clitoris gently with your index finger. This will cause a flow of blood and will increase her sensitivity. Keep in mind that you can do it not only with your finger but with your tongue also. After 15-20 seconds change the tactics. For example, move the skin folds adjoined to the clitoris apart put your finger on the clitoris and start rotate it as a joystick. One more option that is also good for the beginning is to fully strip the clitoris and blow (or breathe) on it, after which you can proceed to your normal procedures with your tongue or wet finger.

8. Let’s go! It’s time to show the whole power of your tongue. Its muscles are very active and mobile but very few people use all of its capabilities. As a rule a lot of people limit themselves to unoriginal movements of the tip of the tongue. You should try something different. Run the wide middle part of your tongue over the labia so that you could completely cover it. Do several motions like that and then focus on the clitoris area and massage it with the tip of your tongue. Now try alternating these motions. Gradually concentrate your attention on the clitoris more and more. In order to diversify your entertainment program, flex your tongue as hard as you can and try to insert it into her vagina.

9. The main reflex. Remember exercise #2 with the "Tic Tac" drop? It’s time to use this trick on a girl. Part the skin folds on the vagina as much as you can so that the clitoris was naked, take it with your lips and slightly pull it in. Then the same way as described in exercise #2 add the tongue. The main thing is being very tender and careful. Before this of course get her ready by using techniques from point 8.

10. Happy end. Watch her hips movements. But only watch, do not copy them. By moving she is trying to adapt to your movements’ rhythm and to position herself in the most comfortable and pleasant way. Just keep going the same thing in the same rhythm. Change one movement with another only when she is still. Do not clutch at her feet or anything else with your hands, give her the maximum freedom of movement. You can put your hand on her stomach: the flexed abs is the first sign of the oncoming orgasm. At this point you should forget about any experiments and keep doing what you’ve been doing up to this point – in the same rhythm and in the same range. When she reaches the long-awaited orgasm (most likely you are going to feel it either by the muscle contractions or by the deep breathing, or by the moans and cramps) – wait until it is over and stop. You do not need to do anything else, otherwise you will cause her unpleasant sensations.

Now you can relax your tongue and stretch out on the couch. It’s her turn!

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2010 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

So what is love? And how is it explained that it always comes unexpectedly and everything that until recently has been so important – career, money, reputation, responsibilities – becomes so meaningless? All we need is love, and nothing except for love…

From the standpoint of logic this feeling is beyond analysis – we love because we… love. And that’s it! Philosophy explains this feeling differently. Aristotle attributed love with one of the original energies of the human body. Plato perceived love as an "unearthly flower", as a mystery, touching which does not yet mean comprehending it.

Contemporary scientists explain the origin of this unearthly phenomenon as the effect of biologically active substances and hormones, which have the properties of natural opiates (constituents or derivatives of constituents found in opium) – drugs in a sense. In part they originate directly in the cerebral cortex of the brain as well as in sex glands and suppress the parts of the brain responsible for fear, negative emotions, criticism, and stimulate the pleasure center. So what about the heart, you might ask? Does it have anything to do with love? The answer is the very chemical one. People in love are actively producing the brain hormone called adrenalin. Once it gets into the blood stream and to the sinus node of the heart, it accelerates the heartbeat and creates a special rhythm of being "in love". The symbol of people in love – the red heart – has nothing in common with the person’s heart. It owes its origins to the couple of swans swimming towards each other against the background of the bright red sunset.

The fact that love is an absolutely not controllable phenomenon is known to everyone who has ever been in love or is in love right now. There are many examples when a man adored by beautiful and talented women gets married to a woman that does not stand out in any of her qualities. At the same time the man concentrates only on the subject of his passion without noticing anyone around him. It turns out that even in such a critical process as choosing a partner our feelings are controlled by the biologically active substances called pheromones, which are responsible for sexual attraction and arousal. This theory has been confirmed by an experiment including 840 women, carried out by the scientists at the University of Birmingham. The scientists sprayed one out of ten chairs with the extract containing male hormones and offered each woman to enter the room one after another and sit in the spot that they liked. As a result 810 women chose the chair with pheromones and they could not even explain their choice. And it is understandable since unlike the perfumes, pheromones have no actual smell and affect the person’s subconsciousness. By the way, the summer short-lived intrigues and stormy romances at the resorts are related to nothing more than the influence of these chemical combinations. If you are sweating excessively, pheromones start to be actively produced and drive men and women crazy, forcing them to forget everything and plunge into love with full force.

Love can be different for everyone. Some grow wings, others experience real torments. We experience the most intense stress from a romantic love. A glance, a touch, the sound of the voice, all of these set in motion the hormone of desire called dopamine and activate the pleasure center in our brain. This leads to a whole variety of feelings ranging from uneasiness and fear to absolute happiness. Scientists assert that romantic love usually lasts anywhere from 18 months to 3 years. It can last even longer if there is a real obstacle in the relationship, for example one of the partners is married or the love birds live in separate cities. Any obstacles to intimacy extend the romantic love and make it more intense. According to scientists, it is the romantic feeling that is the hardest to let go of.

