You know how it feels to be dissatisfied with your sex life? Sick of getting excuses from your partner to avoid sex? Don’t know how to make sure your woman is satisfied every time? A lot of people go through the same frustrating experiences and have given up hope for any changes. You can prevent this from happening if you know the secret to pleasing a woman.

Wouldn’t it make our lives so much easier if we could just read women’s thoughts as Mel Gibson did in his movie “What Women Want”. That would be every man’s dream come true! No more wondering how to please her, trying to read her mind, figuring out if she means what she just said or is it one of those times when she means something completely opposite, and definitely no more disappointments in bed for either of you.

It’s hard to argue with the fact that men and women function and think different, which makes communication tough sometimes. She left a dried rose from the bouquet you gave her a week ago on your desk as a clue to take her out to her favorite “Rose Room” restaurant and you understood it as she wants more flowers. Sounds familiar? Miscommunications like this happen all the time. Women expect men to know exactly what they want without even knowing it themselves. Sounds like an impossible mission to me. Don’t give up however. Although all women are unique and require a different approach, there are certain things we all can do to keep our women happy and satisfied, and our sexual lives exciting and full of passion. So here are the 5 easy steps to a happy relationship:

1. Feel Confident About Yourself. The biggest myth of all times is that all women want a huge penis. Absolutely not true! In reality being big can sure help to satisfy her, but you can be an average size and still be the best lover she’s ever had. So put those negative thoughts aside and start feeling confident about yourself! The feelings you project will play an important role, so even if you’ve had nothing but disappointments in your sex life recently, get excited for the coming up evening and get ready for the best sex of your life!

It’s definitely easier to feel confident when you’re more than average size and have no problems with erections. Something you could do to help boost your confidence is penis exercises. They have no side effects and if performed consistently will give you rock-hard erections and promote penile function overall. You can find these exercises online by searching in Google for “jelqing” and “kegel”, or go to http://xlhealthypenis.com/exercises.html.

2. Set the Mood. It’s the little things that get you points with your partner – send her flowers to work, bring home her favorite chocolates, take time to listen to her even though you might not be interested in that subject at all, never miss the chance to compliment her, tell her she looks stunning tonight… You won’t believe what a huge impact it will have on your sexual life! A woman needs to feel the emotional connection with you before she will be ready to take the next step of getting intimate.

Also important for setting the mood for a night of seduction and passionate lovemaking is the right kind of music. A lot of us make the mistake of choosing the overused songs that have our intentions of getting her into bed written all over it. I suggest music without any vocals and with a rhythm to it. Choose something unique that she is unlikely to have heard before, use your imagination!

3. Great Kisser is a Great Lover. Many women will decide whether they will have sex with a man based on his kissing abilities. A lot of us use kissing as the prelude to sex, and that is the biggest mistake. Don’t try to rush through the kiss, take your time, and fully enjoy the long passionate kiss. Hold your lover firmly, but gently at the same time, don’t cause her any pain. Make sure that your partner is comfortable and relaxed. Don’t only kiss her lips; spend some time kissing her eyes, cheeks, neck, ear, chin. Also don’t let your arms just hang there; there are so many exciting spots they can explore. You could touch her face, wrap them around her waist, rub her back. And most important of all – don’t forget to breathe!

4. Take Care of Her. The first time your objective is to completely concentrate on taking care of your partner. You have to make the experience satisfying to her, that is of course if you want her to come back for more. Many of us underestimate the importance of foreplay and oral sex, while a lot of women on the contrary find it more intimate than intercourse itself.

Make sure to give her a preview of what she’ll get at the end and move on to her other erogenous zones. Particularly sensitive spots include breasts, nipples, nape of the neck, shoulders, inner thighs, buttocks, behind the knees, ears, and feet. There are different forms of sensual touch you can use, such as kissing, caressing, licking and so on. Making her wait for oral sex will increase her desire, but make sure not to overdo it, observe your partner and give it to her at the right time.

5. After sex. It’s no secret that the two things guys would prefer to do after sex is take a nap or have a snack. Women are very different, and although it’s impossible to put them all into one category and say that each woman likes one certain thing after having sex, cuddling definitely seems to be the most popular preference. Hug her, wrap your arm around her, rub her back, or even take a shower together. Sometimes little things like this can make all the difference. Whatever you do, make sure you give your partner some attention first.

So now with these steps in mind, pick up the phone and call your loved one. This will be the night you both won’t forget!

About The Author
Julian Sagan is the CEO and owner of a Healthy Penis Enlargement company. Dedicated to providing factual information about various penis enlargement methods available on the market today. Copyright 2007 Julian Sagan of Healthy Penis Enlargement. This article may be freely distributed if this resource box stays attached.