When the pleasure gets delayed, the brain continues to activate the dopamine-based system thus intensifying the feeling of love. If the brain does not get what it wants, pain and suffering take place, or in other words unrequited love. The person in love is beside themselves with anxiety and can easily reach a state of a nervous breakdown. Some people are capable of overcoming this condition over a relatively short period of time, others suffer for years, decades, and some even until the end of their life. All of this takes place under the effect of chemical combination called phenylethylamine. It lulls the rational thinking center’s vigilance and activates the part responsible for feeling dependable on the object of desire. The situation resembles the game of roulette: first the person is overtaken with euphoria, then the willpower is paralyzed, and the more the person loses, the stronger the dependency becomes. The same thing happens with love: the harder the road to a beloved one’s heart, the stronger the dependency is.

Mutual love lacks the passion described above because the feelings are controlled by the hormones called endorphins. The people in love feel good together, and all they want is to stay along with each other. And as far as feeling absolutely happy and the surges of tenderness toward each other, they happen when there is another hormone that joins the endorphins called oxytocin – the hormone of desire and procreation. Oxytocin is released into the blood stream by hypophysis (the small gland at the base of the brain) and activates the procreation instinct at the expense of provoking the craving for physical touch and contact.

By the way, most biochemists have come to a conclusion that we can truly fall in love with only one person. Thus God has programmed an ideal partner for each one of us. Our task is to find him or her and remain together. But this is already not up to chemistry and biology.

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Most of the smokers justify their habit by the supposedly calming effects of a cigarette. But psychologists strongly disagree with that opinion. According to them, the calming effect is caused not by the influence of tobacco smoke and nicotine but by the sucking reflex. Just think about it: a newborn baby calms down as soon as he gets Mom’s breast or a binky. The adults who want to quit smoking are not advised to regress back into childhood, there is a different recipe for them. Doctors advise those who suffer from emotional overexcitement and insomnia to drink a glass of warm milk or other liquid through a straw. Calmness and sound sleep are guaranteed.

The American scientists are trying to give a status of a medicine back to nicotine. They came to a conclusion that this substance can be beneficial if used correctly and in accurate dosage. They have noticed that smokers suffer from depression 50% less often and have tried to cure the non-smoking patients from this illness with the help of a nicotine patch. After 8 days the depression started to give ground. The American Journal of Psychiatry has published the results of the research confirming that nicotine’s reaction with oxygen forms a nicotinic acid. This new derivative does not represent the poison any more, but rather the vitamin PP. Its effects on the human body are versatile: it calms you down and improves your mood, as well as stimulates the brain activity, motor function, and memory. Vitamin PP in the form of injections has been used by doctors to treat neurological patients. In other words, the scientists have concurred that the nicotine molecule should be modified in such a way that its effects are preserved but at the same time it did not cause a painful addiction such as smoking.

The medical dictionary describes the term nicotine as an alkaloid contained in plants of the solanaceous family – primarily in tobacco, as well as in tomatoes, potatoes, eggplants, green bell peppers although in much smaller quantity. However none of the dietitians to this day have raised the subject of these vegetables quantities being potentially harmful for our health if consumed in large. Scientists have come to a conclusion that it’s not the nicotine or tobacco overall that is harmful, but the tobacco smoke. When it enters the body and cools down, it turns into resin, which accumulates in airways and paralyzes the cleansing process. Doctors specializing in lungs diseases consider this the main reason of oncological and many other illnesses – the lungs get more and more clogged and practically do not get cleansed. Therefore passive or second hand smoking – inhaling of the cigarette smoke – is no less dangerous than active smoking.

The doctors have a term "the face of the smoker": deep lines leading from nose to lips, a net of small wrinkles in the corner of the eyes, hollow dry cheeks, sharp-cut cheekbones, and yellow-grey complexion, as well as the same yellowish color eyes and teeth, brittle hair with split ends. Of course such signs do not appear right away, but after several years of regular smoking. The recent twin studies (25 pairs where one twin smokes and the other one doesn’t were selected) showed that the skin of smokers is 25-40% thinner than those of non-smokers. The more you have been smoking, the less collagen (the main protein of connective tissue) and elastin (a protein connective tissue that is elastic and allows many tissues in the body to resume their shape after stretching or contracting) it contains and the worse its ability to restore. However the scientists reassure us at the same time: if you drop the harmful habit, the face complexion and the hair condition improves. The main thing is not to delay the decision making process, since the longer a person smokes, the longer the period of the reverse transformation.

According to the psychologists, the heavy smokers can be put into a special category of people – adventure seekers. Consciously, and very often unconsciously, they want to get a charge of adrenalin, disregarding the potential danger. By the way, the cigarette manufacturers don’t mind playing on it: a lot of cigarette commercials are related to extreme sports. No matter how serious and presentable the smoker seems on the outside, on the inside he or she is an eternal teenager. Therefore, when you chose them as a partner in life, think twice: do you really need this perpetual child with big ambitions and demands and reluctance to think about tomorrow?

Those who smoke the so-called "light" cigarettes are genuinely convinced that they harm their health less by doing so. The amount of nicotine in light cigarettes is indeed lower than in the regular ones, but our body experiences the same burden as from smoking regular tobacco. The reason for that is that the manufacturers of tobacco actively use various chemicals that are contained in each cigarette. They are hard and sometimes impossible to be excreted from our body. The resistance of some of them is simply impressive. For example, the chemical called dichloro-diphenyl-trichloroethane (DDT) was widely used on tobacco plantations at one time. The ban of its usage has been passed almost 30 years ago, however up until now the remaining of this substance is still found in the soil and dried out tobacco leaves.

The very few of the future moms are ready to give up the harmful habit for the health of their baby. For example, in the US, where more than 2/3 of women older than 15 years of age smoke, even among those of them who are getting ready to become mothers, the majority are the smokers – 52-55%. In Great Britain 43% of pregnant women smoke, in Australia this number is 33-40%. Only 9% of the European women say that they are ready to give up the cigarettes if they find out that they are pregnant. Meanwhile, a smoking pregnant woman deprives her child daily of the considerable portion of oxygen and nutrients. Therefore even still in mother’s womb the baby lags behind other kids when it comes to height and weight, besides smoking poses a threat of the baby being born prematurely.

The doctors have been talking about the harm of passive smoking for a very long time. According to the data of various researches, diseases like dust and pets fur allergies, food allergies, stomach illnesses and even teeth cavities can be caused by the kids inhaling cigarette smoke. After many factors were analyzed – the kid’s age, gender, place of residence, the family’s financial situation, nutrition – the scientists have come to a conclusion that the kids of those parents who smoke even if they were born healthy, later on in life suffer from the above mentioned illnesses as often as those kids who have genetically inherited them.

We can count over a thousand of advices and methods on how to quit smoking. However those who suffer from this problem are not too lazy to constantly add to the list. The original method has been proposed by one of the English designers – an ashtray that can wean you from cigarettes. It can weigh the ash that goes into it and based on it display a sinister number – a number of days lost because of smoking. According to the creator, this method is based on the principle of saving just like with money: the less you have, the more careful you are about spending it. With the only difference that the health resources are not that easily replenished.

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1. There is little good in frozen or canned fruit and vegetables. It is astonishing, but frozen and canned fruit and vegetables can sometimes turn out to be better for you than the fresh ones since they are frozen or canned right off the field. As we all know, an immediate freezing is one of the best ways to preserve vitamins. And fresh produce has to travel a long way before it makes it to the store. In order for the vitamins to survive till the moment they get into your body we should unfreeze the produce as soon as we possibly can and cook it in water only. Canned corn, apricots and gooseberries contain no less vitamin C than their freshest version. The trick is to pick out not the ones that are canned in marinade or syrup, but rather the ones that are canned in water or their own juice without any added sugar or artificial coloring agents.

2. Drinking wine every day is a sure way to become an alcoholic! As a matter of fact, quality wine can protect your body from bacteria, stimulate the digestive gland’s function and the production of hydrochloric acid which balances the acidity level. For example, the popular tradition to follow oysters with wine has emerged because of the fact that this delicacy is often contaminated with colibacillus, and there is no other method to neutralize these bacteria that would be more pleasurable. Also when you are traveling to tropical countries, adding a little bit of wine to your drinking water will help you prevent problems with your stomach or intestines. Wines are classified according to their effects: white dry wines are recommended if you have atherosclerosis, red table wines are great at toning you up, and muscat wines act like sedatives. Hence, we should make it a rule to drink half a glass of wine at dinner (you can dilute it with water) in order to combine business with pleasure.

3. Eating right before going to bed is unhealthy. The work day of a modern person has a tendency to end later in the evening when seemingly dinner is strongly not recommended. However, the dietitians have recently discovered something that is good news for those of us who like to have late dinners. There has been a survey done involving thousands of men and women: half of them were eating as late at night as they wanted to, and the other half was not allowed to eat anything after 6pm. It turned out that after two years of this experiment the participants of the first group did not gain an ounce of extra weight. In other words, as the result of this research it has been proven that the time of your meals does not have any effect on the process of losing weight! Thereby, night raids on the fridge are no longer forbidden, although there is still one condition: instead of reaching for doughnuts and fried chicken in the middle of the night, go for low-calorie yogurts, fruit and vegetables. It is even permissible to drink white wine. In other words, the quality and quantity of the food you choose for your dinner is more important than whether you eat it at 6pm or at midnight. Furthermore, the doctors assert that we should eat before going to sleep since the acid required to digest food is produced by our body at night and it should not irritate the mucous membrane of our stomach. The same doctors strongly advise to give preference to dairy products right before sleep.

4. It is good to chew gum after you eat. In spite of the mass advertising, the dentists are not too excited about gum. Although it does indeed refresh your breath, it is hardly a means of hygiene of the oral cavity. Scientific data about positive effects of gum on the teeth’s condition is true only for a limited range of gum containing fluoride. Gum containing sugar is equal to candy when it comes to the calorific value and destructive impact on enamel. As far as the rest of types of gum, you should know how to chew gum correctly, when and how long in order to avoid damaging the periodontium tissues. It is recommended to chew gum no more than 3 times a day for no longer than 3 minutes. Note that chewing gum for a long time causes an excess amount of gastric juice and since there is no food that actually goes into the stomach it can harm its mucous membrane.

5. Eggs contain a lot of cholesterol. Our grandfathers and grandmothers, who used to be big fans of eggs when they were young, restrict themselves from having this dish for breakfast as they get older fearing that their cholesterol level will increase. Similar threats have been all over newspapers and magazines devoted to health topics in the last decade. However, scientists today say that it’s not the eggs that are to blame but the saturated fat that is practically lacking from them. Therefore one egg a day is permissible to anyone, especially since eggs are a source of protein and if meat and fish are not very frequent in your daily diet then you should definitely give eggs more importance. Besides an egg has a very low amount of calories – on average about 60 kcal. It also has a ton of nutrients: vitamins C, B, D, and E, iron, phosphorus, iodine, and even zinc. And if you are so concerned about the cholesterol level in your blood, then you can control its balance independently by consuming a large amount of foods rich in starch such as rice, pasta, fruit and vegetables.

6. Pasta is the main enemy of a thin waist. Over the last several decades this myth has been depriving the ladies who were trying to stay slim like a pencil of one of the biggest delicacies – pasta. They wouldn’t even believe the graceful Sophia Loren who has been urging the ladies to go ahead and fearlessly devour the Italian delicacy. Today dietitians all over the world repeat what the actress has been saying and recommend including whole wheat pasta into our daily diets. Pasta does a great job filling you up and even a pretty big portion of it has a low amount of calories. On top of that 100 grams of good quality pasta contains 13 grams of protein and only 1 gram of fat. And of course there is a variety of nutrients in this overseas delicacy: B vitamins, which lower the fatigue, vitamin E, cellulose, which contributes to getting rid of toxins.

7. The fat contained in nuts leads to excess weight. Most of us are convinced that fat foods are of no benefit. Unfortunately, quite often we can find nuts, including almonds, on the black list. However dietitians assure us that almonds have more benefits than harmful effects. If you regularly consume unsalted nuts then by nourishing our bodies with vitamin E we can slow down the body’s aging. Besides almonds, similar to olive oil, contain monounsaturated fat as well as magnesium, which makes arteries healthy, and potassium, which lowers the blood pressure. American scientists have discovered that eating almonds decreases the risk of heart diseases. As far as the main reason of doubts – the stoutness almonds supposedly cause, strangely enough you can actually lose weight if you substitute other fat foods in your daily diet with almonds and maintain a low-calorie fruit or vegetable diet overall.

8. Sweeteners are way less harmful than sugar. The reality actually turned out to be different. If used for a long time some components of sweeteners have a negative effect on our health: acesulfame provokes a crisis if you suffer from heart failure, and cyclamate – if you have any kidney problems. Besides almost all artificial sweeteners have a bile-expelling effect and therefore people who suffer from illnesses of biliary routes, for example cholecystitis, can experience a worsening of their condition. As far as natural sugar replacements (fructose, xylose, sorbitol) when it comes to their calorie content they are equal to the original. Fructose is considered the most innocent, since it has the least negative side effects compared to the rest of sweeteners.

9. Snacking right before a big meal is bad. Since early childhood we remember as our mom would scold at us for sneaking a bite shortly before an actual meal. However if it’s still a long time before dinner but you are already starving, you can allow yourself a couple of snacks that you do not have to cook, all you need are the proper products on hand. The first ideal method to take an edge off your hunger is to have some grapes or a couple slices of cheese. They contain calcium and useful acids. The second sure choice is ham with carrots and celery. You can stock up on bags of raisins or other dried fruit that should be followed by a glass of orange juice, which contains a lot of vitamin C that will help your body digest the iron that grape is so rich in.

10. Chocolate can only cause trouble. Those of us who love chocolate do not have it easy with all the stories about how unbelievably fast you gain weight after even one chocolate bar and how much acne you get on your face after just a couple of candies. In reality chocolate is very beneficial. First of all, cocoa beans contain a special substance that improves the function of heart and vessels. Thanks to this substance your blood pressure goes down, the blood’s coagulation improves, and any inflammation processes stop. Secondly, chocolate contains an anti-infective agent that suppresses the development of bacteria that cause dental cavities. Thirdly, the amino acid contained by chocolate contributes to serotonin’s production, which is also known as the hormone of happiness. The only thing that all the specialists emphasize is that we should give preference exclusively to dark bitter chocolate, which contains minimum 75% of cocoa.

11. Ice cream only leads to sore throat, extra pounds and bad teeth. Ice cream has always been taboo because of its consequences such as toothache, sore throat and so on. However, it is ice cream that is referred to by the doctors as the sweet psychologist. Ice cream takes us back to the serene childhood. And the natural tranquilizer called tryptophan found in cream calms down the nervous system. We shouldn’t be scared of a toothache: the unpleasant sensations, which are caused by eating ice cream, are just a reaction to its low temperature. And even the sore throat is only a myth from childhood – adults are actually advised to eat ice cream as a preventative means against sore throats.

12. Eating raw food is a great way to lose excess weight and improve your health. Eating raw food does have a lot of benefits: there are more vitamins that the body receives, our body cleanses itself faster, and the weight goes down. However, the flip side of eating raw foods is not so bright. In order to become a raw food eater you need to be absolutely healthy – if you have any deviations from perfect health such as allergies or colitis, eating raw food is strictly prohibited. The cellulose of raw fruit and vegetables negatively affects the mucous coat of esophagus (an organ, through which food passes to the stomach) and the acids they contain destroy the enamel of the teeth. And although a certain portion of nutrients dies in the process of cooking, our body digests the vitamins that remain after thermal processing ten times better, for example carotene from carrots. Such vegetables as eggplants and beans contain poisonous elements, which become harmless only after being processed in high temperatures. Dietitians recommend practicing eating raw foods as a preventative technique – on average it should last no more than 1-2 weeks.

13. Beer leads to gaining weight. Choosing between wine and beer we often give preference to the first due to one simple reason – fear of beer belly. However, as strange as it is, beer is not that high in calories: 40-50 kcal for 100 ml is not the highest ratio out there (for example, soda pops have the same calories ratio). Plus good quality beer practically does not have any sugar or fructose, which negatively affect our body compared to soda pops that are abundant in it. Beer, if consumed in moderation, can actually be a beneficial product. If you limit yourself to one glass of beer a day, you can stimulate the gastrointestinal tract’s function (the system by which ingested food is acted upon by physical and chemical means to provide the body with nutrients it can absorb and to excrete waste products), slow down the body’s aging and lower the risk of cardio-vascular illnesses. And by the way, doctors in Middle Ages used to cure toothache with beer, you just had to rinse your mouth with a slightly heated up liquid.

Now that your myths about food have been destroyed by new science perhaps you can finally get the perfect diet, one that is unclouded by myths of the "superstars" or old untested ideas, but more importantly one that will help you get that sexy body that you have been working for so hard.

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1. What detective story has no chase? In reality everything is simple – you are not a target of the hunt for her any more, but a trophy. No matter how much attention you are going to pay to her or how many lacy panties you are going to give her, you will only cause pity and not passion. Sometimes it wouldn’t hurt to exchange care and concern for a slight coldness. Of course kicking the door in with your foot and yelling: "Where the heck is my dinner" is not a good idea, instead make her doubt you a little bit. For example, stay late at work a couple of times. A woman will feel the stability flowing away from under her control and it is a sure way to flare up her desire. If you play your cards right she will react to your coldness with double portion of passion and tenderness.

2. Touching relationship. The meticulous scientists have discovered that people are capable of getting strongly attached to each other. As if it was such a big secret before the scientists discovered it. However the professors assert that this is not due to the delicate emotional structure, but rather due to the hormone oxytocin – it is thanks to this hormone that we gladly accept the touch of the people we love. Provide regular overdoses – touch, caress, kiss, but let it be not connected to sex in any way (although you can rightfully call us cruel here). Just make it a rule to touch your partner every time when it is physically possible. And if she asks why all of a sudden you are acting like this, just tell her you are making sure she hasn’t run away. A light touch of the hand, a hug, and a relaxing massage – all of these will make her captivated, strongly addicted to a completely harmless drug – your touch.

3. Our life is a game. The same scientists have also discovered another hormone – dopamine, which is responsible for our sexual idyll. Consequently, the higher the level of this mysterious hormone, the more sexy your idyll is. One of the best ways to get charged up on dopamine is the feeling of excitement. Take her to horse racing, go gambling, try to get her interested in football. In the worst case scenario, you can easily organize the competition at home and wrestle on the carpet, and finally settle the question of who is wearing the pants in the relationship. In other words, do not let your girl relax, fill her life with the spirit of fight and competition. And she, easily deceived, will not fail to pour out her emotions that night.

4. She leads. Can you believe it that the female rats from University of Michigan have demonstrated a much higher level of dopamine in their blood when the initiative in sex belonged to them, and not to the male rats? To be honest we did not peep at the female rats of the University of Michigan, if it was up to us we would much rather detect the dopamine’s level of human females of the University. But scientists, who continue to please us with their unpretentious conclusions, say that people have not gone far off from rats. Therefore give the girl an opportunity to display initiative and the quality of your sex will increase by several times. And if it doesn’t – present all your claims to the female rats of the University of Michigan.

5. New positions. Experiments in bed are not only an opportunity to experience new sensations, but also a great way to keep your relationship colorful. Handcuffs, whips, and home videos – use anything, the point is not to limit yourself to your bedroom and the two classical positions you’ve known since high school. However our scientists remind us that any experiment should end with a conclusion, and if you did not enjoy experimenting that much on the balcony in the winter under reassuring shouts of people walking by then maybe you should not do it again.

6. Time machine. Several months of regular sex are quite enough to thoroughly learn each other’s bodies. Such knowledge naturally shortens the time of foreplay. Do remember though that at a certain point you will become two monotonically copulating rabbits. We personally do not see anything bad with rabbits, but such approach will definitely not have the best effect on the keenness of sexual sensations. Devote a couple of hours to just caresses. Delay sex until you have no more strength to endure the torture.

7. Pause. The romance of teenage relationships when you insanely want her and are too scared to touch her is what apparently drives any girl crazy. Scientists advise to start off with a three day break in sex. Of course it’s easy for them to say, they could probably be absolutely ok even with a three year break, and here we are talking about a shock therapy for any regular guy. And this is not even it. After that the scientists recommend having a night of teenage heaven – "parents are out of town”, so make out, hug, but do not dare take your cloth off. After another day you can both touch each other’s various private parts. Next day train your lips and tongue. And finally, after a couple of more days of abstinence, you can jump on each other and tear each other apart.

These are the 7 simple rules that are guaranteed to bring a spark back into your relationship. Try a few of these and you will love your sex life again or why not try all of them and have the kind of sex that you could not even imagine was possible.

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In order to avoid the decrease of sugar’s level we should be on the lookout against slowing down of the reactions of glands producing adrenalin, which will lead to the sugar contained in the liver being discharged slower. We should take measure against weakening of the liver, which will allow the excess sugar to get into bloodstream. Another thing to be concerned is the ability of the pancreatic gland to adequately react to the need of. If it produces too much of it, it can lead to the excessively fast disintegration of the sugar contained in the blood. Poor diet is another big factor, especially the consumption of products that contain too much refined carbohydrates. There is an especially high amount of them in regular sugar. Therefore the diet containing an excessive amount of regular sugar negatively affects the reproductive system. And although it is true that the abundance of refined carbohydrates in the digestive system’s organs will temporarily increase the energy level of the body, you can lose these sexual attributes in just fifteen minutes because of the intense production of insulin. Consuming regular sugar will lead to your emotional and physical condition resembling riding on a swing – a huge rush of energy is followed by a deep depression and apathy.

The diet for lovers takes into consideration the fact that the Americans, the Europeans and the inhabitants of other industrial countries are exposed to the influence of several thousands of toxic substances, polluting our environment and causing negative pressure on our liver. Besides, this organ, responsible for cleansing our body, is also negatively affected by the large amounts of protein. The diet containing foods with an increased amount of protein would not be suitable for people trying to improve their sexual life, especially if the problems of the sexuality are connected to the liver’s malfunction.

Some low-protein and low-carbohydrate diets can cause double pressure on our body, if they do not do the right distinction between simple and complex carbohydrates. White sugar being a simple carbohydrate is dissolved in the blood very fast. Therefore avoid using refined or concentrated sugar. Whole grains, beans, seeds, nuts and other complex carbohydrates that have complicated molecular bonds break them gradually and dissolve in blood gradually over the course of six hours. Such long time allows the newly produced glucose to penetrate the circulating systems of the body pretty slowly and constantly. Consuming foods containing complex carbohydrates and a little amount of protein in combination with a little bit of fats and oils will slow down the absorption even further, and the level of sugar in the blood will increase even more gradually.

There have been quite a few books written about how excess weight leads to sexual problems. It is advised to both genders to get rid of the excess pounds and acquire the healthy habits of eating. We should be eating fewer fats and sugars and add more dietary foods rich in fiber.

Thousands of couples suffering from obesity experience traumas connected to sexual incompatibility. Some sexologists see the direct connection between obesity and divorce. Overweight men contain a high amount of estrogen in their blood, which often leads to impotency. The main male hormone is testosterone. The liver produces the substance called globulin, which binds this hormone, but if you are overweight estrogen interferes with this process causing testosterone to get released rather than get preserved. This lowers the level of testosterone in the blood, and as a result the sexual drive decreases and a lot of times disappears all together.

In order to solve the problem of the lack of sexual drive we should get rid of the excess weight. And this can be achieved by fasting for at least five days. Fasting consists of three stages. During the first stage you will have to overcome the feeling of hunger. The second stage involves saying no to consuming and cleansing your body from those substances that cause an allergic reaction (it is ironic how many people are addicted to foods that cause them allergies). During the third stage, you will feel a huge surge of life energy and health since all the symptoms and side effects of the previous stage are gone. Usually the first stage lasts a couple of days. The third stage starts approximately on the fourth day. It is on this day that you will experience the peak of your sexuality. A lot of men and women report fasting to be an excellent remedy to increase the sexual drive.

During the fast you should drink a lot of water, at least 2 quarts a day. When you feel extremely hungry, try to take a couple of sips of water and it should help suppress your hunger.

Due to the fact that our body doesn’t have to process and digest food during the fast, it gets rid of all the toxins accumulated before, which have been depriving it of energy. During the first several days of fasting you can have the signs of toxic poisoning since during this time our body releases all the accumulated toxins into the bloodstream. The feeling of being healthy comes when these toxins are discharged from our body through skin, kidneys, lungs, intestines and liver. After that you get a feeling of your sexual strength increasing and you get an appetite… not for food, but for sex.

Another natural way to increase the level of sugar in the blood is to consume the nutrients that are necessary for the metabolism of carbohydrates, namely the group B vitamins and chrome. Eat often but in small quantities. Chew slowly since it is the first step on the road to good digestion. Try to avoid stressful situations. Practice meditation or other relaxation techniques. Devote more time to physical exercises. All of these activities will help your metabolism and digestion of everything you consume as well as contribute to the natural increase of sugar in your blood to the level suitable for your sexual needs.

As far as more specific guidelines on which foods to consume, try to cut down on beef, lamb, and pork to no more than three times a week, instead eat fish and chicken. Limit your use of salad dressings and other fats, the less of them you consume, the better. Avoid frying when you are preparing your meals. Eat a lot of fresh fruit. Limit the consumption of eggs and cheese. Try to limit or completely exclude caffeine from your diet by avoiding tea, coffee, cocoa, coke and other such drinks. Cut down on alcohol. Limit the usage of salt and sugar, instead use their replacements. Try to eat small portions of various foods six or eight times a day, rather than three big meals, which will help minimize the amount of calories you consume. Do not overeat. If you are trying to get rid of excess weight, eat only when it is absolutely necessary. Avoid drinking during your meals, instead drink half an hour before or half an hour after. Always eat a good breakfast full of protein to ensure slow release of energy into your body throughout the whole day. Stay away from sugar-coated or dried fruit. Actual fruit is preferable to fruit juices since it contains fiber. However, three to four ounces of fresh natural fruit or vegetable juice is preferable to coffee or herbal tea. Cultivate the consumption of dairy. Avoid refined or processed foods containing white sugar and white flour. Limit your consumption of canned or packaged foods, fried or salted nuts, candy, chocolate, gum containing sugar, ice cream, jams, jelly and other foods in this category. Quit smoking.

These are some general rules you should follow if you want to stimulate your sex drive, but even if this is not your main purpose, sticking to these rules will definitely contribute to a long and healthy life!

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2009 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

1. Don’t ask her to swallow. In the majority of cases it is unacceptable. According to the data of a conducted survey, only one out of four women swallows the sperm. And many of those who do it, being forced as a rule, often leave their partners. This is what one of the women said when asked about swallowing sperm: "At the early stages of our relationship it was a certain display of love. But then I stopped doing it, and he also never asked me about it ever again. I don’t know why I stopped liking it, but just thinking about it makes me disgusted."

Other women do not like the taste of sperm, which is so odd that can cause negative associations. One woman compared it to the taste of bleach. However, at will, you can change this taste. Medical specialists advise to switch to a light diet consisting of fruit and sweets 12 to 14 hours before a sexual intercourse. Exclude spices, onion, garlic, coffee, alcohol and sour foods like ketchup for example. Then your sperm will acquire a sweeter taste. If you want to check the effectiveness of such recommendations, ask your partner to serve as a degustator.

You should be aware that swallowing the sperm can lead to more serious problems than just an unpleasant taste in her mouth. According to the data of medical research, about 12% of women have an allergic reaction to male semen which leads to rashes, nausea, itching and even fainting. And you thought she was swept off her feet and was losing consciousness because of your incredible sexual abilities.

2. Take a shower. What smells good, feels good to put in your mouth. Women do consider this issue quite serious. This is what one of the women said when asked about it: "Men, do not go to bed until you wash your penis. And don’t ask me to even bow my head that direction if you haven’t washed yourself down there." If a washed penis still not doing it for her then peek inside your fridge. We strongly believe that the popularity of oral sex is to be thanked for the production of whipped cream!

And one more important factor. Perhaps, you have seen on a multiple occasions the star of a porn movie grab the woman by the head and force his penis inside her mouth. Do not do that in real life under any circumstances. This is what women had to say about this: "Do not hold my head. You can let me know that you want me to take it deeper into my mouth, but don’t make me force it inside my throat." This is absolutely unacceptable since it causes vomiting reflex. Besides, she will get a feeling that you are controlling the process. Instead of that follow step number three.

3. Freeze from pleasure. Give her the freedom of action. Be attentive. The only thing required of you now is to lay still and enjoy. Only in porn movies you can see men who make some vigorous movements during this process. In reality women love to perform oral sex exactly because a man is fully in their power. And this power is just a part of the pleasure. The other part is to see and hear how you receive sexual pleasure. As the surveys reveal, when she hears you getting aroused, her arousal increases as well.

4. Tell her that you really enjoy it. It is very easy to do, but a lot of men do not do it. The majority of men just lay their silently and only at the very end let a quiet moan out. Here is a woman’s perspective: "I like to have oral sex with men. My current partner turns me on the most. He always moans with pleasure and I can understand his sensations. It really turns me on." Another comment: "I would like to receive a confirmation that it is pleasurable. It gives me confidence in myself." And lastly: "A positive reinforcement always inspires. Tell me that you like something and I will do my best to bring you tremendous pleasure. Tell me if you are getting close to an orgasm, reassure me." Words or moans are very important, especially if your partner does not know you very well yet. Otherwise she simply will not be able to understand what exactly you like. And definitely save several warm words for her to tell her after everything is done.

5. Share your sensations after everything is over. Women think it is great when a man tells them about his sensations. For example, I like how you were doing this or that. The more details you mention the more women get to find out about how to bring you pleasure.

These are the main five rules. So go ahead and enjoy the best oral sex of your life!

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2009 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.

Today the number of couples who turn to medical specialists for help due to this problem has increased drastically. Doctors advice to think about closeness and not about sex as it is not the same thing. For example, let’s take the analogy from the world of things: modern TVs have the picture appear on the screen as soon as you turn it on, but not a lot of us know that even when the TV is off it draws a certain amount of energy from the circuit in order to be constantly ready.

The point of this analogy is that we should not expect that the desire will constantly remain at the high level without the slightest efforts on our part. Unfortunately, the reality is everyday life lacks romantic air causeing the desire to gradually fade since the partners get used to each other. The complete unity achieved by making love is like an antidote against the "poison of habit". Only intimacy gives you the confidence to freely talk to each other about anything and everything.

When a patient complains that they are bored since he/she knows everything there is to know about their partner, very often it turns out that these partners have not even been really talking for the last 2-3 years. For example, a woman that has been married for 10 years developed a crush on her coworker and was really worried about the fact that she is more compatible with him in the emotional aspect than with her husband. It turned out they even had the same favorite movie. And when the sexologist inquired about her husband’s favorite movie, she became flustered and couldn’t even answer the question.

So as much as you think you know and feel your partner, your knowledge can turn out to be out of date. After all, there is not a single day without new impressions and experiences.

Business women have a lot of problems. Women like this think: "I’ve worked hard all day, and if I just hug him and cuddle with him, it will not end there…" For some reason she thinks that there is no way her partner will understand how she feels. And tenderness does not necessarily mean sex and usually a simple touch is more preferable than keeping physical distance.

When it comes to sex, the biggest difficulty is that couples assign too low of a role to it in their hierarchy of priorities. And sex should be an indispensible constituent of their everyday life. Some protest saying that the spontaneity is killed by regularity: what if one of the partners will not want to have sex when the assigned time comes? That’s excellent! Use this time to just talk or play cards. Frequent sexual intercourses may not be that necessary for healthy relationship, but you can not do without emotional closeness, which actually sharpens the appetite for sex.

Communicate more! Some people don’t exchange a word about their feelings and emotions for years even though they live together. I doubt that a man would try guessing at the restaurant what steak, well done or rare, his woman prefers, he would simply ask her about it. It is inconceivable though how many people wait on their partners to figure out all on their own their preferences when it comes to love making.

It is very useful to refresh the happy days in your memory. Intellectual stimulation and closeness are as necessary for a person as sex is. Indeed, if you try to figure out how and why you were first attracted to your partner, then most likely you will come to a conclusion that your love started not as a physical attraction but as an attraction to a personality in all its aspects.

Surprise each other! Have you heard about a man who’s been married for a very long time and who preferred to have sex on his right side? It was the only position he could watch TV in. How are jokes like this born? Allowing distractions to interfere with one of the greatest pleasures in life is simply blasphemous. Of course complete predictability can bring all desire to nothing, but it is not necessary to be so predictable.

People usually smile when asked about the time when sex life has brought the most happiness to them. They start telling stories about trips and long walks on the weekends. But when asked about when was the last time they did that, they can’t even remember.

There is a tendency to discuss your best impressions from love making without using the sexual terms. The arousal was created more by the environment or certain circumstances rather than by some sexual techniques. Compare the best moments you’ve had in the past in your current relationship to what it is now. You are very likely to find a difference in your prior activities, talks, walks, unhurried lunches together. If you are trying to rekindle the desire today, think about it: maybe this new stage in your relationship that you long for so much is just a well-forgotten past?

Be realistic. Couples that suddenly find out that they can function without sex can find some comfort in the fact that their situation is far from being unique. Although it is hardly a reason to rejoice… Therefore stop looking at life through pink glasses hoping that in a strong relationship sexual attraction will always remain as strong as at the very beginning of the relationship. The statement that in successful marriages sexual interest to the partner grows over time is not true.

Try to look at the situation from your partner’s perspective. Sometimes sexologists offer their patients to role play to help them experience the feelings and emotions of the "other half". For example, a man irritates his partner by constantly hugging and kissing her while she is making dinner or doing laundry. She keeps telling him to leave her alone but the persistent macho doesn’t. The doctor offered this couple an exercise in which a wife is trying to seduce a husband to make love while he is trying to do some serious task. He got the point right away.

Each couple has to experience what is called "the scissors of the desire" or in other words the inconsistency of his and her desires. If one of the partners is constantly lacking sex, he or she should offer the other person to take the initiative into their own hands for some time. This too will help to see the situation from another person’s perspective and understand his/her behavior. Switching places from time to time is actually very useful!

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Julian Sagan writes for a Penis Enlargement Products company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2009 http://www.xlhealthypenis.com. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.